It's a two-way trip between scraps and young people who save money! In fact, what is really terrible is not poverty, but a wrong interpretation of poverty.

For example, a young mother saw that her two children liked cakes, but the cakes were too expensive. Her mother bought some cake scraps from the cake shop and brought them back to satisfy her children's cravings. My mother thinks that with two children, she can't spend money indiscriminately. Buying cheap cake scraps is not only affordable, but also allows children to eat their favorite food happily, which is the best of both worlds. ?

first, nothing is absolutely right or wrong.

Just because of the differences in time, position and concept, people have different definitions of this matter. For example, in ancient times, when the law was not perfect, the three cardinal guides and the five permanent members of morality and ethics were the highest criteria for people to act, but now it is necessary to improve the law and build a society ruled by law; For example, in the early days of reform and opening up, our important task was to develop the economy, which must be the first, but now it must be based on the ecological environment; In the past, family planning was the policy of governing the country, but now it advocates the second child and the third child. These are all because of the different time, position and concept, and there are different explanations for the same thing.

Therefore, the issue of buying scraps is only because everyone has different positions and concepts, so these disputes have arisen.

second, psychology is most concerned about subjective feelings, not the facts themselves.

No matter what the mother buys, as long as the child can feel the mother's love, then the child will have more love. If the mother makes the child feel poor, then the child will accept more poverty. Therefore, no matter what the mother does, as long as the child can feel more positive energy, the child can grow up healthily.

Third, children's requirements can be properly met.

as long as it doesn't exceed the family conditions, you can buy it openly. But it should be noted that you can't kidnap, you can't tell? It's not easy for mom and dad to make money? Or? You must study hard after buying this? Something like that. Of course, you can't say,? Mom and dad's money is yours, so you can spend it. ?

If family conditions don't allow it, just tell the children that this is beyond our budget. But tell the children that it's not your fault, but our family's economy doesn't allow it for the time being.

In a word, children should not be slaves to money, nor should they be dominated by money. Money should be a tool that children can control.