It turns out that good eloquence, good voice and good persuasion have something to do with not telling lies, swearing and telling right and wrong.
1 If you don't tell lies, your eloquence will become better, because people's normal state is that they are consistent with their hearts, but if people always tell lies against their own hearts and cheat others, they will keep in good health, that is, they will lose their ability to control the language. When you want to convince others of something, their hearts will no longer listen to you, so their expressive ability will become worse, and they will be incoherent and have no conditioning. These are all caused by telling lies. In addition, nature has a reaction. If you cheat others, this reaction may double on you, and you will be cheated more.
2 If you don't swear, girls' voices will be sweet, and boys' voices will be magnetic, because when a person swears, it is very bad for your body and mind. In fact, you first hear the swearing by yourself, but you actually scold yourself. You say one swearing word to ten people, and each of them only hears one sentence, but you hear all ten sentences. There is a famous experiment, that is, two glasses of water, one glass of water tells it everything beautiful and the other glass of water tells it everything ugly. As a result, after a period of time, observing the two glasses of water with scientific instruments, we found that one glass of water is very beautiful and the other is very ugly, so when you swear to others, it is yourself who is most hurt. Swearing, such as black smoke, will slowly blacken your voice and face.
3 If you don't tell right and wrong, others will love to listen to you, and your words will be persuasive. When someone speaks ill of others behind their backs, everyone has a series of bad psychology, such as being afraid of being heard. No matter what you say in the future, you won't feel anything, but you have written down your subconscious mind about right and wrong, which will make you feel guilty and have no strength, and no one will listen. In addition, most people who talk more about right and wrong have many enemies and villains, and there will be many struggles between right and wrong in their work and life, which also belongs to a kind of reaction of nature.
So if you want to be eloquent and persuasive, don't tell lies, swear words and right and wrong.
the trick is that if the content is beneficial to others, it will be beneficial to others' body and mind.
have confidence in yourself.