In order to avoid unnecessary trouble, it is wrong to keep children away from blind box games. Children will certainly encounter more uncertainties in the future, and will also experience many "blind box" events. The blind box seems to be a game and a toy, but the meaning of life behind it is also worthy of our in-depth study. For children, in order to better accept the blind box, parents are advised to try this in their daily life.
A.? Let the children understand the fun of collecting first. The toys in the blind box are different. Many children also collect them and want to get all the images. Then you need to instill the concept of collection in your children first.
Children may suddenly start to like "picking up garbage". In the face of this behavior of the baby, we always make a fuss and say, "How dirty!" "Don't answer it, don't touch it!" But maybe the child just picked up a dusty leaf and a few stones that looked dirty. These tiny things will attract children's attention and want to take them home for collection.
B.? Let children know what randomness is. When explaining randomness to children, we often use "buying lottery tickets" to describe it. As we all know, if you use what one child doesn't understand to explain what another child doesn't understand, he naturally can't understand it.
Remember the card-rubbing machine you played when you were a child? Fifty cents can make five cards, maybe the same, maybe a new card. But what I am looking forward to most is the matte card, which is equivalent to the money hidden in the blind box now. It is more acceptable for children to explain this randomness with their own personal experience. There are countless "blind box" events in life, which can make children accept the uncertainty of unpacking blind boxes and help their growth.
1、? Enhance children's psychological endurance. It's normal for a five-or six-year-old child like my sister not to understand randomness, and we can't force her to understand the mystery. However, through daily communication and experience, it is not difficult to gradually let children accept the fact of blind boxes. Accepting the changes and gains and losses in life is a sign of a person's psychological strength and the only way for children to grow up.
2、? It is helpful for children to socialize. Whenever my brother has a new mobile Altman card, he will show it to his classmates. When I pick him up from school, I often hear him discussing Altman with his classmates. I once found that a more introverted boy in their class also joined their chat group. No one is sure what can be opened in a blind box, but children can socialize effectively because of this uncertainty.
3、? Teach children how to cherish and share. Maybe someone opened the blind box and found that they already had one. Maybe some people will be surprised to find that they have collected everything. The joy of gathering all the children is beyond words. At this time, we can tell our children that it is not easy to collect everything, and we should learn to cherish it and not throw it away at will. In the face of others' loss, you can also share your achievements gracefully and enjoy them together.
As Mr. Lu Xun said, toys are children's angels, and the existence of any kind of toys has its significance. Don't look at children's behavior from the perspective of adults. Blind box is the product of adapting to the times. Children will come into contact with it sooner or later. Even if there are no blind box toys, there are still blind boxes waiting for them. It is the responsibility of parents to teach their children to grow up.
In the early morning, my mother came to talk: a second-born mother who started writing in the early morning, I wrote my heart by hand, and everything was my parenting experience with my children. I hope my parenting experience can bring you some help.