First of all, I hope you can see clearly that the current employment reality is that undergraduates can't find a job, let alone a high school degree. I hope you can put your mind right.

1 your is young, so don't aim too high. Whatever you do, be practical, and keep a low profile.

2 About the city of Jiangsu, we can't go. In recent years, the economy has grown steadily, enterprises have expanded rapidly, and there are many colleges and universities, so there are a lot of talents accumulated. If you go, you may not be able to find a job that suits you, and your income will be difficult to maintain. Not to mention Sichuan, I think you don't understand. Many of my college classmates are in Sichuan, and the employment competition is really fierce.

3 don't think about opening a small shop yet, it's not as easy as you think. Because of all kinds of investment costs, and basically can't see the money back in the first three years, go to work first and accumulate capital.

4 as for my suggestion, as the saying goes, money is hard to earn, and shit tastes bad. Many second-tier cities in the north can be considered. Don't say you don't want to go. You must compromise something for the future of your, and you can't be too demanding. Think for yourself. You are afraid of the cold, want to make money and want to suit your city. I recommend Yantai because Yantai is a lack of talents in colleges and universities, but it is sure to work hard. You can work hard in restaurants and get promoted quickly, such as KFC MC or chain restaurants. Both are good choices, such as Weihai. Your girlfriend can work in a large supermarket and accumulate some work management experience.