1. In the eyes of parents, learning is the most important thing.
From the parents' point of view, children go to school because they want them to study hard and improve their grades. Maybe some students have superior family conditions, often eat expensive snacks and wear some brand-name clothes. Even if I talk to my parents and mention these things, my parents don't like it very much. Because parents' focus is not on this, they will only pay attention to their children's learning: what about academic performance? How do you rank in the class? Parents don't pay attention to what other children eat and wear, but should focus on their studies.
2. Material things are really incomparable.
Try to understand the idea that facing parents is nothing more than eating, nothing more than wearing and nothing more than learning. After all, isn't the primary task of schools at this stage learning? Even if you compete with other students, what can you get? After all, aren't all material things provided by parents? Maybe compared with others, your food and clothing may not be as good as others, but it may be the best thing your parents can give you. Therefore, I don't think it is necessary to compare these material things with others. It really doesn't have much effect. After all, compared with the past, it is only compared with the financial ability of parents. What have you really provided for your parents?
Eating and dressing is really useless, just like studying.
Just be open-minded about your parents' ideas. After all, in the eyes of parents, it is useless than these so-called food and clothing, but it is better than learning. Because learning is a manifestation of your ability. Compared with food and clothing, it is only the ability of parents to make money. Therefore, instead of studying, it is better to show one's ability level, instead of taking this material thing to compare with others to satisfy one's vanity. If you get good grades, you won't have the heart to think about it. Only when you can't get grades will you want to gain superiority by comparing these external things.
I think parents can provide their children with food and clothing as much as possible. Therefore, instead of blindly comparing these material things, it is better to learn to understand parents' thoughts. At the same time, do your best to constantly improve your learning level and let your parents worry, instead of always comparing others with people who have nothing.