I saw a lot of news about this kind of news on the Internet, and having a baby made my mother very helpless. I still have the impression that there was a news that a pregnant woman chose to give birth naturally or have a caesarean section, and the communication between the doctor and her family could not reach an agreement. Finally, the pregnant woman chose to jump off the building.
In fact, when I saw this news, my colleagues were also talking about this topic. Colleagues with daughters expressed their views:
1.？ When my daughter gives birth, I want to take a kitchen knife. If anyone stops my daughter from giving birth, I'll cut her with a knife.
2.？ I can give money, and my daughter can choose whatever way she likes.
3. The bride's family is still better than her husband's family, so that she can make the decision she wants at the moment of closing the chain.
4. Parents should have their own opinions, even if their daughters get married, they are their own people and have the final say.
Wait a minute.
I think I'm in charge. My own life is my own decision. Why should others decide my own life and death?
It was the same when I gave birth to the little Lord. I started coughing two months after I was pregnant with my young master. From then on, I began to take Chinese medicine to recuperate, but I kept coughing. I also ate andrographis paniculata and licorice tablets for three days without authorization, but it still didn't work, so I won't pay attention to it in the future. Older, the doctor said that placenta previa is prone to premature bleeding, and it will also cause massive bleeding during childbirth. I was told to pay attention. Although several years have passed, I still remember it clearly. Looking back on that time, my experience seems to be yesterday. At that time, my whole stomach coughed up and I peed my pants. I always take a few pairs of shorts and pants to work. I didn't sleep all night. When I coughed, I got the sheets wet and had to change them. My cough never stops. The whole pregnancy is very difficult, especially during childbirth, especially when our maternal and child health hospital told me I couldn't give birth there. I've always told the little master in my belly that you should be strong and brave, take good care of your mother and don't let anything happen to her. You have a brother. You can't let him lose his mother.
When I was pregnant for two months, the young master's father said, I can't stand it anymore, but I chose to insist. The confinement became more and more difficult and scary, but I persisted and kept talking to the little master. I keep telling myself that I can make myself safe and let the little master come to this world safely. I can't let the little master lose his mother, and I can't let the little master lose his mother. When I was a young master, I always told myself that I could do it with the belief that my mother and son were safe, but when I entered the delivery room, I told the doctor that you should make every effort to ensure my mother and son were safe. When there is no optimism, you don't need to ask other people's opinions, choose to protect me. My life is my own decision, and no one has the right to make decisions for me.
Strong women are always so lucky. Although she bled during childbirth, it was not terrible. It's just that the doctor didn't press my stomach, and some things in the uterus can only be discharged by myself. If I can't leave the hospital in a month, I will go to the Qing palace. I am always so lucky that I don't want to go to the Qing palace. It's just that the young master entered the incubator the day after he was born. After two weeks, he was infected with my cough virus in his stomach. Fortunately, he got better after two weeks.
Faced with life choices, you should make your own decisions, and no one should make their own decisions. However, as a mother and the right to live and die twice, I decided the situation in my own hands. I think when a woman makes this decision during childbirth, she doesn't need any thinking, just wants to survive. Without a little life, there will be another. Without your own life, you will never find your place in this world.
Perhaps this idea is selfish, but think again, what's the point of a small life without a mother? Maybe there will be prejudice, adults will definitely say, because of you, your mother didn't, and so on. How much will he suffer when he grows up? We cannot predict. If the mind is not solved and grows so unhealthy, will it cause anti-social psychology? Will it bring disadvantages to society? Can a child without maternal love be happy? Will the later mother love him? Mom chose to give up her life. Should she be responsible?
Some women may say that they want to have a baby because they love that man, but when you choose to give up your life and leave a small life, how many men in this world will never get married for the sake of children and this love?
It is also possible that some women can only have one child. Without this child, they may never have a chance to become mothers. But now that medical technology is so advanced, are they afraid that they will never have a chance to become mothers? In the worst case, as long as your financial situation allows, there are other ways to be a mother.
I hope that when a woman encounters this choice, she will not think about it, that is, she wants to live, which is more important than anything else.