1. Not being obnoxious in looks, if you don't look good, make yourself talented; if talent isn't there either, then always smile.
2. Temperament is the key. If fashion is not good, prefer purity.
3. When shaking hands with someone, shake them for a while. Sincerity is the treasure.
4. You don't have to use "I" as the subject of everything.
5. Don't borrow money from your friends.
6. Don't "force" guests to look at your family album.
7. When taking a taxi with someone, sit next to the driver first.
8. Stick to saying nice things about people behind their backs, and don't worry that they won't reach the ears of the people involved.
9. When someone says something bad about someone in front of you, you just smile.
10. If you drive a small car yourself, don't make a point of stopping to say hello to a coworker on a bicycle. People will think you're showing off.
11. When a coworker is sick, visit him. Sit naturally on his hospital bed and go home and wash your hands carefully.
12. Don't let people know all about your past.
13. Respect people who don't like you.
14. Treat things but not people; or be merciless to things, but be merciful to people; or be a person first, do things second.
15. Self-criticism is always believable; self-praise is not.
16. Nothing improves your bowling score more than onlookers. So don't usually begrudge your cheers.
17. Don't take the goodness of others for granted. Be aware of gratitude.
18. The banyan tree "Bugsy" is talking, not listening, the result is a mess. Learn to listen.
19. Respect the master in the communication room and the hygienic aunt.
20. Remember to start your sentences with "we".
21. Applaud everyone who sings on stage.
22. Sometimes you have to ask the obvious question: Your diamond ring is very expensive, isn't it? Sometimes you can't ask even if you want to, like: how old are you?
23. More words will be lost, less talk on crowded occasions.
24. Change the unspoken "no" to: "It will take time", "I'll do my best", "I'm not sure ", "I'll call you when I've made up my mind."......
25. Don't expect everyone to like you, it's impossible, and making most people like you is a sign of success.
26.Of course, you have to like yourself.
I'll add two more,
27.If you are performing or giving a speech, if there is only one person listening to it, you must continue with all your heart, even if there is no one to applaud you must still perform, because this is the road to your success, it is the cradle of your success, you don't want the people who are watching to be successful, you want you to be successful.
28. If you see a posting is still worth a look, then you must reply, because your reply will give people the courage to continue, will give people a great incentive, and at the same time will make people grateful to you
Not then take a look at the following words:
Look at the classic quotations that can make you calm
A. The reason for the suffering of people lies in the pursuing the wrong things.
> two, rather than others make you suffer, it is better to say that their own cultivation is not enough. > Third, if you don't trouble yourself, others will never be able to trouble you. Because inside yourself, you can't let go.
> Fourth, discipline yourself well and leave others alone.
> Fifth, not forgiving all beings, not forgiving all beings, is bitter to yourself.
> Sixth, do not say that other people are poor, they are more poor, they practice and how? The first thing you need to know is how much you know about life.
> seventh, learning Buddhism is to their own conscience, not to do to others.
> VIII. Those who are not blessed enough will often hear right and wrong; those who are blessed enough never hear right and wrong.
> ix. Cultivation is a bit of work.
> Tenth, practicing in good times can never lead to Buddhahood.
> xi. You should always be grateful to the beings who give you adversity.
> xii. You must always be resigned to your fate, for you are human.
> xiii. You must always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, or even if they have hurt you, you must let go of them in order to be truly happy.
> xiv. This world is meant to be painful, without exception.
> xv. When you are happy, you have to think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain you have to think that this pain is not eternal.
> xvi. Recognize yourself, subdue yourself, and change yourself so that you can change others.
> XVII. Today's obsession will result in tomorrow's regret.
> xviii. You can have love, but don't cling to it, because separation is inevitable.
> xix. Don't waste your life on what you will surely regret.
> xx. Whenever you let go, there is no worry.
> xxi. The absence of separateness within is true austerity.
> 2. The first concept of learning Buddhism is never to look at the faults of living beings. If you look at the faults of sentient beings, you will always pollute yourself, and it is impossible for you to practice at all.
> 2-3, if you see the faults and rights and wrongs of the living beings every day, you have to quickly go to repentance, this is the practice
> 2-4, the karma of the people, all day long to look at the faults and shortcomings of the other people, the real practice of the people, never look at the faults and shortcomings of the other people.
> 二五、Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.
> Two six, when you know the confusion, is not poor, when you do not know the confusion, is the most poor.
> 2.7. The arrogant are saved, but those with low self-esteem are not.
> 2.8 You should not be dissatisfied with others, you should always review yourself. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the things that you've been doing.
> 2.9 All the evils are illusory, so don't be too proud of yourself. The first thing that you should do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are doing and how you are doing it, and how you are doing it.
> Thirty, when you worry, you have to tell yourself, this is all false, you worry about what?
> Thirty-one: When you have not studied Buddhism, you look at everything. When you learn Buddhism, you have to look at everything very smoothly.
> 2. You have to be tolerant of those whose opinions are different from yours. If you keep trying to change him, you will suffer a lot. The first thing you need to do is to learn how to tolerate him. You have to learn how to tolerate him.
> 333. To recognize one's own greatness is to recognize one's own foolishness.
> 三四、修行就是修正自己错误的观念。
> 3-5. It is difficult for a doctor to cure a person at the end of his life, and it is difficult for a Buddha to ferry unattached beings.
> 三六、一个人如果不能从内心去原谅别人，那人就永不会不会心安得安理。
> 37. Those whose hearts are filled with their own opinions and thoughts can never hear the hearts of others.
> 38, the destruction of people as long as a sentence, cultivation of a person but want a thousand words, please more mouth mercy.
> 39, when you advise others, if you do not take into account the self-esteem of others, then the best words are useless.
> xlix. Do not mingle arrogance with your wisdom. Do not make your humble heart lack wisdom.
> XLI. It is not at all necessary to look back to see who it is that curses you? If a mad dog bites you, are you going to lie down and bite him back?
> 4.2. Jealousy of others does not add anything to one's favor. It is not possible to reduce the achievements of others by being jealous of them.
> Four three, never waste a minute of your time thinking about anyone you don't like.
> 四四、多少人要离开这个世间时，都会说出同一一句话，这世界真是无奈与凄凉啊!
> Four five, love is not charity, can not just give alms. The feelings are no formula, no principle, no reason to follow. But people to death are still obsessed with and pursuit.
> Four six, please use compassion and gentle scruples, your dissatisfaction and grievances out, others will be easy to accept.
> Four seven, create opportunities for people are brave. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
> 4.8, can say can not do, is not the real wisdom.
> Four nine, more heart to listen to what others say, do not rush to express your own views.
> Fifty, the same bottle, why do you want to fill the poison? The same psychology, why do you want to be full of trouble?