time is precious because it is irreversible.
it is beautiful at first sight because it is pure.
The relationship between Huang Lin and Lin Linlin, which was originally enviable for 12 years, ran aground.
Huang Lin became very depressed. They were the same age, met at the age of 23, got together at the age of 26, and finally stopped long-distance love at the age of 28. Then they started a business together, opened a curtain shop, earned the first bucket of gold and opened a simulation flower shop, which went well.
Later, Lin Linlin said that she was too tired to go to work and needed someone to take care of the housework, so she wanted to be a full-time wife. At that time, the curtain shop was just on the right track, and various businesses were busy soon after the opening of the new store. Huang Lin was under the pressure of mortgage and car loan every day, but since Lin Lin was drenched and didn't want to go to work, Huang Lin agreed and supported himself.
In recent years, with the gradual improvement of Huang Lin's career, there are actually many temptations outside. Many beautiful young girls have hinted to her intentionally or unintentionally, and some even just want a process without seeking results.
But Huang Lin has drawn a clear line with them consciously. Since she has been in business for several years, no matter how important a customer is, she will not have an affair with others for business. Sometimes it's too late to socialize, so she lets her men accompany her to deal with it and goes home by herself. Occasionally cook, shower Lin with a glass of milk before going to bed, and take good care of it. But caring for the family like this still can't change the deterioration of love.
Lin Linlin has been doing nothing for a long time. She wakes up naturally at noon every day, eats casually at home, and then cleans the house and washes clothes, which is a day's housework. Dress up in the afternoon, go out for afternoon tea or get a facial, and if Huang Lin doesn't come home for dinner at night, she will eat a big meal by herself. If you have nothing to do, you can go shopping in buy buy, or you can tell your best friend to go and travel.
Huang Lin once wanted two people to have a child, but Lin Lin was drenched and afraid of pain. She told Huang Lin to have a baby, and she listened to her. But she has been working hard for years, so she has no time to get pregnant and have children.
people are almost forty, and the sudden change of love that they thought was extremely stable has disrupted the pace of life.
If the real partner breaks up cruelly, they will recover after a while-it's just a matter of time. But Huang Lin's current problem is that breaking up is not as simple as expected.
Lin Linlin was caught by a friend when she opened a room in a hotel. She was caught cheating on her, but even so, Huang Lin didn't have a reason to forgive others. Instead, she made an almost generous property division plan: leave the house she bought to her, lend her money for the next five years, and let her keep the car she bought. * * * The deposit in the same account can be shared by one person. But the two stores have to give it to Huang Lin himself. After all, it is the hard work of years of struggle. Other details can be discussed.
Cheating is a local tour guide she met when she joined a tour group, a handsome T in her early twenties.
Huang Lin asked Lin Linlin to come out for a talk, and Lin Linlin brought that T ..
Huang Lin calmly frowned at the two people in front of him-a familiar stranger and a stranger.
Even the young adulterer was embarrassed, but Lin Linlin firmly tugged at others' arms, looking as if he deserved it.
Huang Lin speaks first. Now that it's over, let's break up.
Lin Linlin said, OK, you go out clean.
Huang Lin said it's impossible. Almost all the materials they have are what she has worked hard for more than ten years.
Lin Linlin said that I have followed you for more than ten years and paid my precious youth! I broke up like this, and I don't even have a job! Always think about yourself in the future!
Huang Lin knows that Lin Linlin knows herself too well, knowing that she is hard-hearted and too hard on her, but on the other hand, she can be so hard on herself ...
After more than ten years of love, she finally broke up. In her eyes, it is just an arithmetic problem.
no regrets, let alone guilt.
some people say, why don't Huang Lin just leave?
Indeed, a homosexual relationship without marriage guarantee will break up as long as one party leaves.
But Huang Lin and Lin Linlin have written their names in shops and houses for so many years. The beneficiary of the insurance is the other party. Bank cards are all opened in the forest. Two cars are under the name of Huang Lin. Too many things are mixed together, and it's not so easy to deal with them unless you really leave.
it doesn't matter whether you are polite or bitter, because it all points to the ending of breaking up. When the heart is far away, the feelings will naturally fade, and separation is a breeze.
A girl asked Uncle Han how to grow old together.
Uncle Han smiled bitterly. How can he teach experience when he doesn't have the ability himself? When we met, I had a beautiful and warm bloom. Now that I am separated, I am lonely and helpless.
At present, two people can stay together for a long time. I think besides love, we need to be responsible for each other's feelings.
I once saw such a short story on Wechat-
Once upon a time, a good man went to heaven and became an angel because he often did good deeds before his death.
Good people who have become angels still often come down to earth to help people solve problems and feel the taste of happiness.
One day, the angel met a distressed and sad farmer. The farmer told him that his cow had died, and there was no way to cultivate the fields at home. He didn't know what to do.
So, the angel changed the farmer into a strong ox.
The farmer was happy at once, and his whole body smelled of happiness.
Another day, the angel met an old man who lost his bag and travel expenses during the trip. He sighed and beat his chest.
So the angel arranged for a young man who found the old man's bag and money to return it to the old man.
The old man turned his worries into happiness, and kept putting his hands together to be grateful that he had met a good man. He was so lucky.
Another day, the angel met a poet. The poet was handsome and rich, and his wife was beautiful and virtuous, but he was not happy at all.
The angel hopes to help the poet. He tells the poet that he can help him with anything.
The poet said, "I don't lack anything, except one thing, that is happiness. Can you give it to me?"
The angel was a little embarrassed, but after thinking about it, he said "I see".
Then he turned the poet into nothing.
The angel took away the poet's talent, ruined his appearance, and took away his property and his wife's life.
then, quietly leave.
A month later, the angel returned to the poet, who was half hungry and struggling on the ground in rags.
So, the angel returned all that the poet had.
a few days later, the angel went to see the poet again.
At this time, the poet who once said that he was the only one who lacked happiness, hugged his wife and was warm and sweet.
He kept thanking the angel for making him happy again ...
It turns out that people are truly happy only when they are satisfied when they need it.
There is always a lot of helplessness and helplessness, which has nothing to do with whether you have worked hard or not, but whether you cherish each other. Sometimes, it is not the standard of happiness that has changed, but the mood that has changed. Love, too.
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