Lead: What is a husband and wife? Love for a lifetime, quarrel for a lifetime, endure for a lifetime, this is husband and wife. The following is an article about the feelings of life between husband and wife. I hope you can understand the way husband and wife get along after reading it.
Gentleman's Way: Are they lovers? In other words, the relationship between husband and wife has a far-reaching impact. Why do you say that? Let's have a look. Husband and wife are roommates, which is a room. If husband and wife live in harmony, then children will grow up in a good family environment and be happy. Then, the relationship between children and parents will be close. On the other hand, if the husband and wife are not in harmony, and the family is indifferent except quarreling, then the child will be affected and bury hidden dangers for the child's future.
When husband and wife get along, be careful from the beginning! In other words, before you get married, you should polish your eyes and choose a good partner. Of course, this is two-sided. You are choosing others, and others are choosing you. How to get along with men and women is not taught in school, so young people nowadays learn from love songs, but what they learn is painful love, as if: people are not frivolous and waste teenagers! Is this called love? When people get along with each other, they have to go through some processes, such as getting to know each other, knowing each other, cherishing each other, loving each other, and finally entering the marriage hall.
People often say: marriage is the grave of love! Is this sentence correct? I remember I once wrote a passage in my speech: It is said that marriage is the grave of love, but if you don't find it earlier when you are young, you will end up in a tragic end when you are old! Hehehe, it's a joke, but it makes sense. Husband and wife get along well, just like wine. The older they get, the better they get. Marriage needs careful management. Imagine looking at each other when we are in love. Not seeing you for a day, like Sanqiu? Always want to do something for each other to express themselves? The other person is perfect in his own eyes, and even his shortcomings are so individual? Do you have anything to say after the meeting? But after marriage? Everything has changed! Put down the disguise, it's all relative to the truth. At this time, the feeling of looking at each other has changed, shortcomings have come, and advantages have turned a blind eye. I always think about what the other party has done for me, and always feel that I am losing money. Is this still called husband and wife? Go do business! To tell the truth, I have made such mistakes, but fortunately, I will correct them when I know them, change my mentality to live, and re-examine the people around me with the eyes of meeting for the first time. Really, it just feels different. Trust me, give it a try and you will get different results.
Don't think I'm old-fashioned. Just move out what the ancients said, and you will understand after listening. What the ancestors said is still reasonable. A husband should be kind, affectionate and moral. Be grateful to your parents, be affectionate to your wife, and discipline your children well. This is a real man. What about the wife? There must be female virtue, female speech, female merit and female appearance. A woman should be virtuous, or you will make her husband's family uneasy, affect the relationship between husband and wife, and affect the growth of children. You can't help but know that your words and deeds are imperceptibly affecting children, so female morality is very important.
Women's words, let's think about when the mother's language began to affect the children. From the beginning of pregnancy, mothers now know the importance of prenatal education. Mother has beautiful and soft language, and children will be polite to people in the future. On the contrary, when a mother speaks loudly, the children will be like quarreling, so I won't mention the example. There are many things around us, including ourselves, which are worth reflecting on. Tell me another question that many people will make. Life is stressful now, and we often complain. When we have opinions about people around us, we often talk about their mistakes. Please pay attention to this and don't do it again. Remember, children don't understand right and wrong between adults. He will only judge from your language, maybe it is some of your complaints, but he has given the child a hint that he will judge your friends from it. Do you think you hurt the children? At the same time, it will also bring embarrassment to yourself, because the child's words are unscrupulous and he will never tell you when. Then there is the child's teacher. Sometimes, teachers make mistakes. Teachers are human. He also has emotions and mistakes. It may be that he has a bad attitude towards children recently, or that he misunderstood them. At this time, our words will play a decisive role. Don't criticize the teacher in front of the children. This will make children have resistance to learning and will hurt children. Whenever this time, I will tell my children about the teacher first. Let's talk about the teacher's efforts, and then tell the children that we should try our best to change ourselves, and the teacher will see. We can communicate with the teacher in private. Don't home and school work together now? Let's not miss this opportunity. Therefore, words are very important.
Women's work, ancient women would do a lot of housework, weaving and making clothes. Now you don't have to knit, you can buy ready-made ones, but the woman still has to do the work. Housework is what women must do, and the family environment needs to be cleaned up. No matter how big or small your home is, whether it is a building or a villa, even a small dwelling, it should be neat and clean, so that they can live comfortably, so that children can learn to do housework by themselves in such an environment, so as not to litter things. In addition to cleaning up the housework, women should also cook well. After a hard day's work, lovers and children get together to eat your cooking. Isn't that a beautiful and happy scene? On the contrary, if you can't cook, you often eat out. Now I won't talk about the catering industry in China. Everyone knows a lot when they watch the news. In short, some diseases will come to you slowly. Think about the sentence we said when we were young: What a wonderful memory it is for Dad to go home for dinner!
A woman's face, this is very important. We can't always make up like this on our wedding day, can we? But be solemn and generous, right? Some women think that I am married and have children, so why should I dress up? It becomes sloppy. Okay, no outsiders. My husband was surprised when he came home. You know, your dignified appearance is also an example for your children and a kind of respect for people. But don't dress up as a monster, don't wear strange clothes, and don't wear clothes that are not suitable for your age. In that case, what should I say? Anyway, I look awkward, don't you think? When you have nothing to do, you can go online to learn how to match clothes and how to choose clothes that suit your body shape. It is also good.
When we correct our conduct and words and deeds, we will certainly educate our children well, but I don't need to say much about the feelings between husband and wife, do I? Even if there is a problem, even if you have faced hardships, you can rest assured that it will pass. Since men and women are equal, men should abide by these four virtues. Anyway, it's right to lead by example!
Having said that, in short, how couples get along really varies from person to person. As a middle-aged person, we will face a lot of life, career and feelings. In the face of temptation, who can say that we can achieve inner peace? Who dares to say that he can be alone? But anyway, please remember one thing: your responsibility! No matter what you face, you should face it bravely, solve it with your heart, and don't run away. Escaping will only increase your troubles and leave you with regrets! What we have to do is to solve the problem, make the bad good and make the good good. I have confidence and ability. What about you? Friends, I wish you happiness forever!
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