1, practice self-affirmation. When two people fall in love, they will have a deeper understanding of each other, and gradually begin to discover more shortcomings of each other, thus having doubts about their love, gradually losing their sense of security in love and becoming insecure in front of lovers. So this self-confidence wavered and began to affect the love of two people. Always believe in yourself, believe that you are unique, be more sure of yourself, accept the shortcomings of your lover, and learn to be tolerant. Even if there are emotional differences, you can handle them calmly and solve them well. 2, open your heart When there is a gap in love, indifference is the easiest way to make feelings unbalanced, and there will be no dawn when waiting. Only by working hard can we control our happiness. In love, problems such as desire for control, contact frequency and different places are often the fuse for couples to quarrel. You know, anger will only make things worse. Only when two people open their hearts and communicate seriously can problems be solved, barriers be eliminated and love be restored to its former sweet state. There are other hobbies besides her. Nothing makes life lose its romantic feeling more easily than having no other hobbies except your partner. Cultivate a hobby! Doing what you like can bring more happiness to your partner in the process of enriching yourself. For example, learn to play golf, practice favorite sports, write books, learn to play table tennis, go back to school to continue studying or read new books. As long as you don't just pay attention to your feelings, do something. In other words, cheer up! 4. Enjoy your present life. Have some ideas about your relationship, but be flexible. When you are with your partner, pay attention to him. Many times, we think about the future, what this relationship will look like in six months, one year and five years, rather than enjoying the present life. We should believe that everything is going well. Enjoy our journey, no matter where we live, it is our ideal place. 5. supplement spiritual food every day. once some friends fall in love with someone, they will forget their spiritual value. Everyone has his own way of doing things and does not need to obey God. After all, his way may mean that this relationship is not in line with your imagination. Five tips to keep love fresh 2 First, grow together. At first, two people can attract each other and come together, which is the result of the same frequency vibration. After marriage, two people still have to grow up together. Marriage is the training ground of life, and both sides should strive to keep the spiritual level close. Second, appreciate each other. There are no exactly the same two leaves in this world, and there is no intelligent life with such precise structure and complicated ideological activities, and you had your own growth background before you met. It's normal to have different views on things. Things always have two sides, and the other person's different opinions can be used to improve yourself, provided that you respect this difference and learn to appreciate each other. Third, avoid complaining. If you want to complain, you can always find reasons; If you want to do something, you can always find a way. It is the same for two people to get along. The key is to see what you think. Understand more from a positive perspective, think about problems from a constructive perspective, and care less, you will be happier. Fourth, be more humorous. Family is not a place to reason, not to say that families don't need to reason, but that feelings are more critical to the maintenance of marriage and family. Besides, living at home, many things do not involve the principle of right and wrong. Humor is a kind of wisdom in life. Good use of humor between husband and wife can lubricate the relationship and resolve conflicts. Zeng Guofan said that a person should "feed a spring" and have a vibrant heart. My understanding is that a vibrant heart must have humor. 5 tips to keep love fresh 3 Silence is better than sound. Even if one goes out early and comes back late, and one stays up all night, you can leave a note to greet each other. For example, a fragrant lip print is enough to make his heart surge. Collect more interesting dynamic expressions and working hours. When your fingers are too busy to pull out, at least send an image to make him feel that you are still thinking about him. When you sing a song to express your love for your partner or your close karaoke, dial the phone and sing a love song to him affectionately. When you express your feelings by singing, you don't delay socializing or working, saving time, effort and money. A day's love begins in the morning. Don't waste your beautiful makeup. When going to work by subway or in traffic jam, send him a multimedia message. I can't see him, but seeing a beautiful image can also make him happy. It may only take a few seconds to give your lover a nickname, but a "Baoyu" can contain multiple emotional colors such as "I miss you", "I love you" and "I want you". What are you waiting for? Send a postcard when you are on a business trip. Send him a postcard across the hotel as if he were going with you. It only takes a few minutes. Quarrel is not the only way to vent. If you are too busy to quarrel, it is better to use MSN signature to express your dissatisfaction euphemistically. "I fell asleep, I was hungry, and I got lost." Hints are far more effective than endless accusations. Love sometimes needs "takeout" to work overtime in the dark, so that you don't have time to eat together? Call 400 toll-free to book a pizza package and enjoy a short party. "Label" means that I only need to pay a few tenths more for loving you, and I can buy an extra couple watch or couple shirt when shopping. Love is sometimes so "silly and naive", and a token can convince people: hey, we love each other very much. There aren't many calls, but if you have the heart, you don't have time to pay attention to his eating and drinking, Lazar? As it happens, men are actually afraid of gossiping about "Aunt". Instead of calling several times a day, just say "good night, dear" before going to bed. Proper consideration and care will make him more useful. Five skills to keep love fresh. Contact at least once a day. Would you feel happy if you received a short message from your partner every afternoon? Maybe you will meet in the evening, but he will keep this habit anyway, even if it is only a few words. This short message has become an emotional bond between you, letting you know that he still thinks of you in spite of his busy schedule. What can move you more than this? This practice is very common among couples with strong relationships. They won't let each other lose touch, even for a day. In modern society, the pace of life is tense and the work pressure is great. It is very likely that two people will not see each other for several days in a row. Whether it's phone messages, emails or even small notes on pillows, they just want to express that although we can't meet, our hearts will always be together. Don't force her to do what she doesn't want to do. One of the best ways to make your lover angry is to let her do what you want her to do. So, don't expect her to blindly follow your instructions and let her do what she wants happily. And always think about what you can give, not what you can get. She will notice your efforts to make her happy, and she will make you happy in her own way. Third, resolve negative emotions, expand social circles, and have a wide range of interests. When his mood is at a low point, he usually doesn't look for someone to complain, but does his favorite activities to adjust his mood, so they give people the impression that they are approachable, have no sense of oppression, and get along with him more easily and happily. Then he is bound to have a group of friends with the same hobbies, and new friends will join him constantly. If you can participate, you will gain something. Not all relationships have no ending. Love, or love, is always sweet When people meet, it is fate, so we should cherish it. Heart to heart is love, be sincere; Love and love are one, that is, understanding and frankness; People are connected, spoony, beautiful and touching.