"A good girl doesn't marry a Putian man. Good men don't marry Fuzhou women. " This sentence originated in northern Fujian, and the family status of women who have been to Putian is extremely low, and men are more masculine than other places, so they have this sentence; Instead of marrying Fuzhou women, it is said that Fuzhou girls don't like housework, which leads to Fuzhou men being somewhat similar to Shanghai men, taking care of both inside and outside.
Of course, this sentence is just a play theory. No matter which city has different divisions of laziness and diligence, the details will vary from person to person.
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In the Song Dynasty, a legendary figure appeared in Putian, and Putian called it "Crazy Five". He is man of great talent, humorous, eager for public interests, and knowledgeable in family studies. Let's say that his uncle is a national uncle and his uncle is a prime minister. It is easy for him to get some fame, but he is not keen on fame. Wandering around all day, not in line with secular etiquette, love to be a leader;
but it is also pleasing and deeply loved by the villagers. Let's say that this day is a good day to talk about love, enjoy flowers and sing poems, dry wheat and dry peanuts. Crazy Five started again, occasionally making limericks, picking flowers and provoking grass, and visiting a small village near Meizhou Bay. At the same time, there is also a great man who came to this village-the governor of Guangdong Province.
Thinking about my own sadness, I can't help singing a poem: A good man doesn't marry a Fuzhou woman, but a Putian girl if he wants to marry. Unexpectedly, as soon as the words were spoken, his wife grabbed him by the ear, pulled him back to reality, and quickly changed his mouth: a good man doesn't marry a Fuzhou woman, and it's in vain to achieve fame. His wife just stopped, but it happened that this poem was heard by "Crazy Five".
Crazy Five thought to herself, "I miss our Putian girls, who are gentle, diligent, beautiful and kind, hard to find in the world, and have a beautiful reputation. No matter how you say it, good men don't marry Putian girls, and it's in vain to achieve fame!" Think I want to stay in Putian. Even disdain that fame. " So he casually said, "A good woman doesn't marry a Putian man, even if she is rich, it will be in vain." .....