HuiLaiShi is good at handling all kinds of affairs, make people satisfied. HuiLaiShi generally has a compliment, eloquent, what people say, generally won't offend people, especially for those who have power and influence, he can get involved, in fact, it can be concluded that "HuiLaiShi" people are not really people who can do practical things, and they are suspected of "flattering".
But not everyone can "come to the meeting". Some people win the favor of the masses by relying on real materials and working ability. "HuiLaiShi" has two meanings: praise and disparagement. In the words of good friends, the meaning is positive, and the meaning of ordinary people is a bit derogatory. Usually used to discuss another person with others.
How to be a person who will come?
1, keep the sun. Everyone likes people who bask in the sun. They are full of complaints, bitter hatred and negative energy every day, and everyone will avoid them. Only those who have access to energy have the opportunity to "touch things"
2. adjust your mentality. The leader took out a cigarette and others lit a fire. You think it's flattering. When giving benefits, others put things in the leader's car, which you think is flattering. On the other hand, as a junior, you should take the initiative to do these things in terms of age and qualifications.
3. Learn from others. Look at how people with high emotional intelligence around you talk and do things. Try to do it his way. Although everyone's situation is different, I want to be respected, thought of and served, which is the need of people.
4. master the scale. We should take actions according to different people's personality characteristics. For example, some leaders are honest, and they will resent you if you pay blind attention to them. Some leaders like to be raised by others. If your mouth is too stupid, he won't like you.