How did you come up with this idea. First of all, you already have concerns, this is already the first layer of the divide... Whether the in-laws are good or not, it depends on how well educated the other family is and how well they deal with people. Generally enlightened people won't mind foreign daughters-in-law anymore, as long as you yourself can do what a daughter-in-law should do. To weigh between responsibility and freedom, to take responsibility for the family and not to let go of freedom, this is not only the requirements of the Chaoshan mother-in-law, is the requirements of all mothers-in-law! Everything lies only in you! "Patriarchalism is the national condition of China, but in Chaoshan area it has also been considered as the old time culture, now it is the new era, the era of the younger generation"