Because of the double pressure of family and career, middle-aged people don't have so much energy to pay attention to their feelings. Therefore, many couples will tacitly choose to sleep in separate beds after entering middle age.
In the eyes of many people, they think that it must be because of emotional disharmony that couples sleep in separate beds. But in fact, it's more than that.
When people reach middle age, they are prone to insomnia, variability, insomnia, anxiety and irritability, which has become the normal state of life. Choosing to sleep in separate beds can effectively improve the quality of sleep, thus maintaining a happy mood to a certain extent.
When people reach middle age, they will always become more and more irritable in the face of the competition between their families' daily necessities, soy sauce, vinegar and tea and their careers.
Sister Jian 'an and her husband Song Ge have been married for 20 years. In recent years, she and Song Ge agreed to sleep in separate beds.
At first, when their families learned about it, they thought there was something wrong with their relationship. All relatives and friends came to persuade them to put family first, after all, the children are so old, and so on.
But Sister Jian 'an thinks it's normal to sleep in separate beds. Choosing to sleep in separate beds is out of consideration for the health of two people.
Because of his age, Song Ge, who has entered middle age, is always prone to snoring at night, especially after he is tired.
Sister Jian 'an is a doctor by profession. Without a good rest, it is easy to make mistakes, but her profession does not allow her to make mistakes.
So after repeated communication, the two chose to sleep in separate rooms. In this way, both of them can get enough sleep and not disturb each other.
Many times, blindly enduring and waiting for the day when it breaks out can easily cause indelible damage to feelings.
But if two people deal with the problem in a rational way through communication and consultation in the early stage of the problem, it will promote feelings.
Sleeping in separate beds is also a sign that sister Jia Nan and brother Song love each other.
A little farewell to win a new love? Proper distance can make a dull day full of expectations. It is a good way to breathe for boring life and inject vitality into feelings.
Many couples, after entering middle age, will easily look at each other with disgust. In feelings, no one can escape the pain of three years and the itch of seven years. The best way is to find ways to reduce the harm.
Two people who are too familiar will lose interest in each other. Therefore, a proper distance can create mystery and inject fresh blood into plain feelings.
Since Sister Jian 'an and Song Ge slept in different beds, they seemed to find the feeling of being together from the beginning.
Because of the distance, two people become unaccustomed. The sudden change of lifestyle has also changed the character of two people from violent and dry to rational.
At night, Sister Jian 'an will never fidget because of Song Ge's snoring, and Song Ge will never have to worry about disturbing his wife's rest again.
Both of them stopped bowing their heads and looked up to see Zhou Chen. On the contrary, both of them became very polite, just like when they were together, and they began to be a little shy and began to pay attention to their image. Many married couples ignore the problem of appearance.
Reduce familiar contact, people will begin to miss, and miss will generate interest.
Now Song Ge occasionally creates romance. Buy flowers for sister Jia Nan after work, candlelight dinner on the anniversary, and so on.
Therefore, Sister Jia Nan felt more and more that it was a wise decision to choose to sleep in separate rooms. It not only changed the anxiety state of two people, but also unexpectedly enhanced their feelings.
For many people who pay attention to feelings rather than the essence of things, sleeping in separate beds is the result of emotional disharmony.
Sleeping in separate beds doesn't mean I don't love you. On the contrary, because I love you, I want to be with you.
But in the middle-aged world, there is not so much passion, but more abstinence. Sleeping in separate beds may also be a sign of mutual understanding and love.
If you love someone, you will be willing to do anything, and you won't care too much about the outside gossip.
Because it's you, so I do? . This may be the best explanation for middle-aged couples sleeping in separate beds.
When people reach middle age, it is easy to have two extremes. Either, calm and rational to the extreme. Either, the temper is extremely hot.
No matter where you are now, it is not advisable. If you are too rational about feelings, the relationship between husband and wife will reach freezing point. If you are too grumpy about your career and family, it will add fuel to the fire.
Many couples will be husband and wife during the day and neighbors at night after entering middle age.
Sleeping in separate beds is to use the distance to enlarge the goodwill between two people and let the husband and wife rekindle their passion for love and confidence in life.
Therefore, middle-aged couples who still have love in their hearts will choose to sleep in separate beds because they love each other. In order to alleviate the increasingly troubled living conditions.