What do you pay attention to when you send a dowry?
1. The man's family should welcome the drum music, and it is very cautious to "send a wedding dress". If a rich family marries a daughter, it can just take the opportunity of "send a wedding dress" to boast about its richness. Some people will also accompany the land and shops, and the way to accompany the land is that several people carry a few pieces of adobe.
2. If you send it to the shop, you will take down the signboard of the shop and carry it to the man's house together. After the man receives these wedding dresses, the groom will go to the woman's house to "thank the makeup". Thank you for your makeup and kowtow, and then go home.
3. Put a red envelope on the four corners of each dowry box. Some people will pack copper coins and some people will pack corner tickets, which is also determined according to local customs.
4. Prepare two red buckets, also called descendants buckets. The buckets are wrapped with big red cloth, and 8 items are put in the buckets. For example, red flowers, red dates, longan, five red duck eggs and so on. The other barrel is full of rice, and some red dates, longan and so on are put on it. Put cypress branches and red characters on both barrels.
5. Red washbasin, where the bride should help her father-in-law, and the shoes, socks and hats bought by her mother-in-law should be one for each person. Put socks, peanuts, etc. inside the shoes.
6. Prepare 2 sets of bedding, usually traditional red quilts. Represents celebration.
The woman's dowry taboo:
1. On the day before the wedding, the two adults on both sides can't meet, so it is not appropriate for the woman to send the bride's immediate adult relatives with her when giving the dowry.
2. The woman has to ask a boy who is close to her to go with the key of the dowry box. Now, all she has to do is go together, which is also called "dowry".
All dowry things and dowry vehicles should be tied with red silk.
4. The number of dowry givers and vehicles should be even, which also means in pairs.
The man also wants to give candy and money to all the dowry givers, and the money for the dowry boy should be more.
6. It's unlucky that the dowry items can't be sent to bed, pot and clock.
7. You can send some bedding, washbasins, mirrors, etc., but even numbers are best, yes man.