I believe that every girl wants to be a charming girl in the eyes of boys, especially in the ambiguous stage, how to maintain the attraction to ambiguous boys?
First, improve the sensory impression of boys
It is said that men are visual animals, and they can't move their legs when they see beautiful girls! Although this is a bit exaggerated, it is not unreasonable. If there is any advantage that girls can attract boys' attention in a short time, it must be beautiful, which can directly bring boys' sensory impression.
Of course, not everyone can be born with a handsome face, so girls must learn to take care of themselves!
Simply speaking, learning to make up and wear can obviously improve your sensory impression.
But looking good is only the foundation. If you only have a beautiful face, you may attract the attention of many boys, but you can't attract a boy for a long time, because everyone will get old, and even before a woman gets old, men will be bored with you.
If appearance is only the basis of sensory impression, what is the higher order?
It is your self-cultivation, your self-confidence, your humor and so on, which can leave a good sensory impression on you, thus enhancing your attractiveness index to the opposite sex.
The ancients said: There are poems and books in my stomach, but now most people are pursuing quick response and achieving their goals quickly. Few people can calm down, just like I always say, how many people can really persist in cultivating their hobbies?
Second, be good at using boys' ambivalence.
What is ambivalence?
Simply put, the more people can't get it, the more attractive they feel, and the more others reject your heart, the more they yearn for it!
Therefore, to learn to make use of people's psychology is actually what is often said as suspense, but this is not to be hot and cold, nor to let you hang on to boys, but to play a little mind on some small things!
I believe that everyone is basically responsive to the person they like every time. Every time you chat, you have to have nothing to say before you end. You have to meet an appointment or even skip work.
After a long time, of course, the other party will feel that there is no challenge. What should I do? For example, when the other party asks you to do something, you can try to say yes at random or make a small request to the other party. When the chat reaches its climax, you can selectively end the chat and leave the topic for tomorrow.
It is to ask the other person to guess and touch your mind, so that boys have a sense of expectation to contact you.
You should know that people are very contradictory. He wants to be simple and smooth, but also wants to see your high standards in the process of contacting you, and to prove that he has the ability to reach your high standards, and this is in line with the boy's natural desire to conquer.
However, the reality is that many boys regard their kindness to girls as their only advantage, so girls take it for granted after a long time.
Many girls, on the other hand, will regard their gender as their only advantage. What will be the result?
Is that once a boy has sex with you, he loses interest.