Why is it so difficult to be filial to my beloved, and why is it so difficult to be filial to my beloved, and why is it so difficult to be filial to my beloved, and why does my family hate me, and why is filial to my beloved, and how can my family be virtuous if my family has a fault, and how can I admonish you? At home, when our parents call us, we should answer as soon as we hear them, and not be slow in answering. When our parents ask us to do something, we should act quickly and not procrastinate or be too lazy to do it.
In winter, as children, we should pay attention to whether our parents are warmly dressed and whether their home is warm. In summer, consider whether your parents feel cool. When you get up in the morning, be sure to visit your parents and ask if they are well.
Things are very small, don't take the liberty to do without informing your parents, if you do it arbitrarily, it will be detrimental to your duty as a child, and things are very small, don't hide them behind your parents' backs, if your parents know about it, they will be very sad in their hearts.
Parents love their children, children can filial piety parents, that is the most natural thing, such filial piety and what is the difficulty? If our parents hate us, but we can still be filial with all our heart, then that's what's so precious. The general public always thinks that parents have to pay something to their children before the children have the obligation to fulfill their filial piety, which is no different from bargaining in a food market.
When a parent makes a mistake, the child must advise him or her to correct it, and when doing so, he or she must not be stern and vocal, but rather be gentle and pleasant, and his or her words should be soft and gentle. If our parents do not accept our advice, we must wait until they are happy. If our parents still refuse to listen to us, those with filial piety cannot bear to see their parents suffer iniquity.
When a parent dies, he or she must mourn for three years, during which time he or she often weeps and grieves because he or she misses his or her parents, and he or she changes his or her place of residence to one of simplicity, and abstains from drinking wine and eating meat. The funeral of parents should be conducted in accordance with etiquette, not rashly and sloppily, and sacrifices should be made with all sincerity. The parents who have passed away should be treated with the same respect as they were before they were born.
Parents are the closest to us in life, and they have given us the greatest kindness, so we should try to learn the etiquette of serving our parents, and treat filial piety as a big business, and manage it with all our heart, so that we can stand on the ground between heaven and earth.
Father's kindness and son's filial piety do not necessarily make our home rich and wealthy, do not necessarily have a garden villa to live, but filial piety can establish a natural and harmonious order, so that we can live in a peaceful and comfortable environment. If a home is one's fortress, filial piety is the cornerstone under the fortress. More filial piety, home is more a guarantee, let us use filial piety to solidify the home as a golden fortress.
These rules of the Disciple's Rules may seem commonplace, but if we are serious about practicing them, they will bring joy and happiness to our parents. It's not something that can be compared to having sex. Now we can cultivate such a good behavior in the family, the future will naturally have an unexpected harvest.
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There is no greater joy than reading. p>There is no greater joy than reading, and no greater importance than teaching your children. The book "Rules of Discipleship" is a code of conduct for schoolchildren and is based on the teachings of the Most Holy Teacher, Confucius.
First of all, in daily life, we should be filial to our parents and love our brothers and sisters; secondly, we should be prudent in all our words and deeds and keep our word; we should be equal and kind in our dealings with the public, and we should always be close to those who have benevolence and virtue, and learn from them.
These things are fundamental to learning and must be done. If there is any room for improvement after doing them, one should endeavor to learn the six arts of ritual, music, archery, writing, and the arts, as well as the classics, and other useful studies.
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