My friend's own family conditions are not particularly good. After graduating from college, he didn't choose to get a job immediately, but started a business with a few friends around him, hoping to change his destiny. He just graduated from college and has no savings. His venture capital is borrowed from others by his parents and their parents' pension money. But everything they do is risky. Although they made full preparations, they unfortunately failed.
In fact, it is not surprising that they failed. They just graduated with little experience and just wanted to gamble, but they lost. Everyone lost a sum of money, and my friend was even worse. I thought I could earn some money to change my fate and my parents' lives, but I didn't expect it to bring more trouble to my parents. Because of business failure and owing a lot of money, he felt ashamed to face his parents and worried that others would laugh at him. He has been locked in his room for a long time and hasn't gone anywhere. We are all particularly worried about him, afraid that he will take things too hard and do stupid things, so we have been enlightening him, and his parents have been with him without a complaint. But his girlfriend didn't leave him because of his failure, and she still stayed with him without regrets. We take turns looking for him every day, chatting with him, trying our best to enlighten him and make him optimistic. Money is gone, as long as people are still there, they can earn it. If you think it's gone, what's the use of it? Through all our efforts, he stood up again. Through his continuous efforts, he has achieved something now.
Later, he told us that we gave him a second life, and if we hadn't been clinging to him, he wouldn't have the courage to start over. Therefore, the failure of starting a business is not terrible. The terrible thing is to lose the courage to try again.