I learned this from my grandmother. In our rural tradition, we have the habit of worshipping the God of Wealth. During the New Year in China, we should place offerings in front of nave. She would burn incense in the kitchen alone and put a small bowl of Guo Jing, saying it was a sacrifice to the kitchen god. Grandma was also called Siming Bodhisattva. When it's over, we will give fruit to our greedy children. (Beijing fruits are wrapped in white powder, and some are round and a bit like bigger cocoons, sweet. Grandma will teach us that only by cleaning up the kitchen can the whole family be healthy and safe, and the Bodhisattva is watching.
A few years ago, my wife had to clean up the kitchen after dinner every day. The range hood was wiped again and again, and the pool was clean without any water stains. Don't let garbage stay overnight in the kitchen! With these actions, I have this idea in my heart, and my home is really clean. I always feel that the good luck in recent years has something to do with this, and I always say my wife's good in my heart for this.
At the same time, it is much smoother to make breakfast at home every day, and it will not waste time in the face of dishes that have not been cleaned overnight. It is very happy to have a good start every morning.
Second, if you have a good relationship with your father, you will have good luck; If you have a good relationship with your mother, your husband and wife will have a good relationship.
With this awareness, you will take the initiative to repair the relationship with your parents. Look at those successful people. Why do people pay special attention to filial piety? Some also pay special attention to returning home to repair ancestral graves. We don't talk about superstition. On the good side, we just don't forget our roots and are grateful for the source of our lives.
At the same time, with this concept, you will support your other half to maintain a generous way in dealing with family relations and always maintain a grateful attitude. In recent years, my parents-in-law are in poor health. I try my best to support my lover to make contributions and walk in front of other sisters. Our hearts are comfortable and stable.
There is a way to take care of both parents. At present, many family conflicts mostly come from the relationship with both parents is not handled well. Especially when parents are old, they need more care and care. Filial piety is the best starting point of family relations and the most correct demonstration education for children.
Third, people who love to laugh are not too bad luck.
There is a colleague in the company who is quiet and delicate. Her biggest feature is that she loves to laugh and always leaves her smile to the people around her. From clerical work to assistant to the chairman, of course, it is related to her professional ability. She has an unbreakable record in the company of hundreds of people. She once won the company annual meeting award for three years in a row. He is the final winner every time and the only one in the audience every time. She herself said how lucky she was.
Although the hardships of life often force us to live, you may not remember the last time you laughed. However, when you have to go out, put on a smiling face, and the temporary haze will definitely leave sunshine for the people.
I have a friend who is in the catering business. Growing up, I encountered many bumps in the middle. His greatest feature is that he can't help laughing. In the restaurant industry, we all call him Degang Guo, because he likes to laugh at himself and always tries to amuse everyone. His career is progressing smoothly now and he has made many friends. I believe his career will get better and better.