Because of the problem of sharing a room, Lu was full of grievances. Originally, Lumou and his younger brother operated this restaurant in other places, and the business was not bad. But in the past six months, this restaurant has closed. It turned out that after Lu and his wife quarreled, Lu's wife ran back to her family, and this residence was half a year. The reason for this is that the great man Lu is full of grievances. Lumou said that he never thought that he and his wife got married voluntarily, and after they just got married, why didn't his wife want to share a room with him? This made Lu feel very angry. Lumou said that every time he touched his wife, she reacted very much, either saying that the period was endless, or dizzy, or anemia, or that I was tired, so don't touch me. His wife doesn't want to share a room with Lumou. Such an embarrassing thing once made Lu very upset. As a big man, such a thing happened to him. Lu said that they are legal couples. You love me, without compulsion. If you don't want to, your wife won't marry yourself. Seeing his wife's attitude towards himself, Lumou also tried to communicate with his wife. However, instead of changing, his wife accused Lu. Lu's wife said, "Do you men think with your lower body?" As long as you keep telling your wife this problem, they will quarrel endlessly. The husband and wife were in conflict, and the wife ran back to her family with her daughter. However, the Lu family thinks that the husband and wife have no emotional foundation, so they may need to cultivate their feelings first, and sharing a room also needs a process of gradual adaptation. However, with the passage of time, the situation is not as serious as they thought. Lu said that after the last quarrel, his wife jumped out of bed and didn't sleep with him. Later, his wife told him that if you forced me again, I would divorce you, and then I really wrote a divorce agreement. I didn't expect things to get so bad. When talking about divorce, Lu Jia said something that made everyone incredible. Lu and his wife shared a room once after two years of marriage. It was only after Lu found his wife's family and explained it to his wife's parents that his wife agreed. This is the only sharing, all won by Lu. Can it be said that the wife's unwillingness to share the same room is also the root cause of their emotional breakdown? Because of this incident, after the ex-husband quarreled with his wife for half a year, the wife ran back to her family with her children and never came back. Lujia decided to take Lu's wife back to Lujia. Unexpectedly, the wife told the truth about their journey. It is not easy to play with friends and form a family. Lujia decided to take Lu's wife back and cultivate feelings again. Let them live a normal husband and wife life as soon as possible. I believe that their contradictions will eventually be eased and the dawn of happiness will come soon. The Lu family came to his wife, Zhang Nianjia, to make peace. As a result, Zhang's words made Lu take the initiative to file for divorce. Why on earth is this? Is there a problem with Lu Jia's statement? Lu's parents tried to persuade them to get back together. On the side, Zhang said what he had hidden in his heart in front of the families of both sides: we shared the same room three times, twice at my mother's house and once at my husband's house. Where is it only once? Can I only get pregnant once? If you don't want me, will I still have children for you? Can it be said that the root cause of the contradiction between the two sides is not the problem of sharing? Angry Zhang told about the unequal treatment of Lu's wife in Lujia. Zhang said: When I was pregnant, Lu not only asked for the same room, but he didn't care. Instead, he kicked me out of Lujia. Not only that, from the first day she entered Lujia, Lu only gave her a few hundred dollars when she gave birth. Grandfather Lu added: My daughter is pregnant, but he asked her to go to the factory to find something to do. How can this be called a husband? Besides, he has never taken care of his own children since my daughter gave birth. Is there such a father? Since you don't love my daughter, please send her back and don't drive her away, ok? Their marriage came to an end and ended in discord. Finally, Zhang said that he would not go back to Lujia with them. In her opinion, after this heartbreaking marriage, even if she returns to Lujia, she will be driven out, because that place has suffered more than once. Even if Lu doesn't file for divorce, she will end this failed marriage. Originally, I thought that the reason for the failure of this marriage was the problem of husband and wife sharing the same bed, but in fact, these are just appearances. The real contradiction is the lack of communication and care between husband and wife. In fact, getting married is easy, but life is difficult. Marriage requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife. The first reason is that the wife may feel too tired and bored in the face of complicated housework and plain life, and she will not be enthusiastic when facing her husband. A middle-aged wife must have had children. In addition to children, there are parents on both sides of herself and her husband who need care and attention. If the husband doesn't have enough living ability and doesn't care about his wife, the wife may have to take care of him. In this way, a thin woman bears too heavy a task, and her daily life will be filled with all kinds of housework. Without breathing space, she will naturally be unhappy and become depressed. Even if I once loved my husband to death, in such an environment, this love has almost been erased, and naturally I don't want to share the same bed. The second reason is that two people have been together for a long time, and all kinds of surprises have been tried for the first time, and life has gradually become dull and repetitive. A fixed lifestyle every day, no unexpected surprises, and heavy work pressure make people just want to have a good rest and sleep after going home. Moreover, it has also been proved in medicine that excessive stress will make sleep unstable. During the important period of rising middle-aged career, if the wife is under great pressure, the quality of sleep is definitely not good, and the sleeping environment becomes extremely harsh, and it is difficult to fall asleep with a little movement around. In this case, in order to have a good sleep and face the heavy work the next day energetically, the wife will also ask for sleeping in separate beds. The third reason is also possible, that is, the wife has another man in her heart and is unwilling to take the initiative to divorce, so she stays away from her husband intentionally or unintentionally. Single-minded men and women are always hard to find. In all kinds of cheating surveys in society, it also shows that the cheating rate in marriage is very high. Although most of them are only temporary emotional infidelity, this kind of emotional infidelity can not be ignored. Of course, if you say you cheated, you still need definite evidence. If this kind of thing is not actually seen, it is just a guess out of thin air, which will only make the tired and naive other half tired of coping and bury a beautiful marriage hastily. Well, these are the three reasons why a wife doesn't want to sleep with her husband. Do you think there are other reasons?