In my opinion, every marriage actually begins with the love between husband and wife, but in the end it is easy to deteriorate because of the integration of love into life. Everyone yearns for a happy marriage, but married life is realistic. It may be courage, self-confidence and love that decide to enter marriage. Protecting a marriage requires two people to do their best all their lives. Love, that sounds romantic. Marriage is a serious matter. When you are in love, you don't care about each other, but marriage is a division of labor.
We all have to admit that it is very difficult to balance family and career. When both husband and wife's jobs are floating, the family division of labor becomes more complicated. The simple and rude dichotomy of "male outside and female inside" or "female outside and male inside" can no longer meet the needs of the new era and needs to be carefully divided again. Women will take on more and more roles, choose, entangle and repeat, it is easy to get out of position, and they will lose themselves in a hurry. When women start asking, "Can you have a family and a career at the same time?" They are often exhausted. There is no specific standard for family division of labor, only suitability and willingness.
So, to be honest, although marriage looks beautiful and great, it is full of compromise and reality at the deepest level. Get up early and dare not rest, life becomes tense, flustered, disorderly and busy, and there is less and less time for yourself to control. I'm running for my marriage and family.