Once a girl marries a woman, as Jia Baoyu said, "she becomes aggressive." To this end, men invented a series of derogatory terms, such as tigress, hot wife, jealous wife, hag, slut and so on, to vilify married women. 1, bully the sky-the deterioration of women is caused by men. What would it be like without sex in the world? A man expresses his views. I read a novel about a one-night stand yesterday. There is such a sentence that I remember deeply. If a girl is not a virgin, she has become a woman. Someone once told me that men are the reason why women are bad. I didn't understand it at first, but I found it yesterday. Most girls have experienced a one-night stand before becoming someone else. They sell their bodies for revenge, just to let men know that all you want is this. There is no love in this world. The only love is when you are emotional in bed. I have a deeper understanding of this problem and found that most men really start dating girls for sex. Once you succeed, you will throw the girl aside. At the same time, it also made her become impersonal from the original simplicity. Is the reason why women are cold because of men or because of what? What are the reasons why women are bad? This is a problem that we should explore. At the same time, simple character only exists in our childhood. When single, women are gentle and the embodiment of angels. Why do you become "stupid and smelly" after marriage? Did endless housework steal a woman's tenderness? It seems reasonable. Housework is boring. Sweeping the floor, washing dishes, cooking and washing clothes ... is not difficult, and the intensity is not low. I can't finish it every day. Men are getting lazy. They just want to eat and refuse to wash dishes. After a long time, who can stand it? Of course, women's temper will get worse and worse, from speaking out of turn to nagging, and finally to the lion's roar. Did the calculation of daily necessities steal a woman's romance? That makes sense. After getting married and starting a family, women have to count the flowers for every yuan. Leave enough money every month to pay for utilities, telephone and gas ... and the cost of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar. Women are devoted to the family, so they have to empty men's private money and be regarded as "account managers" by men; In order to save money, women can't bear to go to the supermarket to buy clean vegetables, so they bargain loudly with vendors at the stalls and unconsciously become "bitches" Did a man's bad hobby steal a woman's love? That makes sense. When I was in love before, many men's bad habits were unknown to women, such as not brushing their teeth before going to bed, playing online games all night, smoking, drinking and playing mahjong, and not changing their underwear for a few days ... After marriage, women began to whisper in men's ears, and when they saw men ignoring themselves, women scolded them, just like long-winded old women educating their children. After all, women are actually taught by men. Anyone with a discerning eye will know at a glance that in fact, so many reasons are not the fundamental reasons, but are inevitable in life. If men pay more recognition and understanding to women, then women can become good wives and mothers while bidding farewell to ladies, instead of being bitches and bitches. Of course, women should also save themselves. Don't let housework kill your taste, and don't let trifles drown your interest. Leave yourself a space of your own. Only by constantly improving ourselves can we maintain our ladylike temperament and femininity. 2, sneak into the night with the wind-women are taught by women. Many people say that women are taught by men. Perhaps, some women are indeed taught by men. However, the author believes that most women are still not well taught by women. Never underestimate the friendship between women. Although it is different from the heroic and open-minded feelings between men and the unfamiliar and familiar friendship between men and women, it exists with a subtle feeling. The friendship between women sometimes looks strong, but in fact it is very fragile. Sometimes, two women don't seem to have a good relationship, but this friendship between them is often longer. A woman is actually an animal that can easily change her mind. Just like the physiological period, after living together for a long time, their physiological periods will unconsciously get together, with a difference of no more than a few days. If she has a good friend who likes to play with love, won't she be teased for a long time? If she has a good friend who uses money to measure love, don't you think she will gradually believe in her friends' values? When young, women's thoughts are often influenced by friends around them. A woman I slept with has a good relationship with me. She used to be a, how to say, more serious girl, who couldn't make some unexpected jokes. However, I have to admit today that I am really charming, hehe. Today, we go to take a bath. She said my neck was tanned. I was surprised to answer, really? "Well," she replied, drawing a brightly colored line on me with her finger. Then, unexpectedly, she touched me and sang it twice. At that time, I suddenly froze and looked at her and smiled. Awkward. Although we often quarrel and sometimes take advantage of her, it is all through clothes. I really don't know what to say now. Should I say that she is shine on you rather than Blue? I'm dizzy! 3, moisten things quietly-magazines are not good for teaching women. There used to be a saying in the industry: "Newspapers are men's and magazines are women's." In fact, many women grew up with several women's magazines. When a woman doesn't know how to be a woman, magazines play an educational role. They are the girl's bosom friends, and always stay with her at the pillow, and guide her to grow into a woman through persuasion. I remember when I was growing up, I often read fashion. I remember there didn't seem to be many women's magazines. It should be said that fashion has greatly inspired me in the self-shaping of figure and appearance, and improved my appreciation of beauty. Whenever I watch Vogue, I will consciously take the models on it as a yardstick to measure myself and criticize my figure and appearance mercilessly. Because of girls' pursuit of perfection, I will force myself to try to get close to that healthy figure. Now think about it, the magazines at that time only taught women how to be beautiful, but did not discuss how women should live. Nowadays, women's magazines are no longer limited to fashion. I'm afraid there are hundreds of women's magazines all over the country. The page number is getting thicker and thicker, and the picture is getting more and more beautiful, which provides readers with a model of ideal life. No wonder so many women are clamoring for "life in magazines". Men never understand why women like magazines so much. In fact, magazines have a deep understanding of women's hearts. If you want to know about women, you can read women's magazines, which is a whisper between women. Someone once summed up a practical fashion magazine, saying that it taught women "how to find a job, how to jump ship, how not to work, how to find a man, how to keep a man, how to rob a man, how to make others envy me, how not to envy others, how to fire the boss, how not to be fired by the boss, and so on." Most of the women's magazines we see are like this. I have browsed the titles of some magazines and extracted them as follows: how to hook up with foreigners, not sexy and not men, women's affairs, the stimulation of drunk driving, swinging between innocence and prostitution, and even well-known magazines shocked the world by putting condoms in books as bonuses for readers. Once, I read a lot of such magazines in the library. At this time, an old revolutionary-looking man muttered to me and him, "This kind of magazine can only teach bad people." I laughed because I couldn't tell which was good and which was bad for a long time. Can someone tell me the correct answer? 4, roll up thousands of snow erotic films to make women want to move. There are natural differences between men and women's preferences for entertainment. In movies, most men like science fiction, martial arts, gun battles and movies with certain pornographic content, while many women like myths, horror and comics. In terms of content, they try to choose literary films with pure and beautiful love and handsome and beautiful heroes. These two appreciation preferences are basically natural gender attributes. Most young men and women can tolerate and accommodate each other's preferences when they are in love. Once they become an old couple who don't need to care about each other's faces, they will stage a big battle for the remote control board, and eventually they will watch each other, live in peace and not interfere with each other. But there are only a few films that "may teach women bad", and many men don't want their wives to watch them. According to the terrible degree of its content, they are: the life experience of the country woman who followed the rules all her life and cheated only once in the film made many women who also experienced a dull life sing for it. "Short-lived true love has become a cherished memory of that poor woman's life, and it has also become a bright color in her gloomy life", which has almost become a terrible hint. Many women who were "heartless" but didn't cheat chose to take a step forward in order to add a little bright color to their gloomy life. Although her infidelity may only be the real choice of her own life, it has nothing to do with the movie. However, the catalysis and agitation of movies are obvious. That's why men don't want their wives to see this movie. Every man wants to be the protagonist in the movie, not his wife. The second movie is city of glass, which is also a movie about extramarital affairs. The plot is quite classic: the hero and heroine have their own families and children in Hongkong and new york, but they build a "city of glass" in London because of their unsuccessful love when they were young. On Christmas Eve, they had a car accident on their way to see fireworks, hugged each other and died in beautiful fireworks ... In this movie, men, especially those whose wives are better than themselves. The third film is red shoe diaries, which is about a model couple who love each other. When his wife died unexpectedly and his husband was heartbroken, he found a diary hidden by his wife, which clearly recorded the quiet and shy wife's daring and fanatical extramarital sex experience again and again ... The biggest confusion for many men after watching the movie is: Did his wife also hide such a diary in a secret place in his home? There are many movies of this type. Many men don't like their wives to watch these movies, but they want other people's wives to watch them. Some people even express their expectations by inviting them to watch movies or borrow DVDs. Ladies, if someone inexplicably wants to introduce you to these films, you should be careful. 5. Lower body writing-the so-called lower body writing makes women fall into a strange circle of pouring out their hunger and thirst, which naturally has a certain social background, and the beautiful women who become famous by writing with lower body naturally have cultural, economic and political factors that make them famous. Zhao Ning, I didn't know there was such a woman writer in China, but she always reminded people with something and remembered her forever. Her several works, Volcano on the Woman's Chest, Body Fragrance and the newly completed Life of Miss Hu, have established her position as an erotic writer in breast writing. It seems that under the guidance of erotic spirit, her literary road will be wider and wider. Just like Li Yinhe, when studying other problems, she has never heard of her name. However, after talking about sex and marriage, it became hot overnight. I think the road of eroticism has become an inevitable trend for both scholars and writers. Judging from the names of these works by Zhao Ning, it seems that people think more about emotion and color, and it is easy to arouse some people's sexual desire. It is not surprising that someone is looking for the plot of making love in her works. Zhao Ning, an old woman, deliberately lured readers to read such a topic, but she said she was not a porn writer. Does anyone believe it? Spiritual temptation, I don't know if it is a crime. With the development of the Internet today, it is these contents related to love, sex and sex that enter people's eyes, not which star has been exposed again, but which man or woman has something wrong. I thought again, what would happen if the internet didn't have these. Cann't it exist I remember Muzimei, an online celebrity famous for her description, or as a writer, boldly described her sleeping with every man in her works, including a lot of psychological descriptions. Maybe these works are just works, not her real life, but her overnight popularity seems to verify that such a pornographic route is right. Otherwise, she only writes some unattractive literary works. Will I know her now? The answer is yes, I won't know. Because of her uniqueness, because of her gender, because she doesn't describe love very well, she is welcomed by such a group of people. Once in a certain community, I read a novel about sexual description with curiosity. I thought that people who have experienced this kind of experience would be older men and women with certain life experiences. Later, it was pointed out that these works were all from teenagers, and I always wondered, did they have such an experience or did they get information from other people's works? The internet is sometimes terrible, and this kind of sex and color are spreading more boldly. Just like Apple and Lust, Caution, every movie is more passionate and erotic, and many sexual scenes are mixed in it. However, what is the result? However, it has a completely different reflection. Online comments on them are also the most in movies, which has attracted the attention of the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television and banned them. If some people still can't understand the culture of love and color and why, it's better to say that you are too backward. Nowadays, emotion and color have completely occupied the mainstream of culture. The writer writes with his chest and lower body, which is also a manifestation of adapting to society. If they don't do this, they won't be popular. People will think more about their own interests and don't think it is a kind of cultural pollution. I don't know whether erotic writers guide literature or the tastes of the audience and readers determine the appearance of erotic writers. These two topics are always unclear. When some people say that online pornography is violent, not many people support this view. On the contrary, more people directly use violent means to deal with this honest man. A person stays in such a yellow and violent environment for a long time. He has adapted to it and likes it very much. If someone says it's not good, he won't agree. Zhang Nostalgia is just two outstanding erotic writers, and they can't all be said to be excellent. What about those who also write pornography? One less chance, otherwise, there will be more. Survival of the fittest, perhaps, is also an adaptation. In any case, the so-called beautiful women who write in the lower body are expressing some dissatisfaction with reality to the world in a self-destructive and self-humiliating way. It can also be said that it is fighting against the so-called mainstream civilization, and to some extent, it is trying to tear off the mask of all hypocrites at all times and in all countries. From this point of view, we think their behavior is much greater, more glorious and more correct than the despicable behavior of those respectable corrupt officials.