knowledge education of civilized etiquette

Etiquette is the minimum moral standard that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain the normal life of society. It is gradually formed in people's long-term

* * life and interaction, and is fixed by customs, habits and traditions. For a person, etiquette is the external expression of a person's ideological and moral level, cultural accomplishment and communication ability. For a society, etiquette is the reflection of a country's social civilization, moral fashion and living habits. Paying attention to and developing etiquette education has become an important content of moral practice. ?

the content of etiquette education covers all aspects of social life. From the content, there are appearance, behavior, expression, clothing, conversation < P >, treating people, etc. From the object, there are personal etiquette, public etiquette, hospitality and guest etiquette, table etiquette, gift etiquette, civilized communication and so on. The code of conduct in the process of interpersonal communication is called etiquette, and the expression of etiquette in speech action is called < P > politeness. Strengthening moral practice should pay attention to etiquette, so that people can communicate with each other on the principle of "respect for others, self-discipline, moderation and sincerity" and bid farewell to uncivilized words and deeds. ?

Etiquette, etiquette and politeness are rich and varied in content, but they have their own laws, and their basic etiquette principles are: first, respect for others; Second, the principle of self-discipline, that is, self-denial, prudence, initiative, willingness, courtesy, self-comparison, self-reflection, self-demand, self-discipline, self-restraint, not arrogance, and lip service. The third is the principle of moderation, moderation and propriety, and mastery of discretion; Fourth, the principle of sincerity, sincerity, sincerity to others, not to take part in a show, words and deeds are different. First, personal etiquette (a) instrument?

appearance refers to a person's appearance, which is the outward expression of a person's mental outlook. A person's hygiene habits and clothing are closely related to the formation and maintenance of

dignified and generous appearance?

1. Hygiene: Cleanliness is the key to the beauty of appearance and the basic requirement of etiquette. No matter how beautiful you look and how luxurious your clothes are, if

your face is covered with dirt and your body smells, it will inevitably destroy a person's aesthetic feeling. Therefore, everyone should develop good hygiene habits < P >, so as to wash their faces and feet after going to bed and getting up, brush their teeth in the morning and evening and after meals, wash their hair and take a bath frequently, and pay attention to grooming and changing clothes frequently. Don't "clean personal hygiene" in front of

people. For example, picking teeth, picking nostrils, digging ear wax, manicure, rubbing dirt, etc., these behaviors should be

avoided by others, otherwise, it is not only unsightly, but also disrespectful to others. When talking to people, you should keep a certain distance, don't speak too loudly, and don't splash on people. 2. Clothing: Clothing reflects a person's cultural quality and aesthetic taste. Specifically, it should be natural, decent, harmonious and generous, and abide by some established norms or principles. Clothing should not only be suitable for one's own specific conditions

, but also always pay attention to the dress requirements of the objective environment and occasions, that is, time, place and purpose should be given priority in dressing, and efforts should be made to keep in harmony with time, place and purpose in all aspects of dressing. (2) talking?

Speech, as an art, is also an important part of personal etiquette. ?

1. Politeness: Be sincere and kind; The sound size should be appropriate, and the tone should be peaceful and calm; Respect others.

2. Language: honorific words, words expressing respect and courtesy. Such as "please", "thank you" and "sorry" in daily use, and the word "you" in the second person. The first meeting is "long heard"; I haven't seen you for a long time; Please be criticized as "teaching

"; Trouble others to call it "disturbing"; Asking for convenience is "borrowing light"; Ask people to do things as "please" and so on. Try to get into the habit of using honorifics. At present, the polite expressions advocated in our country are ten words: "Hello", "Please", "Thank you", "Sorry" and "Goodbye". These ten words embody the basic language form of speaking civilization. (3) manners?

1. Conversation posture: Conversation posture often reflects a person's character, cultivation and civilized quality. Therefore, when talking, first of all, the two sides should look at each other squarely and listen to each other, instead of looking around, reading books and newspapers, looking tired and yawning. Otherwise, it will

give people the impression of being absent-minded, arrogant and unreasonable. 2, standing posture: standing is the most basic posture of people, is a static beauty. When standing, the body should be vertical to the ground, the center of gravity < P > should be placed on the palms of the two front feet, and the chest should be lifted, the abdomen should be closed, the award should be received, the head should be raised, and the shoulders should be relaxed. Arms droop naturally or cross in front of the body, eyes are

straight and smiling. Don't bend your neck, waist, legs, etc. when standing. In some formal occasions, it is not appropriate to put your hands in your trouser pockets or cross your chest, and don't make any small moves unconsciously. That will not only appear stiff, give people a sense of lack of self-confidence, but also

lose the dignity of manners. ?

3. Sitting posture: Sitting is also a static shape. Dignified and graceful sitting will give people a graceful, steady and natural aesthetic feeling < P >. The correct sitting posture should be: straight back and relaxed shoulders. Women should put their knees together; Male knees can be separated, but not too big, generally not more than shoulder width. Put your hands naturally on your knees or on the armrests of your chair. On formal occasions, you should be gentle and gentle when seated

, and you should be dignified and steady when you get up. Don't sit up and down suddenly, which will make the tables and chairs rattle and create an embarrassing atmosphere. No matter what sitting posture, the upper body

should be kept straight, as the ancients said, "sitting like a clock." If you insist on this, then no matter how you change your posture, it will be < P > beautiful and natural. ?

4. walking posture: Walking is the main action in people's life, and walking posture is a dynamic beauty. "Walking like the wind" means using the popular water < P > to describe the brisk and natural gait. The correct walking posture is: light and steady, chest erect, head lifted, shoulders relaxed, eyes straight, face smiling, natural swing arm. ?

second, meet etiquette?

1. shake hands: shaking hands is an important way to communicate thoughts, feelings and friendship. When shaking hands with others, look at each other with

eyes and smile. Don't be absent-minded and look around. Don't wear a hat and gloves to shake hands with others. Under normal circumstances

, the time for shaking hands should not exceed 3 seconds. You must stand and shake hands to show respect and courtesy to others. Shake hands also pays attention to a certain order: generally, it pays attention to the "honour person's decision", that is, after the lady, elder, married person and person with high position reach out, the man, junior, unmarried person and person with low position can reach out and respond. If a person wants to shake hands with many people, then the polite order is: elder first, junior, host first, guest first, superior first, subordinate first, lady first, man first. 2, bow ceremony: bow, which means bending over to salute, is a courtesy way to admire others. Look at each other politely with your eyes before bowing to show your sincerity of respect. When bowing, you must stand at attention, take off your hat, solemnly, don't eat anything in your mouth, or

bow and say something unrelated to the salute. 3. Greeting: Greeting is a silent greeting etiquette, which is often used by people who know each other to say hello in social situations. In social gatherings, people often wave, bow and take off their hats to express their friendliness. Third, the public etiquette (a) the etiquette of specific public places 1, theaters: the audience should be seated as soon as possible. If your seat is in the middle, you should politely signal to those who are already seated and ask them to let you through. It's impolite to give up your seat by facing it, and never let your hips face others' faces

. Attention should be paid to dressing neatly, even if the weather is hot, it is unsightly to be topless. Don't

yell, laugh and make noise in the cinema, and don't treat the cinema as a snack bar. After the performance, the audience should leave in an orderly way.

Don't push and shove. 2. Libraries and reading rooms: Libraries and reading rooms are public study places. (1) Pay attention to neatness and obey the rules. T-shirts and slippers are not allowed in. When sitting, don't reserve a seat for others.

When reading the catalog card, don't turn it upside down or tear it, or scribble on it with a pen. ?

(2) Keep quiet and sanitary. Walk lightly, don't talk loudly, and don't eat food with sound or shells. (3) The books, tables, chairs and benches in the library and reading room belong to the public property, so we should take care of them, and don't portray them at will,

destroy them. ?

(2) Ride etiquette?

1. Cycling: Strictly obey the traffic rules. Don't run a red light, don't hold an umbrella when riding, don't chase each other or race in twists and turns

, and don't take people by bike. When the old, the weak, the sick and the disabled are slow to move, they should give understanding and take the initiative to be polite. 2, by train, ship: in the waiting room, waiting room, to keep quiet, don't shout. When getting on the bus and boarding the ship, you should

line up in turn, and don't jostle and bump. Don't spit, litter or let

children urinate or defecate anywhere in carriages and ships. 3. Take the bus: when the bus arrives at the station, it should queue up in turn, and take care of women, children, the elderly and the sick and disabled. Don't grab the seat after getting on the

bus, and don't put things on the seat to occupy the seat for others. Passengers who are sick, pregnant and pregnant with babies should take the initiative to give up their seats. (3) Tourism etiquette?

1. Sightseeing: All tourists should take good care of the public property in the tourist area. Do not destroy public buildings, facilities and cultural relics, even flowers and trees at will; Don't scribble, scribble or carve on columns, walls, monuments and other buildings; Don't

spit, urinate and pollute the environment; Don't litter the peel, paper scraps and sundries. 2. Hotel Accommodation: Passengers staying in any hotel should not talk loudly in the room, so as not to affect other guests. Be polite to the waiters, and thank them for their services. 3. Dining in a restaurant: respect the work of the waiter, be humble and courteous to the waiter, and wait patiently < P > when the waiter is too busy, and don't knock on the table or bowl or shout. For the waiter's mistakes in work, we should put forward them in good faith, and we should not be sarcastic and sarcastic. ?

fourth, school etiquette?

School, as a special place for teaching and educating people, etiquette education is an important part of moral education and aesthetic education. (1) Students' Etiquette Students are the main body of school work. Therefore, the common sense of etiquette that students should have is an important part of school etiquette education. Students should abide by certain etiquette in class, in activities and in the process of getting along with teachers and classmates. 1. Classroom etiquette: observing classroom discipline is the most basic courtesy of students. (1) class: when the bell rings, students should sit in the classroom and wait for the teacher to attend class. When the teacher announces the class,

the whole class should stand up quickly, say hello to the teacher and wait for the teacher to reply before sitting down. Students should come to school on time. If they have to enter the classroom after class due to special circumstances, they should get permission from the teacher before entering the classroom. (2) Listening: In class, listen carefully to the teacher's explanation, concentrate and think independently, and write down important contents. When the teacher asks questions, you should raise your hand first, and then you can stand up and answer when the teacher calls your name. When you speak, you should stand at attention, have a natural and graceful attitude, have a clear and loud voice, and use Mandarin. (3) Class dismissed: When the bell rings, if the teacher has not announced the class dismissed, students should listen to the lecture with peace of mind, and don't be busy tidying up books or making the table ping-pong, which is disrespectful to the teacher. After class, all students still need to stand up and say "goodbye" to the teacher. Students can't leave until the teacher leaves the classroom. ?

2. Clothing instrument: The basic requirements for wearing are: fit; Timely; Neat; Generous; Pay attention to occasions. 3. Respect for teachers' etiquette: Students should take the initiative to salute and say hello to teachers when they go in and out or go up and down stairs on campus to meet them. When Xue

enters the teacher's office, you should knock at the door first and get permission from the teacher before entering. In the teacher's work and living place, you can't

flip the teacher's belongings casually. Students should not point and judge teachers' looks and clothes, but should respect teachers' habits and personality. 4. Etiquette among classmates: The deep friendship between classmates is a force of unity and friendship in life. Paying attention to the

manners among classmates is the basic requirement for you to get a good relationship with classmates. Students can call each other by their first names, but they can't use impolite terms such as "hello" and "hey". When you want something from your classmates, you should use such polite expressions as "please", "thank you" and "trouble you". When borrowing school and daily necessities, you should ask for permission before taking them, and return them in time after use, with thanks. For

students' misfortunes, occasional failures, temporary backwardness in learning, etc., we should not laugh at, sneer at or discriminate, but give

enthusiastic help. Don't comment on classmates' appearance, posture and clothes, and don't give them insulting nicknames. < P > Never laugh at classmates' physical defects. On these issues concerning self-esteem, we must be careful and respectful. Don't talk about topics that students are taboo, and don't talk about classmates casually. 5. Assembly etiquette: Assemblies are often held in schools. Usually held in the playground or auditorium, due to the large number of participants and formal occasions, we should pay special attention to the etiquette in the assembly. Flag-raising ceremony: the national flag is a symbol of a country

, and raising and lowering the national flag is a way of patriotism education for young people. Regardless of primary and secondary schools or universities, the ceremony of raising the national flag < P > should be held regularly. When raising the national flag, all students should line up neatly, face the national flag and stand in awe. When the national flag is raised and the national anthem is played,

stand at attention, take off your hat and pay attention until the flag is raised. Flag-raising is a serious and solemn activity, so we must keep quiet, and avoid free activities, laughing or looking around. Look solemn. When the five-star red flag Ran Ran rises, all the people present should look up. ?

6. Etiquette in public places on campus: We should consciously keep the campus clean and tidy, and do not throw scraps of paper and peels in classrooms, corridors and playgrounds,

do not spit or throw garbage. Don't scribble, scribble, wipe or carve on the blackboard, walls and desks and chairs, take good care of the school's public property, flowers and trees, and save water and electricity. Consciously store the bicycle in the designated carport or place, and do not leave it lying around

, and there is no traffic jam in the school. When dining in the canteen, you should queue up for courtesy, not be crowded, cherish the food and not dump the leftovers. (2) Teachers' Etiquette Teachers are the main body of school work, not only disseminators of scientific and cultural knowledge, but also educators of students' ideology and morality. While spreading knowledge, teachers exert a subtle influence on students with their own words and deeds, manners and manners, thus influencing students' words and deeds. Therefore, teachers should pay great attention to their students.