Pictures and contents of the eight rites and four rituals handbills

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What are the eight rites and four ceremonies

"Eight rites and four ceremonies" in the "eight rites" refers to the "ritual of instrumentation", "Ceremony ritual", "the gift of speech", "the gift of hospitality", "the gift of walking", "Etiquette of Viewing", "Etiquette of Touring", and "Etiquette of Dining". "Four ceremonies" refers to the entrance ceremony (7 years old), the ceremony of growth (10 years old), the ceremony of youth (14 years old), the ceremony of adulthood (18 years old), so as to educate and guide the minors to strengthen civilized etiquette quality.

The Relevance of the Eight Rites and Four Etiquettes

Eight aspects of etiquette education, the etiquette of instrumentation, including a neat face, decent dress, natural hair, generous manner. The gift of food and drink, including hygiene, love food, thrifty meals, food elegant. Manners of speech, including civilized language, calmness, patience, listening, sincerity and friendliness. The courtesy of treating others includes respecting teachers and elders, loving partners, being tolerant and courteous, and treating others with honesty and integrity. The etiquette of walking, including obeying traffic regulations, yielding to the three first, helping the elderly and the weak, and taking the initiative to give up one's seat. The etiquette of watching refers to watching cultural and artistic performances and sports competitions, etc., to observe order, care for the environment, concentrate on enjoying, and politely applauding. The courtesy of visiting means treating the landscape well, caring for cultural relics, respecting folk customs and abiding by public morals. Ceremony of etiquette, is to pay attention to civilized etiquette, to do according to the rules of etiquette, fear, serious and solemn, respect for etiquette. "Four ceremonies" is mainly 7 years old, 10 years old, 14 years old, 18 years old as an important node, were organized to hold a profound, solemn and simple entrance ceremony, growth ceremony, youth ceremony, adult ceremony, so as to educate and guide the minors to strengthen the civilized etiquette literacy. Yang Zhichun special emphasis on instructions: "to carry out civilized etiquette education of minors in the country has no precedent, "Jiangsu Province, the basic civilized etiquette of minors norms" is still a trial, the need to explore and practice in the continuous improvement."

The specific content of the eight rites and four ceremonies

Eight rites

Instrumentation of the rites: neat face, decent clothes, natural hair, generous manner.

Ceremonial etiquette: perform the rituals according to the rules, with reverence, seriousness, and respect for the rituals and customs.

Manners of speech: civilized language, calmness, patience, listening, sincerity and friendliness.

Manners of treating others: respect for teachers and elders, friendship and companionship, tolerance and courtesy, honesty and integrity.

Manners of walking: obey the traffic rules, be courteous to the three first, help the old and the weak, and give up your seat voluntarily.

The manners of viewing: obey the order, care for the environment, concentrate on appreciation, polite applause.

Touring etiquette: treating the landscape, caring for cultural relics, respecting folklore, and abiding by public morals.

Dining etiquette: pay attention to hygiene, love food, frugal dining, eating elegant.

The Four Ceremonies

7 years old: the entrance ceremony, so that the newly enrolled primary school students to feel the joy of learning, contact with campus life, and perceive the norms of etiquette.

10 years old: Growth Ceremony, so that students in the third and fourth grades of elementary school learn to be thankful, know how to share, and understand the grace of parenting, teachers, and friends.

14 years old: Youth Ceremony, to allow secondary school students to learn to interact and communicate with each other, control their emotions, tolerate others, and take the first step towards youth.

18 years old: the ceremony of adulthood, so that students who have reached the age of 18 know the responsibility of adulthood, to be a law-abiding citizen, social responsibility, continuous self-improvement, and aspire to become a success to serve the country.

The Eight Rites and Four Etiquettes

Kong Rong gives up his pear: When Kong Rong was four years old, he used to eat pears with his brother. Every time, Kong Rong always took the smallest pear. Once, his father saw it and asked, "Why do you always take the smallest and not the big one?" Kong Rong said, "I am the younger brother, the youngest, I should eat the small one, the big one`s better to let my brother eat it!"

Kong Rong's understanding of siblings' mutual courtesy, mutual help, and solidarity at a young age surprised the whole family. From then on, the story of Kong Rong letting his brother have a pear has been passed down for thousands of years, and has become a model of unity and love.

"Zeng Zi avoided the seat" is from the Book of Filial Piety. Zeng Zi is a disciple of Confucius, once he sat beside Confucius, Confucius asked him: "The former sage king has the highest virtue, the essence of the subtle theory, used to teach the world, people can get along with each other, and there is no dissatisfaction between the king and his subjects, do you know what they are?" Hearing this, Zeng Zi understood that his teacher, Confucius, was trying to instruct him in the most profound truths, so he immediately got up from the mat on which he was sitting, walked outside of it, and respectfully replied, "I am not clever enough to know, so how can I know, and I ask my teacher to teach me these truths." Here, "avoiding the mat" is a very polite behavior. When Zeng Zi heard that his teacher was going to teach him, he stood up and walked outside the mat to ask the teacher to teach him, in order to show his respect to the teacher. The story of Zeng Zi's understanding of politeness was recited by later generations, and many people learned from him.

"Cheng Men Li Xue": according to legend, one day, the Song Dynasty scholars Yang Shi and You Yu, came to Songyang Academy to pay a visit to Cheng Yi, but was met with old Mr. Cheng closed his eyes and sat down to fake sleep. At this time, it began to snow outside. These two people are eager to seek a teacher, they respectfully stand aside, do not say nothing, so wait for half a day, Cheng Yi slowly opened his eyes, see Yang Shi, you editing stood in front of, ate a shock, said: "ah, ah! The two of them are still here not gone?" At this time, the snow outside the door has accumulated more than a foot thick, and Yang Shi and You Yu did not have a trace of fatigue and impatience.

This story was widely circulated among the scholars in the Song Dynasty. Later, the idiom of "Cheng Men Li Xue" was often used to express the respect of scholars for their teachers and their sincerity in pursuing studies.

Courtesy, is our basic quality, let the "clear courtesy in the heart, behavior in the people" become our conscious behavior.