1. Labels of Stay-at-home Mothers The society has given stay-at-home mothers many labels, such as "parasite", "useless woman", "slovenly woman", "housewife" and "enjoying the happiness at home". They put these labels on stay-at-home mothers. Personally, I think it is an insult to stay-at-home mothers to label them at will. Every family is different. Why is it so easy to label and define stay-at-home mothers?
Stay-at-home mothers are "parasites" at home, because they don't go out to work, have no salary, have palms up and spend their husbands' money. But in fact, stay-at-home mothers are not unemployed. It's just that no one pays for the work she does every day. Everyone in the family has turned her job into what she should do and what she should do.
Full-time mothers cook, wash clothes, clean and send their children to school every day. If it is converted into a nanny, it will cost at least 6,000 yuan in first-tier cities and at least 4,000 yuan in second-tier cities. Stay-at-home mothers sit in 24-hour jobs, but they are considered "parasites". For stay-at-home mothers, this understanding is wrong.
Second, a stay-at-home mother is a "family necessity". Most stay-at-home mothers get up first at home. After getting up, the first thing is to wash, the second thing is to cook, put on clothes between cooking, and then start to wake up dad and children after breakfast. Then I was busy washing and eating children, sending them to school, and then buying food, washing dishes, washing clothes and mopping the floor.
Every day is endless meals, endless clothes, endless teeth, and poor hygiene. They do the same thing every day, because of the hard work of stay-at-home mothers, the home will be clean, children and husbands can put on clean clothes, and there will always be delicious meals, so that children's education will not fall behind. Without the help of the elderly and the employment of a nanny, a full-time mother is a necessity for the family.
Stay-at-home mom is the greatest "career". With the development of society, there are more and more employment opportunities for women, and more and more tasks are entrusted to them by society. You should not only earn money to support your family, but also have children and do housework. If you only take care of your family as before, you will be abandoned by men, you will be out of touch with society and you will fail in life.
Actually, think about it the other way around. If a stay-at-home mom doesn't be a stay-at-home mom and goes out to work like a husband, how can this family survive? By grandparents, grandparents, nanny? Or let men go home and be full-time fathers?
Without children, a woman can go out to work like a man to earn money to support her family, but how can she be asked to go out to work like a man after having children? Don't think that stay-at-home mothers don't want to go out to work to make money. She wants to go out to work to make money more than anyone else, but children are her weakness. She doesn't want to wronged her children because of herself. She would rather be wronged than help her children, her husband and her parents.
There is a full-time mother at home. Grandparents can take it for granted to support the elderly. Dad can work with peace of mind to make money and children can grow up happily. Only stay-at-home mothers give up on themselves. Stay-at-home mom is the greatest career in family and society.