This is the era of "fatherhood". The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a good father, and then you will be able to get your hands on a good father, and then you will be able to get your hands on a good father, and then you will be able to get your hands on a good father, and then you will be able to get your hands on a good father.
So some people began to complain about the unfairness of fate, why they can easily jump into the upper echelon of society? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
Even some people issued a "hard work can not get rich, busy can not get rich" sigh.
This statement, complaining about the people have, self-loathing a lot of people, the loss of fighting spirit out of the people.
"A good word is warm in winter, but a bad word is cold in June", in the society of the masses, the speech must be positive, negative emotions must be eliminated, after all, the bad effects of things are far greater than the good effects.
The destiny of the world seems unfair, but it is the arrangement of the universe, the laws of the universe and the efforts of mankind **** the same role.
Instead of complaining about injustice, it is better to explore the reasons; instead of giving up on yourself, it is better to revitalize your spirit. Trying to change your mindset and act on it is far better than a million complaints.
Nightly Talks Around the Furnace wrote: "The body is not hungry and cold, the sky has not negatively affected me; there is no progress in learning, how can I face the sky."
Meaning: "The body is not suffering from hunger and cold, which is that Heaven has not treated me poorly; if my learning has not grown and progressed, what face do I have to face Heaven?"
"The heavens have the virtue of good life, and the earth has the generosity of carrying things" , and in today's age, it is easy enough to seek food and shelter and not suffer from hunger and cold as long as a person does not eat and be lazy. The fact that life can be sustained is a sign that the heavens have given a very great gift.
Especially in China, we are more stable and happy than ever before. Looking at the world, we can see that not a few people are facing hunger and death.
Therefore, it is a shame to wear fancy clothes and taste delicious food, but not think about how to improve your character and learning!
If one feels that one's material life is not as good as that of others, then one should not complain, because it does not change the reality of the situation, but rather it victimizes one's own self.
At this point, it's better to lower your expectations and compare yourself to those who are not as good as you are, and think about the fact that you're still alive, and that you've earned it. This way, you can calm your emotions and do things in a peaceful way, which is much more effective.
If you want to go further, you should be grateful to God for the gift of life, and work hard while maintaining a calm mindset, and eventually you will get something, even beyond your expectations.
The Tao Te Ching says, "The way of heaven is not kind, but always with the good." Those who can think and act in this way are the good people who follow the way of heaven, and they will be favored by heaven without realizing it.