Table seating etiquette
Generally speaking, what is the seating order? Respect the east? 、? Facing the door for honor? . If it is a round table, the host and guests face the gate. In terms of the distance from the host and guest, the closer the host and guest are, the more respected they are. At the same distance, the left side is more respected than the right side. If it is the square table, the right position on the side of the gate is the host and guest; If it is not facing the gate, the right seat on the east side is the chief. If it is a big banquet, the arrangement between tables should be that the chief is in the front, with 2, 4 and 6 seats on the left and 3, 5 and 7 seats on the right. According to the identity, status and intimacy of the host and guest, they should sit separately.
Generally, tables in hotels are round tables, and the host and guests should be located directly opposite the gate or can see the whole banquet hall. Strictly abide by it? Left weight right time? The ranking rule is to sort the guests according to their importance, and arrange them in the order of single number on the left and double number on the right. The more important the guest, the closer he should be to the host and guest, and the more distinguished the guest who is closer to the host and guest.
If the object of your banquet is a department leader, then you should be invited to lead? Position level, territorial priority? The principle of arranging seats in turn, don't expect. The biggest leader should be arranged to sit in the main seat, and usually the biggest leader invited from outside is arranged to the left of the local leader. So, according to? Left weight right time? The principle of sequential arrangement.
If you are entertaining a work partner or a client, if your big boss is also present, you'd better take the initiative to lead your big boss to the main position and arrange him on the left and right sides according to the importance of the guests and clients. Of course, if there are high-ranking and important party and government leaders at the banquet, you should arrange the party and government leaders in the main position, let your big boss sit on the left of the big leader, and the rest can be pressed? Left weight right time? The principle of scheduling.
Rules on the wine table
If you really can't drink it, don't take the first bite and eat it with your rice bowl.
If you are sure you want to drink it, don't put ink on it, and then there are rules.
1. Although on the wine table? Deep feelings, a stuffy; Shallow feelings, licking? But don't say this when drinking.
2. Keep a low profile, put your hair up, and never fill it up as soon as you get on the wine table.
It's time for leaders to respect each other after drinking.
4. Many people can respect one person, but never one person will respect many people unless you are a leader.
5. Respect others by yourself. If you don't clink glasses, how much you drink depends on the situation. For example, the drinking capacity and attitude of the other party must not be less than that of the other party. You should know that you respect others.
6. Respect others. If you clink glasses, by the way, when I finish drinking, you can get pregnant at will.
7. I am humble. Remember to add more wine to the leader. Don't drink for the leader blindly, even if I want to replace it, I will pretend that I want to drink, because I want to drink instead of for the leader. For example, leader A can't drink enough. Beating around the bush can stop people who want to worship leader A.
8. Pick up the glass (beer glass), grab the glass with your right hand and put it on the bottom with your left hand. Remember that your cup is always lower than others'. If you are a leader, you should be sensible and don't put it too low, otherwise how can you be a person below.
9. If there is no special person present, it is best to touch the wine in chronological order, and don't favor one over the other.
10. clink glasses, make a toast and make a statement. Otherwise, why the fuck should I drink your wine?
1 1. Don't talk business at the dinner table. Drink well, and business will be almost the same. Everyone will know it in their hearts, otherwise people will not be free to drink with you.
12. Don't pretend to be crooked, say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing, don't plead, and consciously punish the wine.
13. If there is not enough wine, put the bottle in the middle of the table and let others add it themselves. Don't be silly to pour wine one by one, or what should the people behind you do if they don't have wine?
14. There must be a glass of stuffy wine at the end, so don't leave your glass empty. You can't run away ~
15. Be careful not to lose your manners after drinking, don't talk big, don't be rude, don't spit everywhere, don't throw chopsticks, don't finger, drink soup, don't fart and burp, and you have to go to the toilet. No one will stop you.
16. Don't let go? I can't drink? Say it (if you drink it), lest others call you hypocritical. Believe it or not, people can really tell if they can drink.
17. The leader drinks with you to give you face. No matter how much the leader tells you to drink, do it yourself first. Remember, put your hands and glasses down.
18. Peanuts are good for drinkers. It is essential to keep a clear head and ask questions after drinking. A cup of yogurt, a cup of hot water and a hot towel all show your concern.
If you can't drink
1. Do not take the initiative to attack, and implement the strategy of defending as the attack;
2. Put two big cups in front of the table, one with white wine and the other with mineral water, drink a small glass and drink water frequently. When the host and guest on the wine table are basically drunk for 8 minutes, they can take the initiative to attack and replace the wine with water;
3. After toasting, don't swallow it immediately, find an opportunity to wipe your mouth with a napkin and spit out the wine in the napkin;
4. Eat some fat and starch foods at the bottom first, and it is not easy to get drunk when drinking;
5. master the rhythm, don't drink too much at once;
6. Don't mix several kinds of wine, especially easy to get drunk;
7. When serving dishes, don't turn dishes in the middle of the wine table. Leading food on the wine table is a no-no;
8. When you are six minutes drunk, finish the vinegar in the vinegar dish in front of you, and then ask the waiter to add it;
9. Every time you make a toast, you should fill it up, then pretend that you didn't take the small glass well before drinking, and try to sprinkle some, so that you can drink a lot less every time;
10. Put half a cup of tea in front of you before drinking. Don't swallow it after drinking it. Pick up the teacup quickly and spit the wine into the cup when drinking water. Just spit it out and change the water Useful!