I'm a straightforward person, and I won't be narrow-minded, let alone clever!
so I can't tolerate my friends. For a long time, in order to avoid unnecessary conflicts with such people, I will not choose such people as my friends!
Even so, you have to get along with many colleagues at work. Among these colleagues, there are naturally some people who can play tricks!
under normal circumstances, as long as it has nothing to do with me, I won't care!
because I don't like to meddle, and I don't think my emotional intelligence is high, I won't handle some things calmly.
think about it, if he plays tricks on others, others may not be able to see it, so naturally I don't have to bother;
think again, maybe others don't care. If I expose it, maybe we will turn against each other at last, or create more conflicts.
so sometimes, if we don't expose it, maybe everyone will live in peace. Then, why should I do anything?
There is another problem. People with IQ like me are also very lazy, and they don't want to bother to understand others at all. So, I basically can't see other people's little thoughts and cleverness! ?
When I was young, I was impulsive. If anyone dared to play tricks with me, I would be furious and expose it on the spot, and then I would break up with her.
However, I'm mature now, and I'm not as frivolous as I was when I was young. I see many things in my eyes and keep them in my heart. As long as I won't be hurt, I will ignore her.
if you know that he has a bad idea, you will stay away from him, stay away from him, and don't believe all his words. But it will never make a scene like before and make others laugh. I think this is good!