Since I participated in the activity of promoting reading for all, I have shared 75 books since I started from myself.
what I have heard and seen recently is shocking. It is urgent to promote the filial piety culture, so we will focus on the filial piety culture in China from today.
When I came home last night, my 87-year-old mother-in-law was as happy as a child. One minute she took out this delicious food, the other she took out that delicious food, and she was worried that we would be too busy to go home the next day.
My mother-in-law is talking to herself while taking delicious food. It's hard to live alone. In fact, we go home most of the time, and sometimes we work overtime until 23 o'clock at night, so we live in the company for fear of affecting her rest. In fact, when parents are old, they all want to be accompanied by their children. I felt bad all day when I saw my elderly mother-in-law busy to "please" us to go home on time every day.
The phrase "I am old and old, and I am young and young" comes from Mencius Liang Huiwang. We also have an old day!
Also, the day before yesterday, I heard a friend say that her son, a senior two student, went home and lost his temper and swore at her. And said that her son's classmates had beaten her mother ... shocking and shocking.
It has also been reported that an 84-year-old man slept outside his daughter's house for four days and three nights during the Spring Festival, and all six children ignored it
It has also been reported that the unfilial son was sentenced to eight years in prison for poisoning and murdering his father many times
What's more, international students studying in China stabbed his mother at the airport because of tuition fees
According to Youth Daily, the National People's Congress Census Group conducted a survey on rural pension issues, and the results showed:
5% of the elderly do not have three meals;
? 45.3% of the elderly are separated from their children;
? 53% children are insensitive to their parents;
? 67% of the elderly are sick and can't afford medicine;
? 93% of the elderly can't add a new dress a year;
? The number of abnormal deaths of the elderly in a county in Shanghai is as high as 1.35, of which 55% committed suicide because the support problem could not be implemented.
I don't know my parents' kindness when I was young, but I am middle-aged when I know it. When parents are here, there is still a place to go in life, and when parents go, there is only a way home in life. Half-life, half-life. A car in front of the door is not rich. It is blessed to have parents at home. Parents are living buddhas. It is true to do good deeds and filial piety.
in our life, the people who owe the most are our parents.
when I was young, I didn't understand my parents' kindness, but when I did, I was middle-aged. Our parents gave us life, cared for us all our lives and gave us everything. I have done countless things for us. I would rather suffer by myself than let us suffer. I give us the best and love us the most.
In this world, except for parents, no one will love and take care of us without reservation.
They don't ask for anything in return, they work hard, and they never care about what they get. They just want us to be healthy and happy.
we can't repay our parents' kindness to us. We can't repay the care our parents gave us. They educate us to be upright, they take care of our healthy growth, take care of us carefully, and take care of us carefully, lest we be wronged at all.
When I was young, I didn't know my parents' kindness, so I would blame them for their strictness. I didn't understand until I grew up. Their good intentions, for us to take the right path, for us to be a good person, and for us to be strict in education. The love of parents is deeper than the sea, and the affection of parents is heavier than the mountains. All our lives, we grew up under the protection of our parents, always thinking that there is still plenty of time, and it is never too late to be filial. But I forgot that my parents will get old, maybe I can't wait for our filial piety, and maybe I will miss our company. So, don't wait, treat your parents well while they are still alive. What they want is not money, but that you can go home often. Even if it's talking with them, or simply having a meal. Life is grace, raising is grace, and the kindness of parents is still unclear. I don't know my parents' kindness when I was young, but I am middle-aged when I know it. For the rest of your life, please cherish every day with your parents, be filial in time, spend more time with you, and don't leave irreparable regrets for yourself!
Do you understand your parents now?
"The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind will not stop, and the child wants to raise it, but not stay close" is an old saying, which means that the tree wants to be still, but the wind will not stop; Children want to support their parents, but their parents have left. It is a metaphor that the passage of time does not stop with personal wishes, so as to warn children to be filial in time, to care for their parents while they are alive, and not to regret it after their parents die.
To live in filial piety
A thousand gold bottles and empty bottles of wine for caring for one's relatives, and a drop of wine has ever been to Jiuquan. It is better to raise a little before death than to offer a rich sacrifice after death.
Time waits for no one. Parents are getting old day by day. Only cherish the present and be filial in time is the truth.
the practical significance of carrying forward filial piety:
1. The core of filial piety culture is to respect the elderly and provide for the elderly
As a fine tradition generally recognized by the Chinese nation, it emphasizes that the younger generation respects the elderly, and requires the children to honor their parents, love, care and support the elderly, so that the elderly can live a happy life and enjoy the family. This spirit has been, is and will be in the future.
Second, respect, love and care for the elderly should be carried forward
The goal of filial piety education is to promote the concept of respecting and caring for the elderly from the family to the society, and through the combination of social education and social education, it has effectively created a social fashion of respecting and respecting the elderly, encouraging people to "care for the elderly and others, and promote the moral sentiments of respecting their parents and caring for their children to others.
3. Promoting filial piety culture is the basic element of family harmony, social stability and national unity
At present, China is in the transition period from tradition to modernization. With the pace of reform and opening up, the contradiction between the old moral norms and the socialist market economy is increasingly colliding and running-in. Rebuilding and rebuilding the modern moral culture system with China characteristics and the ethical spirit embodying the spirit of the times is the moral choice that every China person faces. In traditional filial piety culture, the spirit of attaching importance to the roots and joining the WTO plays a cohesive role in strengthening the unity of all ethnic groups in China and Qi Xin's concerted efforts in socialist modernization.
4. Promoting filial piety has far-reaching social significance and practical guiding significance
At present, the elderly population in China has exceeded 31 million, accounting for more than 11% of the total population. In particular, the elderly population in China has a large base and a rapid momentum, which ushered in the aging of the population in the case of "getting old before getting rich". According to relevant data, by 2125, the elderly population in China will reach 281 million, accounting for about 21% of the total population, and the number of elderly people over 81 will also reach 25 million.
five: the way of providing for the aged in China is mainly family support, which is a traditional model formed for thousands of years. More than 71% of the elderly population in China still live in rural areas, and most of them still have low living security ability. Most of them have to rely on the help of their family members to spend their twilight years. They need not only material help, life care, but also spiritual comfort.
Three classics of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism are related to filial piety education:
Confucianism regards filial piety as the first good, and Buddhism regards filial piety as the first blessing, and the Sutra of Watching Endless Life-Three Blessings in Pure Industry
Buddha says that parents are so grateful that it is difficult to repay the sutra, and the original wish sutra of Tibetan Bodhisattva < Take filial piety as the first thing
Wen Chang Di Jun's New Year's Day Persuades Filial Piety, Lv Zu Persuades Filial Piety
Your new schoolbag was brought to you
Your flower folding umbrella in the rain was given to you
Your favorite (that) three fresh stuffing was given to you
Your wronged tears were wiped. This person is mom
This person gave me life
gave me a home
Ah, no matter how far you go
No matter what you are doing
You can't live without our mom
You live in another country (that) and someone is worried
When you go back to (that) home, someone is making hot tea
You.
the connotation of filial piety:
respect for parents: the essence of China's traditional filial piety is to advocate "respect" and "love" for parents first. Without respect and love, filial piety can't be neglected.
The material basis of China's traditional filial piety is to provide for adoptive parents materially, that is, to support parents and "support them when they are born", which is the minimum program for filial piety.
attending to illness: the elderly are frail and prone to get sick, so the traditional filial piety in China regards "attending to illness" as an important content. Taking care of illness means that if the elderly parents are sick, they should make timely diagnosis and treatment, take good care of them and give more care to their parents in life and spirit.
standing up: The Book of Filial Piety says, "When you live in the street, you will be famous in the world, and filial piety will end." That is to say, children should "establish themselves" and achieve something. Parents will feel happy, proud and proud when their children have made achievements in their careers. Therefore, it is also unfilial to parents to do nothing all day and live a mediocre life.
admonition: when parents are unjust, not only can they not obey, but they should be admonished to correct their injustice, so as to prevent their parents from falling into injustice.
a happy ending: arrange the funeral.
the realm of filial piety:
filial piety: raising parents with things and caring for them wholeheartedly, so that their parents have no worries about food and clothing
filial piety: being obedient to their parents and caring for their ambitions, so that their parents are happy and happy
filial piety: caring for their parents, doing good deeds and saving the world, so that their parents can shine
filial piety: caring for their relatives with virtue, doing good deeds, Make parents achieve life
the realm of filial piety:
It is warm in winter, it is warm in summer, and it is calm in the morning.
If you go out, you will have to sue, and you will have a regular career.
Although things are small, don't be good at it, it will be a loss for your children.
If things are small, don't hide it, it will hurt your parents.
If you are good at it, you will be evil.
I have been admonished by my relatives to make my color more pleasant and my voice softer.
If I am remonstrated, I will cry and complain.
The story of China's 24 filial piety is still vivid in my mind.
carry forward the culture of filial piety, connecting the preceding with the following, and let's all work together to achieve the new 24 filial piety:
1. Call your parents regularly, and don't hang up on them
2. Know your parents' age
3. Be sure to report your safety to your parents in time when you travel
4. Know your parents' birthdays, and send your wishes on their birthdays
. Understand my father's silence
6. Understand my parents' unchangeable frugal and even stingy habits
7. Go home to visit my parents during holidays
8. Offer meals to my parents while eating. Dishes
9. Encourage parents' interest in life
11. Listen to parents'
11 about things at home. Respect parents' favorite lifestyle
12. Walk with parents
13. Let parents know that you are often proud of them
14. Care about parents' health as much as you care about children
15. Sit down when you have the chance. Or tell them stories
16, don't complain about parents' cooking
17, don't lose your temper with your parents
18, often praise your parents
19, buy small gifts for your parents from time to time
21, occasionally coquetry in front of your parents
21, you can communicate with your parents more about study and work
22. When you have time, take the initiative to do housework, such as: try to wash your own clothes, try to help your parents wash clothes, and learn to buy food and cook on your own initiative
24. Don't lie to your parents, and apologize to them anyway after you make mistakes
Finally, I wish all fathers and mothers in the world good health and a happy mood!