In my opinion, this form of experience is good, but it is obviously unnecessary to deliberately return.
? Acquaintance society is a small circle in which we live, especially in some small cities.
For example, booking a car depends on making friends? Looking for a car? Book a restaurant, say hello after work, go to court, and complain through acquaintances. If you barbecue on the roadside in summer night, there will be colleagues, neighbors and even relatives every few tables.
In acquaintance society, people's trust in acquaintances exceeds the inherent rules. When strangers deal with people in the acquaintance system, their trust will drop sharply, and even they will be posted carelessly? Not reliable? Label.
? Acquaintance society maintains the world? In the acquaintance society, their social roles are relatively fixed, because their personal characteristics are deeply rooted.
For example, if a person is good at cooking, the role of chef will be played by him in his living area, which has certain stability because his social role in the acquaintance society has been fixed.
Acquaintance society because? Human feelings? And form a close social relationship, social relationship is also because? Human feelings? And I can't lift it. ?
Although this relationship has its advantages, the tacit understanding between them can save a lot of trouble, even if you are in trouble, it is easy to find it? Acquaintances? Help you solve it. Maybe there is? Acquaintances? Give you support, and you will have face?
But? Acquaintance society also has some inevitable disadvantages.
That is, people always play a fixed role in society, and reciprocity and some necessary holiday activities inadvertently become internal friction.
Acquaintance society is bound to produce some unfair events, and the friendship and human feelings that can't be bypassed will become endless mutual protection, which is why some small places are often more difficult to handle some social cases.
? Social passivity of acquaintances? Kill them? In the acquaintance society with civilized human feelings, people's behaviors are all centered around human relations, so even if many people are thousands of miles away in their hometown, as long as they don't cut off their previous social relations, their behaviors will still be dominated by human relations to a certain extent.
That is to say, even if you are sitting in a Grade-A office building in Beijing and in charge of a 5 million project, you still have to ask for leave to go home to attend the full moon banquet of your cousin's children and help your second aunt chop up Pinduoduo.
Cutting is still messy? Acquaintance society is a part that you can't give up, because there are not only acquaintances, but also relatives and friends, and once their relationship spreads to each other, then both good and bad may be yours? Acquaintances? And you can only accept it.
After all,? Acquaintance society is a familiar moment when you smell food in the breathless subway and dreary cubicle, where only you know cold and warm.