This will definitely help,this answer will tell you how our hearts work!

Yourself is your own best psychiatrist

Bold and careful and thick-skinned. You have to be hardworking and helpful, and you have to be able to help in any way you can. I'm not going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it. The good name is won.

Gaining the way much help, losing the way little help. Treat people with honesty and integrity. In interpersonal communication, there are four major taboos:

First, avoid behaving rudely. Some people believe that in the treatment of people, "coarse needle big line", simple and rough, is the color of the working people, and elegant speech, beautiful manners are bourgeois "goods". This kind of small peasant consciousness that despises modern civilization is very harmful.

Second, avoid losing your temper. The first is to avoid losing one's temper. But their mood is bad, should be by themselves to "digest", but never to others "attack", otherwise it is very uncivilized. Bad mood, do not lose your head, and should restrain their bad mood, in the thought of anger. Temper tantrums, random tantrums, not only will hurt the peace, but also will make people on their own "far from it".

Third, avoid flying short and long. Colleagues, friends to say a few words between the heart, is not too much, but it is never allowed to irresponsibly spread rumors everywhere Phi Wei Wu, right and wrong. Particular attention should be paid to, do not gloat over the misfortunes of others, and even look for the wind, add oil and vinegar, the privacy and suffering of others as their own talk.

Fourth, avoid talking too much. Getting along with others, do not say too much work, especially not in the public **** occasions and working hours, casually with others to joke and make fun, open over the "degree" of the joke.

In short, to be welcomed in the interpersonal communication, please be sure to comply with the "three A principle". The meaning of the principle is to require people in interpersonal communication, as far as possible to accept others, agree with others, value others. It is so called "Three A's Principle" because in English, the first letter of the three words accept, approve and value is A. American scholar Bugelin believes that "Three A's" is like the basic food to satisfy people's self-esteem, which can not be replaced by other things in interpersonal interactions. It cannot be replaced by anything else. His words are worth remembering for every enterprise employee, if you don't want to be hated.

What is it that we seek in life?

Life is a process, not a point. Life is a process! Life is in every day, and every day is unique and cannot be repeated

So we should make every day, every minute of our lives beautiful and joyful.

So we should regulate ourselves:

1. less desire,

2. less comparison,

3. balance of mind,

4. more contentment,

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5. change what can be changed, accept what can't be changed, and don't lose yourself

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6. Live your life according to your own ability, and don't let other people's life situation influence your mood.

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