What should my husband do if he mentions divorce?
Watch your tone first! Keep calm and calm: "Well, I see." After that, you should go to work and eat. You feel wronged and want to cry. Go where he can't see or come to me to cry, but Wang Wan shouldn't cry in front of him! Ask him, "Why?" "Is there anyone outside?" I can't get a divorce for the sake of the children. "Don't say such things. What I can't do is get down on my knees and say sorry, honey, what did I do wrong? Was I too strong before? If I am wrong, I will change it? I'll give you whatever you want to eat. Don't do these things!
The underlying logic of a man's behavior is that he will do what he thinks clearly, so he asks you for a divorce. Either he has had enough of you, or he really wants to change people. So now nothing you can do can impress him. At this time, you do nothing, but he begins to whisper: hey, what's the situation of this person? Why is she suddenly so quiet? Didn't she always quarrel with me before? Shouldn't she cry? Shouldn't she be devastated? Does she want a divorce, too
Yes! You have to make him guess that you can't play by the rules now. As soon as he guesses, his attention will be drawn back to you. When you finish this step, you have to dress up for the next party and become a woman first. You must remember that even if you are husband and wife, you are still men and women. Men must love women, understand?
Love also needs skill.
Some people say that marriage is the grave of love, but it is not entirely true. Marriage is more like a piece of soil, and love is a seed planted by two people together. Exciting love and hope for the future are enough to be its budding nutrients, but not enough to support its growth. Without supplement and care, it will wither gradually, leading to marriage becoming the grave of love.
Because of this, it is particularly important to learn the skills of managing feelings. Why do some people live in expectation in their feelings, while others trap themselves in cages? Different guidance methods will lead to different results. Only by learning to maintain and prune can the seeds of love thrive in the desired direction and make this intimate relationship full of vitality and sweeter and happier.