1. Don't complain, don't always feel that you are incompetent, this situation is mostly caused by yourself.

2. Don't wait until you are happy to smile; Don't wait for someone to praise you before you believe in yourself; Don't wait to say goodbye before you regret meeting; Don't wait for a good position to work hard; Don't wait for failure to remember advice; Don't wait until you are sick and dying to realize the fragility of life; Life does not sell round-trip tickets, please cherish the happiness now!

3. If you have been here, you will have no regrets. Some thoughts will eventually disappear in the years, and some beauty will still be in the spring. Those throbbing feelings, green time, on the back of time, faint fragrance; Graceful life, deep affection for time, still safe original intention; Perhaps, those who have, cherish, are heartbroken and happy, which may be a real life.

4. Life is the process of life. How can there be no wind and rain? It is because of the baptism of wind and rain that we can see the colorful rainbow; Only with the pain of failure can you taste the joy of success.

5. People are born to pursue happiness, but they must live with pain. A happy life lies not in delicacies, but in purity and elegance; A happy life is not blind pursuit, but sincere treatment; A happy life is not given by others, but won by yourself; A happy life is not in the distant future, but now.

6. Many times, it is not your persistent persistence that will win a person's love. Love is reluctant to come. Even if you are together day by day, you can't compete with his desperate efforts when he meets her.

7. If I can, I'd rather choose a good job, not so-called busyness or so-called abuse, and do what I think. If I think what I do is hard, I'll stop for a while, have a glass of water and look at the rustling leaves outside the window. If you are hungry, you can find a food street, throw yourself into the food, and forget the work dragged down; People, in this life, don't have to desire too much, and don't have to be greedy too much.

8. Life doesn't have to be perfect … just live wonderfully. People's teeth are hard, but their tongues are soft. At the end of life, all their teeth will fall out, but their tongues will not. Therefore, if you are soft, your life will last long, but if you are hard, you will suffer. Softening the heart is the greatest progress in practice.

9. Life is a glass of water, and its taste depends on your choice. At the beginning of China's entry into WTO, everyone's life was a glass of boiled water. Later, some people put honey in it, others put tea, fruit juice, salt … even poison. What you put in the cup is your right, and what you taste is the result of your choice. Don't complain, treat the water cup of life well, keep it clean and sweet, and life is naturally sweet.

11. Many things in the world can't be kept if you cherish them. Some people and things, whether you like it or not, are slowly withdrawing from your life and your memory. Many times, you don't have to be too persistent, drawing the ground as a prison will only turn some mistakes into mistakes. Give yourself a ray of sunshine, promise yourself enough wisdom, know and cherish blessings, cherish those who are worth cherishing, and care about those who also care about themselves. This is enough.

11. Everyone in the world is looking for happiness, but there is only one effective way, and that is to control your thoughts. Happiness does not depend on the external situation, but depends on the internal situation.

12. Bending knows how to bend, so as not to break the integrity; Sometimes, proper bending is a kind of reason; In reality, bending contains rich philosophy. Learning to bend is to follow the trend; Sometimes, proper bending is a kind of detachment; In life, bending embodies the art of tolerance. Dare to bend, in order to stand more firmly; Sometimes, proper bending is a state; In fact, bending can solve annoying problems.

13. Enjoy every challenge and you will become better. Learn to constantly deny yourself that the world is right and we are wrong, and slowly get rid of young paranoia and frivolous; Life is a curve that fluctuates up and down, sometimes low and sometimes high. When you are low, you should be happy, because you will soon go to high places, while when you are high, it is actually dangerous, because you can't see the coming trough.

14. Practice and cultivate a calm heart. Calm is natural and comfortable. Everything happens like running water, but I want to take it back, but I am powerless. Let the established facts come and go naturally, so that my heart can breathe freely. It's a pity to lose, but it's sad to cling to it. Life has entered a famine year in a blink of an eye. How many people can return to the loess tomb? Meditation, so that all sadness into a strong shield, calmly accept, in order to freely find and accept.

15. A friendship fades when it leaves, and a love breaks up when it leaves. Cherish what you have now, and maybe it won't belong to you the next second. There is no feeling to go back, even if you do, you will find that everything has changed beyond recognition. The only thing we can go back is the memory in our hearts, so we can only keep going.

16. Never be luckier than others. I never thought I was luckier than others. I may be more persevering than them. In the most difficult time, they can't hold on. I can hold on for another second.

17. Some women in their thirties can still act like a girl to their lover, while some women in their thirties take care of their families like an old maid, and no one understands them. This is the difference between loving and being loved. Only those who are deeply loved are qualified to act like coquettes.

18. In this world, things that are not monotonous make people get bored quickly, while things that are not boring are mostly monotonous. It has always been like this. I can have a dull time in my life, but there is no room for boredom. True freedom is to find that there is no road and there are roads everywhere when there is no one to rely on. Only those who can I will walk till the water checks my path and then sit and watch the rising clouds can be considered free. This is not because of the road, but because of the heart.