For example, on Valentine's Day, Japanese people like to say "the core monument of life" and "Yi Li". Do you want to give "the core monument of life" chocolate or "Yi Li" chocolate? The core monument of life is the person you really like. If you accept your life chocolate, you have the intention to associate with each other, and if you accept your life chocolate, you can give it to your colleagues casually, which represents a kind of etiquette.
Except for Valentine's Day, it seems that I don't usually say the word "the core monument of life". So don't just remember the word "the core monument of life". Actually, it is better to say "the person you love" and "the person you like".
There is no need to think about whether this "core relic of life" is present or past. ...