I'm in a public park, and I don't think these routines are necessary and really don't exist. For example, if you know logo, the teacher can just download some pictures of logo on the Internet. You can't draw your own home. Many of our parents use bicycles and batteries to send their children to school. Isn't it an insult for others to draw logo? And video games. Parents' awareness of rights protection is so strong now. For example, I shoot videos for my children myself, and I never show my children's faces, let alone shoot my home. Outdoor is often the shooting place. If parents don't film their own home, the teacher will chase and ask, why is there no home environment in your video? There is no such stupid teacher, is there?
Besides, it is a serious moral problem to accept gifts from parents now. What's the point of doing these things unless you don't want to work?
Since these routines exist, they must exist. Generally, it is aimed at understanding parents' family background and position, but most kindergartens are children of ordinary families, and rich people are in expensive private kindergartens. There is no need for ordinary people's kindergartens to do these routines. They are all ordinary people.
So I really don't understand this high-end routine.
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Now parents and friends are very concerned about their children's education, so after their children go to school, including kindergartens and primary schools, parents will be very nervous about their children's learning situation and their situation at school, which also makes many kindergartens seize this opportunity. It is normal to often take advantage of his position to know about some parents' situation and so on. Next, let's take a look at some routines that kindergartens may use.
1 Select Family Committee Members
After the start of school, each class will elect members of the family Committee to implement some communication matters between kindergartens and parents. Therefore, when selecting members of the family Committee, teachers will also evaluate and understand the information of kindergarten parents, and select members of the family Committee according to their occupations and positions.
Because teachers will also measure the completion and degree of class activities in daily appraisal, it is very necessary for parents to help and implement them vigorously in order to achieve very good results. In fact, during this period, parents' responsibilities and work nature are very clear.
For example, one of my daughter's younger sisters, whose mother works in a TV station, is very good at writing official WeChat accounts and video editing, so she naturally becomes a member of the Family Committee. During the whole kindergarten, her children participated in school activities many times and won prizes, and the food expenses were directly reduced for several months. In fact, this is largely due to the convenience that parents' work brings to their children's growth.
Ask parents for help in various activities.
There will be various activities in the class after the kindergarten starts, but some activities need the help of parents. For example, children's day performances. These all need the strong support of parents. In our class, Children's Day is to go to private villas to pack jiaozi with children, play games and watch performances. In the meantime, we have to prepare lunch. In this activity, there are many active parents, who not only provide various ingredients, but also provide various items to fund these activities. Although it makes children happy, it actually reflects some conditions for examining parents' economic level.
Of course, many times, parents and friends also want to thank the holding of these activities, so that they can highlight their own advantages, make their children stay more at ease and comfortable in kindergarten, and parents will feel at ease.
3 Layout manual work
There are often some manual assignments in kindergartens, and the completion of these assignments also requires parents to do their best to meet the teachers' themes and requirements. By completing all kinds of homework, it also gives parents and friends all kinds of problems. The first is to test parents' painting level, creative level and manual completion level, and also to fight for parents' various soft powers.
There was a fire-fighting theme manual work in our class, and some parents even invited friends from the Central Academy of Fine Arts to help draw. There are also some parents who bought many patterns from the Internet, which are also very creative. In fact, this also highlights the soft power level of parents in all aspects.
Parents and friends should be familiar with some routines in kindergarten in advance. These soft powers can be realized without parents giving teachers any gifts, and the effect is remarkable. If there are conditions, it is best to cooperate with the work of kindergarten as much as possible, so that their children can attend classes in kindergarten with more peace of mind and spend a happy three-year kindergarten life.
I don't know if the parents who ask questions are because of such a thing, or if parents want to know if there is such a routine in kindergarten. I don't think teachers need to use these routines so hard if they really want to know the financial situation of their children's families. In short, I have been in kindergarten for more than 20 years, and I have never seen or heard a teacher do such a thing.
Children must fill in the family registration form from the first day of admission. Including the parents' names, telephone numbers, home addresses and other basic information. I can probably understand the child's family situation. Combined with the charging standard of your own garden, you can judge the family situation of your child. Our kindergarten is a public park, and the fees are very low. Almost all the children who come in are the surrounding residents, so the family economic situation of our children here will not be very good. Even if children draw every day, they can't draw a real high-end car. Wealthy parents will send their children to nurseries or large private kindergartens with good conditions in provinces and cities. So there is no need for children to learn by drawing pictures or for parents to make videos. I think this is logically problematic. We never let children go home to shoot videos here. The child has no homework!
What routines do you want to talk about? There is no routine. Don't think too snobbish about the teacher. There may be, but that's a small part. Moreover, if the teacher really wants to know clearly, he can just ask the children some questions or communicate with the parents more.
I'm glad to answer this question.
Kindergarten represents a pure and innocent learning and growing environment, but the word routine is not so pure. Generally, some less than fair means are used to obtain some information and benefits. These two words are full of strong contrast, and there are routines in the purest place? It's a mess in itself.
What I know as "routine"
My son's kindergarten will have such a "routine":
Finally, all the kindergartens I have contacted are positive and sunny, and I would like to believe that most people engaged in preschool education are kind and trustworthy. I hope all children can grow up healthily and happily in kindergarten.
I have been engaged in preschool education for more than 20 years, and I think you think too much about the parents who raised this question. Why should the teacher go to great lengths to understand your family's economic level?
I think I've had problems drawing car logos. When I first joined the work, the economy was underdeveloped, and children usually took the bus when they traveled. Therefore, when kindergartens carry out activities to learn about transportation, it is also what car you take and which car it is. Let the children tell and draw. However, with the continuous improvement of living standards, some children don't even take the bus, but drive their own private cars, so when they get to know the means of transportation again, they may start with the private cars that children are familiar with. Similarly, they will let children draw and let them talk. With the continuous development of society, some children are interested in car logos, and teachers will collect some and let them draw their own logos to let them know that these are all for teaching activities.
If there is any routine in kindergarten, yes, because kindergarten teachers have brought so many children and dealt with so many parents, we can't say that there are countless readers, but we also know something:
For example, when children come to kindergarten, we can see what parents pay attention to in their children's education from the initiative of following teachers to participate in activities. In the process of interacting with children, teachers can also analyze what kind of parents are, and so on. These are the professional requirements of teachers' work, and also the premise of targeted education for children in kindergarten teachers, not routines.
What routines are there in kindergarten? Do parents have some misunderstandings about kindergartens? What should parents do in kindergarten routines? The child has only been in kindergarten for three years, and the tuition fee he has to pay is the same regardless of his family's economic situation.
So I think sometimes parents may think more about kindergarten. For example, recently, there was a kindergarten to count parents' occupations, and many parents began to consider it at this time. Why should kindergartens count parents' occupations? Do you want to see whose parents have a good career and a big official position, and then judge whether his family is rich or not? Will it be used in the future?
Moreover, teachers will be kind to the children of such parents, so I think parents also live by their own imagination. It's really normal for kindergarten teachers to ask about their occupation. In our kindergarten, children sign up for the park, and there will be parents' occupations on the registration form.
We need parents' jobs. First, the preschool education system has this column, and parents' occupation must be filled in; On the other hand, it is convenient for us to choose some family Committee representatives according to our parents' occupations. I believe that every kindergarten and every class will choose representatives of the family Committee, so that it is convenient for kindergartens to hold some other activities with special support and help.
Therefore, under such circumstances, we will choose some people with strong organizational skills and relatively easy time as members of our family Committee according to their parents' occupations. At this time, if the teacher doesn't know what the parents' occupation is, he can't choose the members of the family Committee accordingly. After all, when we chose the members of the family Committee, we did choose some parents with strong organizational skills.
For example, if we invite parents into the classroom, we can invite different parents to give classes to children according to their different occupations. Some parents are traffic policemen, and we will invite this parent to tell their children the traffic rules.
Some parents are doctors, and we will invite this parent to tell their children medical knowledge, so that children can know how to protect their bodies and how to grow up healthily. If kindergarten teachers don't know their parents' occupations, in many cases, they can't carry out activities, and teachers will be more passive. So I think this situation is really a very normal phenomenon.
In other kindergartens, children will be asked to draw the cars and houses at home when drawing, and then parents will think that the teacher asked the children to do so in order to judge the children's family economic situation and decide how to treat them.
What I really want to say is the children in kindergarten. Even in the kindergarten class, he is abstract about painting. Many children may only draw one house. How does the teacher judge the child's family economy from this process?
So I think parents have some prejudice against kindergartens. Since parents send their children to this kindergarten, I think parents should cooperate with some teachers and don't think too badly of them. If parents are wary of teachers, it is difficult for teachers to support their work. When the teacher is in kindergarten, it will be more difficult to carry out the work.
My family is middle class now, and I went to two private kindergartens. I thought the first routine was an individual phenomenon, but later I learned that it was a universal phenomenon.
This routine is to contact the kindergarten to do activities in the off-season of the studio in 165438+ 10 (or it may be a wild photography team at all), take commemorative photos for children and give gifts to set the stage.
At the first school we went to, we didn't even notice taking pictures. We changed our children's summer clothes, made up and took photos directly. There is no heating in their garden, so they all rely on air conditioning to keep warm.
When you're done, tell your parents to choose a photo. I saw the photos taken by other parents, that is, the colorful silhouette of the background and the style of the urban-rural fringe.
The second kindergarten this year was notified in advance by the group, so it would be good to sign up for Solitaire. At that time, I thought it was at least for the health of the children. I didn't sign up, but I changed my summer clothes, makeup and photos for the children.
I was very angry that day and wanted to have a fight with my teacher. Later, the grandmother of Chinese medicine I knew advised me that there was no need to get angry because all the children had finished filming. People have to learn to follow the crowd, being too gaudy and too serious is not good for children.
The anger has gone down, but I feel that as a mother, I have a responsibility not to let my child get sick, alas! Anyway, for kindergarten, I think the world is as black as a crow.
The title of this question, if seen by kindergarten teachers, should be angry and funny: you think too much, won't you be paranoid enough to be killed? If it is seen by the course consultant teacher (sales) of the training institution, it may be a bit embarrassing.
The school will not be so "awesome"
Children's learning environment can be roughly divided into two types: schools and off-campus institutions. In schools (kindergartens, primary schools and middle schools), children need to go to school and there is no shortage of students. A good school degree is still very tight, and there is no shortage of parents. Teachers' positions and incomes are relatively stable, and parents who have more money can give gifts on holidays at most. No matter whether it is a school or a teacher, there is no need to go to great lengths to find out how much money students have at home for this small benefit.
What's more, the two examples you cited, such as the home address and parents' jobs in school registration, have already given the school a preliminary judgment, so there is no need to use such clumsy means.
Off-campus training institutions must have strength.
Niangniang has opened a training institution by herself, and frankly tells you that the teachers in charge of teaching in the institution don't care about how much money parents earn, but there is one kind of person who will care and must care-course consultant teachers, and that is sales.
Off-campus training institutions open their doors to do business, which is essentially Party B and a vulnerable group. Every day, parents bring their children to visit and experience, and it is very good to achieve a signing rate of 30% (visit 10 family, 3 groups sign up for classes). There is a cost in the operation of the organization, and it takes energy to receive employees. It is necessary to quickly determine who is really interested in the course and who is fooling around. There are really professional parents who skip class! Take your children to make an appointment for experience classes in various institutions every day, just don't sign up!
An important indicator to judge the success rate of parents is the family economic condition-whether there is money or not. How much are you willing to pay for your children? These questions may not be answered by asking parents directly, and they need to be speculated and verified by the child's description at the right time. Of course, don't worry, this profile must be subtle and natural, and it won't let the children feel it.
In a word, no matter schools or training institutions, the vast majority of teachers and employees will not adopt the "routine" mentioned by the topic owner, so don't think too much. If your doubts and distrust are passed on to teachers or children, it will greatly affect the atmosphere and effect of home-school education, so be cautious again.
If you have different views on this, or have relevant experience, please pay attention to the discussion!
First of all, as a kindergarten teacher, this practice is not desirable, because it is easy to cause differential treatment and discrimination, and it will cause an indelible psychological shadow to childhood children.
Since the answer is still routine!
Routine 1: What did you do during the holiday? Routine analysis: You can judge a child's family education and economic situation by where he goes. For example, going to the seaside can reflect the strong family economy, and going to grandpa's house to visit the bookstore can reflect family education (at this time, teachers should encourage this situation more, and teachers should guide children positively)
Routine 2: Look at the clothes image routine analysis: By looking at the clothes brands worn by children, we can infer the family's economic level from the appearance image. However, as a teacher, when children compare themselves, they should be encouraged to wear garden clothes to avoid comparing their own psychology before going to school.
The child is in a big class, and he didn't feel any routines before, but after the start of this semester, he obviously felt the routines of the kindergarten. This semester's tuition has just been paid for a few days, and more than 6000 yuan has been paid. The school teacher has also given parents the charging standards for classes of interest, including soft pottery, art, dance and basketball, saying that parents should sign up voluntarily. As a matter of fact, in kindergarten, teachers have agreed what classes to enroll. Let the children go home and make trouble. These days, children will make trouble as soon as they come home. He said that the teacher asked me to learn art and soft pottery, so you should sign up quickly, or there will be no places. It's annoying to tell me when you come home every day. I wonder, if the teacher doesn't tell the children that, will he make trouble with me like this every day?
He has been upset every day these days, but he still reported it to him. He didn't say anything. In fact, he applied for soft pottery last year, feeling that he had learned nothing. He just pinched all kinds of animals with clay. He knew at a glance that the works brought back by the children were not made by himself, but by the teacher. I chatted with another parent two days ago, and his children also reported soft pottery last year. She asked the children to pinch a small animal in the winter vacation, and she said she couldn't pinch it at all. She said she would report it, and I said why? She said that she was not afraid of the teacher giving her children little shoes to wear, and she felt that parents were helpless. Fortunately, we went to primary school last semester and in September. Let's stick to it for one semester!