If there is such a child, he often violates the school rules, but he has to go to a place explicitly prohibited by the school; Often talk back to parents, write homework for reference, and be detained by the dean many times; Fighting with students and causing serious injuries, ignoring the rules of not going out at night and wandering around; Even when I was in high school, the situation was even worse. I attacked the headmaster, illegally broke into the state administrative department and stole from the bank ... would you like such a child? Who is such a child?
Congratulations on your right guess. This child is Harry Potter written by J.K. Rowling.
Wait, is this Harry very different from the big boy who loves adventure, dares to take responsibility, is smart but modest, and saved the wizarding world twice before he became an adult?
Don't dwell on this question, ask yourself: what would you do if your child had any one or more of the above, and would you like to raise your child like this?
Or further imagine:
If your child likes adventure but can't find the treasure, hates evil but doesn't save the world, and sticks to his own opinion but achieves nothing … If your child has these excellent potentials but is not Harry Potter, will you still firmly cultivate his character?
These are some doubts when I reread Harry Potter.
Before the Spring Festival, I came across the drawing version of the first book of Harry Potter. Out of love for Harry, I immediately bought it for our little monster. The little one was also very interested, so he turned over all the illustrations and kept asking, who is Harry Potter, who is the bad guy and who is on this big motorcycle? Wow, ghost ... but of course, I soon lost patience to listen to my adventures of Harry Potter and went to see it. I know it's too early for him to read such a story, but I was aroused by curiosity, took out the original books I had collected before and read three at a time.
The feeling of reading this book more than ten years ago is still there. Of course, the most thought at that time was "Hey, it's cool to be a magician! If only I could go to Hogwarts! " . I have a lot of expectations when I read again now. I hope that my child will like this set of books, that he can learn something from them, that he will like the future school as much as Hogwarts, and that his children will be like Harry, Hermione, Ron and Neville. ...
I can't help thinking, can we raise our children to be like Harry? Of course, I don't want my child to experience that kind of life danger, and I don't want to see the child "die" when he grows up, but I do hope that he has Harry's tough personality, independent courage and colorful life.
That's not easy. Harry has many reasons to be someone else, and even on the contrary, he is more likely to be spoiled like Dali.
Imagine if a child knew that he had saved the world at the age of one. What will it bring to his growth to be surrounded by such great glory when his mind is completely immature? Even if he was raised by a strict elder, such as Dumbledore, would he still be so modest? You may disagree, but take another familiar figure, Yang Kang, as an example, it is easy to understand. As we all know, he was a very likable figure at first, but later, even under the strict training of a master like Qiu Chuji, he went astray ... Are you surprised? In fact, Harry and Yang Kang have many common characteristics. They are smart and studious, don't care about rules and are eager for success. Premature achievement of great achievements is not conducive to growth, and it is impossible to surpass it. Fortunately, we don't have to worry about this. After all, our children don't live in such a fictional world.
However, attention should be paid to isolating the side effects of "success" on children. Even ordinary families should avoid giving their children a sense of superiority. For example, if you have a car at home and your relatives and friends don't, you should be especially careful not to give him the illusion that you have a car, which means who is stronger.
Harry is likely to be a friend of another Decolasse or Decolasse. What will be the end of the story? Although I always thought that Decolasse Malfoy was not a bad boy, he was clever and kind, and he knew what was wrong, but in the end he became Voldemort's accomplice because of vanity and desire to be better than others. However, why can Harry avoid the trap of vanity and even fail to inherit his father's bad habit of playing tricks on people like Malfoy? Perhaps because he was teased by others, he knew that playing tricks on others would hurt others. Maybe because he has friends like Ron and Hermione, he doesn't want his friends to be hurt like that. In a word, although he wanted to be strong, he was not confused by vanity. From the beginning, he chose Gryffindor College instead of Slytherin College.
Harry may even become Voldemort. Voldemort's childhood experience is very similar to Harry's. When he was Tom, he was a lonely child and grew up in an orphanage. He has no parents, is weak and is often bullied. Magic gave him the ability to change his destiny. Harry also punished his children for bullying like Tom, but later they made a completely different choice. One is to gain a sense of security by punishing and controlling others, because he hates human beings and wants to be strong. Although Harry hates the Petunias who bully him, he won't punish them for bullying him. This may be because he has the magic of "love" given to him by his mother, and he can tolerate others more. Even if he wants to kill his enemy, he will only use "except your weapon" instead of cursing. It may also be the existence of Voldemort, the opposite enemy who killed his parents, which made Harry avoid doing the same thing as Voldemort, because his goal was to defeat him. Tom had no enemies of his own, but he kept creating enemies and eventually became his own. ...
So what are the characteristics of our children? Under what circumstances will these qualities develop into good qualities? What role did Dumbledore's arrangement, his choice of friends and Hogwarts play in Harry's growth? We will discuss it in the next article:->