Mom won't be able to ask for leave until February 9.
Thinking that 20 days will soon pass and I will see you soon.
On the first day you left, when you came home, the room was empty, your crawling carpet was still on the floor, the toy box was on the carpet, and a pink protective suit that you often wear at home was on the sofa. Mother sat on the sofa, picked up your clothes, put them under your nose and smelled the milk on them. Without you, the house is very empty and quiet. Mom began to count down the days of going home. Every morning, she wakes up and meditates. There are still 65,438+09 days to see my baby, 65,438+08 days to see my baby ... and 65,438+05 days to see my baby.
Those 20 days are the longest for my mother. You seem to have left your mother for a long time, and you haven't been back for a week. Two days before going home, my mother couldn't sleep, waiting for the morning and the time to leave.
What about you? After returning to my hometown, I began to have diarrhea a week later because I was not acclimatized. Grandparents took you to the hospital. Because it is diarrhea caused by diarrhea and environmental discomfort, the doctor said that he could not take medicine. Grandparents can only watch you feel uncomfortable and wait anxiously for you to adapt. In less than a week, your chubby face became thin and white. Mom can't see your happy smile in every video. At that time, my mother really wanted to hold you in her arms, coax you and comfort you.
It's hard to go home. You have just adapted to your hometown, and your stomach is still weak. However, you always like to eat, and you start to eat noisily, which makes your mother and grandmother careless about your care; Plus, you happen to want to supplement your body, so you start adding lean meat to the complementary food. Unexpectedly, a few days later, you started vomiting, diarrhea and high fever.
From the fourth day of the first month to the eighth day of the first month, you were too tired to open your eyes on the way back and forth to the hospital and lay groggy in your mother's arms. At this time, mom and dad's company also started. Mom called the company to ask for leave, and dad and colleagues kept asking when to go back to work. Seeing you lying motionless on your mother's shoulder, how can your mother trust you to leave you to work like this?
On the tenth day of the first month, you feel better and your stomach stops pulling. You are good at pouting and have a little spirit. When you are happy, pout and clap your hands at your parents, grandparents. You mumble "travel, travel, fly". When I started playing, my mother's heart was like a gloomy sky for several days, suddenly releasing sunshine. Dad immediately decided to buy tickets, so we bought tickets for the next day.
The next day, at 5: 00 am 15, at 5: 00 in the northern spring, it was still completely dark. When you were sleeping, you had no idea that your mother was leaving you and left alone. By the dim light, mother touched your soft little face, lifted the suitcase and went out.
Sit in the car and look through your photos and videos from birth to now. Don't think about how helpless and anxious you will be if you can't find your mother after waking up.
Baby, mom is going to leave you in your hometown and let your grandparents take care of you.
Maybe you will ask mom, why can other mothers accompany their children? Why can't mom take you to work and take care of you? Why can't I be with you if I don't work? Why should I leave you alone in my hometown? Why can't mom take care of you at home?
Baby, mom has thought about it. Mom even started reading books about stay-at-home mothers a long time ago and how to be a stay-at-home mother, because companionship is the best love for you. Mother also inquired about many jobs that can be done with children at home; My mother also specially watched a super mother in Japan, who took care of her children while working, and got a doctorate, and how to give birth to and raise four children in the process; Sometimes I even wonder if my mother, like some girls who dropped out of school in the village, dropped out of school early, worked, got married, had children, and was able to take care of them at home. Don't go out to work until the children are older. Mom even thought, if we have a good economic foundation, can mom take care of you at home?
But, baby, you know what? Mom and dad, grandparents, grandparents were all born in the poorest place in our country, facing the loess and facing the sky. Grandparents, grandparents, try their best to send their parents to school. The purpose of going to college is to let us walk out of this barren land that traps them and live a little easier. To this end, grandparents are tired and sick. We have come out, although we say we have come out, but we dare not slack off at all. In Shanghai, where consumption and rent are extremely high, mom and dad have no house, no car, no savings and no extra property income, so they have to work on their own. On the 96th day after your birth, your mother started working and became a nursing mother. During work, hide in the conference room every three hours to milk you, and bring it back in the afternoon as your rations for the next day.
Mom's company is a 5-minute drive from our rented house 1 hour/kloc-0. At 7: 30 every day, I go out on time with a milk bag full of ice, walk to the company, eat at noon, get off work in the afternoon, and hurry home. When I come back, it is already dark. Grandma takes care of you at home alone, and you will turn over in three months. Grandma dare not leave you. Many times, I don't have time to eat at noon and sleep very little during the day. It is sometimes inconvenient for grandma to go to the toilet alone.
Your big moves develop faster than ordinary children. You can turn over in three months, get up in more than five months, try to stand up in seven months, walk on the sofa in eight months, squat and stand freely in nine months, and walk independently in ten months. Your weight is also above the normal range. When mom and dad are not at home, you seldom want to play alone. Grandma has leg disease, and it's getting harder and harder to hold you. By the time she took you for ten months, she was exhausted.
So, mom made a decision to send you and grandma back to your hometown.
prepare
Baby, mom sent you back to your hometown, and there are people in Qian Qian who never give up. Mom didn't send you back because she thought you were troublesome and difficult to take care of, nor did she shirk the obligation and responsibility of raising and taking care of you.
Baby, mom knows that to give you a good living condition, give you more choices and a better future, you must first have a certain economic foundation; Secondly, mom and dad must also be excellent. Please give your mother a year. In this year, your mother will be ready to meet you and take care of you.
To this end, mom and dad will work harder this year. Dad, who didn't think about the future before, is now planning and thinking about his career development again.
Mom is also trying to become better for herself, starting from every little thing.
First, self-discipline.
You know, mom is the king of typos, whether it's chatting with people, work, letters or emails. It is common to write wrong words, even if you know the mistakes, sometimes you are too lazy to correct them. From this year on, whether for work or to be a strict person, my mother must change this and take responsibility for herself. A small typo may not matter to you, but it gives others the impression that you are unprofessional, imprecise and unreliable.
Second, change yourself from the image temperament.
After working for three years, my mother realized that it is not your job that determines your image temperament, but your attitude and image that determine what kind of work you do. No matter where you are, you are sloppy and sloppy, giving people the feeling that you are lazy and don't make progress. Clean yourself up carefully every day, be clear and refreshing, and bring a lipstick when you go out to make yourself look energetic and confident, so that you can stay energetic at work.
Third, improve their own strength.
Only by learning can we change ourselves, and opportunities will always belong to those who are prepared. This sentence will never be out of date. Mom used to think that work was boring and she couldn't learn anything. However, when my mother carefully examined her work again, she found that although it was a humble job, she could learn a lot by taking advantage of this opportunity. For example:
Marketing and communication skills and experience
Experience can be accumulated and skills need to be summarized. Some people can gain the trust of customers and solve problems easily through a few words, while others? This is a very good thing, but opening your mouth will screw it up. After working for two years, my mother has accumulated some experience in communication and problem solving, and can communicate with customers by telephone in an orderly way to solve problems. Of course, communication skills and experience can never be learned, and mothers need to observe others, read books and keep trying and improving.
Professional business e-mail writing
Mom writes a lot of emails every day and receives a lot of foreign emails every day. Cherish and make good use of these resources, sum up your own learning and master the ability to write English business emails quickly and accurately. This is an ability that others can't take away, both now and in the future.
Business English
I am ashamed to say that I used to feel that my English was good, but now I can't say a word at all. I remember one time, a foreign lady was smoking in the corridor. Her mother couldn't smell the smoke and frowned. The lady immediately said she was sorry, but her mother didn't know what to say at the moment, and blurted out "Never mind". On another occasion, the marketing manager and I went to see a foreign manufacturer. My mother understands what people are asking, but she can't say a word. The most ridiculous thing is that when someone asked me whether to drink tea or coffee, my mother actually said wash. In fact, my mother wants to say water, which is more embarrassing than ever. My mother's English foundation is not bad, but she ignores her listening and speaking ability, so she has decided to apply for BEC, study hard after work, and strive to get the primary BEC certificate this year to enhance her work competitiveness.
Ppt speech and production
Ppt is another aspect that needs strengthening; Baby, when I was at school, my mother's ppt was really good, but after work, I lowered my requirements for myself. And ppt is necessary for job introduction now. A good ppt is sometimes worth a thousand words. Mom will be conducive to on-the-job training, be responsible for everyone and improve herself. She will study hard and accumulate professional ppt. This year, my mother will ask herself to do at least 15 quality job training ppt, and at the same time improve ppt training ability.
official documents and correspondence
Words are my mother's favorite and best. But I didn't make good use of this hobby and advantage.
Mom has been reading books such as copywriting and advertisements. Mom decided to combine her own work, give full play to this advantage and learn from some excellent copywriting methods, which is another important content she is going to study and practice. Through copywriting training, you can not only learn writing, but also learn a lot about marketing and psychology. Mom's job is only to provide the conditions for verifying and testing the effect of biological copying. I hope that through such learning and trying, I can bring other gains to my mother.
interaction
Baby, are you tired of listening to mom's plans for work and study?
Of course, mom hasn't forgotten you, and if she can't leave you to her grandparents, she won't care about you.
Don't worry, mom will come to see you as soon as she is free, and she will definitely bring clothes, gifts and toys to see you during the May 11th holiday.
Mom can't tell you stories and sleep with you every night.
Mom is going to interact with you through video, but recently found that video is not a good way. You are too young and too anxious. You are just curious to see images from your mobile phone or hear someone calling you, so you will always rob your mobile phone.
My mother thought of a recording pen and immediately rejected the idea. You will not be interested in a simple object that has no image and looks unattractive. Not as good as story machine.
Finally, my mother thought of two ways. One way is to keep writing to you, just like my mother used to use the subway for 30 minutes every day to record your growth and changes in the form of letters through her mobile phone. In the future, when you are older, you can understand your childhood through words. Now that your mother is not with you, you can learn about your daily situation through video. Grandpa also sends your videos to your mother every day to let her know your daily affairs.
In another way, mom will also take some videos of mom and dad's life for you. Spring in Shanghai is very beautiful. Mom and dad will show you peach blossoms with their cameras. After a while, the magnolia and cherry blossoms will bloom, and mom will bring you a video. In summer, I will shoot a big lotus for you. When mom's classmates and friends come home, mom will introduce you with videos, then edit them into CDs and send you emails occasionally. You can see mom and dad and the places where mom and dad have been on TV, which makes you feel that mom and dad are not a distant title.
Baby, mom's plan to buy insurance for you has been postponed. Mom needs a lot of consultation before she can decide.
Dear baby, please wait for your mother for a year healthily and happily, and we will grow up together. Mom promised that next year, the second half of the year at the latest, no matter what kind of situation you are in and what kind of choice you make, you will stay with you.
Love your mother.