Maybe young people will choose the lost love, because after all, they are young and never know what the pressure and responsibility on their shoulders are. After all, just one hand, you will fall in love with someone and not necessarily get hurt. What about forgetting?

However, the answer of most adults is: unemployment rate.

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Since work and money are the basic necessities for us adults, when we have no job, our self-esteem and dignity will disappear.

Adults can't talk about more jobs, but they must work, because they still have many dreams to pursue, because they still have to bear the responsibility of supporting their families, because they still have to give themselves a foundation for life. You can say that you can ink the word "money" every day and every moment after you become an adult.

Is lovelorn and unemployed the most painful thing for you?

Liu Jie is a single mother. Her children are two years old, but she lost her job in front of her. She is not unemployed like many young people. I can adjust myself, and then I will find it. More suitable for yourself.

She doesn't consider these, because of the various expenses of the family, the needs of the children and the needs of her parents. She must consider that she is living every day now. As long as her bank card has no money, please pay attention at night, and you can't sleep.

As a mother, she has no time to take care of and love. She has only money, so she can only find a good job and work hard. Only in this way can she have the most comfortable life.

Many people still say that adults must have a decent life, but like this single mother, she is young and her life is already very difficult. If she wants to be more decent, her life will be more difficult and hard to get.

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People can be stubborn when they are young. The ending of love will be beautiful. They will also love, but when people are a little older, they will find that many things in this world are actually not strong. No matter what emotion or love, when the other person doesn't love himself, everything is distorted.

Only when you have your own ability and economic strength, when you are eliminated from your post, this is the biggest bottom for adults.

Before, my friend opened a restaurant, but in this year's environment, his store closed, losing more than 10 million.

Many friends have seen him before. They call him Boss Wang. He has a small face. But now, his shop is closed, and when he doesn't take it out every day, he has anxiety and spends more time at home. He can't sleep He has an absurd self-esteem and worries about his wife and children at the same time. He is more worried that he can't bear such great pressure and break his family.

Recently, his wife's attitude towards him has gradually changed. He drove all day to drip water, and happened to meet an old acquaintance, an old acquaintance's cold pepper, on the way to drive. He also said that he wanted two friends to take pictures and tell everyone to drip on Lao Wang.

The old country felt humiliated. When he got home, he was particularly sighing and listless, but his wife came: "What happened today? Big shot, what? "

At that moment, he felt really helpless because face is not important, but the problem is the most terrible for his state and the happiness of his family.

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Lacey, marriage is hard to run without food and money. So at this time, even if I have a stable and decent job, it will not lead to my own mentality and my own life. This is too bad.

We often complain that this job is too tiring and difficult, but angels are fragrant, but they work to make money. With work, we feel more valuable; With a job, we can get the salary we deserve; Then do what we want to do and repay the people we want to reply to.

So you let me fall in love or lose my job, which is more painful? As an adult, my answer is: of course, when I lose my job, when I even get enough, I feel more painful!