It is important to cook in the restaurant or in the front hall after work. I'm single, so I can't have long-term contact with girls.
Although I am relatively tired in the kitchen, I can have the opportunity to learn a craft, which is helpful for my future income or entrepreneurship. You probably won't learn anything in the front hall. If you are smart and capable, your chances of promotion are relatively better. The contact time with girls in the front hall is definitely long and short, but girls must also consider your career and income after contact. How to support the family after being a waiter in the front office is different from learning a craft in the back kitchen.