1. No matter how hard you try to make yourself perfect, there will always be 1 groups of people pointing at your back behind your back. You don't need to scold or slap anyone. They are not necessarily bad people, but they just don't understand your way of life.

2. We can't control what others think; We can't force others to do anything. The only thing you can do is to do your own thing with all your heart, go your own way, and live a good life according to your own principles. Even if someone mistreats you, time will not mistreat you, and life will not mistreat you!

3. Don't be too mean to those who love you. Few people really treat you well all their lives. How many people wake up when everything is about to be lost? Everyone has a temper and bears all the anger for you just because that person loves you more than you do.

4. KFC never scolds McDonald's, and McDonald's never talks about KFC, so they both become the top 511 in the world; Mercedes-Benz never denigrated BMW, nor did BMW denigrate Mercedes-Benz, and both became famous cars. Therefore, we don't need to denigrate others and defend ourselves. People are alive, just shine their own light, and don't blow out other people's lights!

5. Everyone's life is a process: you never cook until you become handy later; From the beginning of a person's life at a loss to the present in good order; From being unable to get used to parting at all to the final peace, from being overly crazy in love to being cautious now.

6. People with goals are grateful, while those without goals are complaining, because they feel that the whole world owes him! If you are complaining about fate, please remember: life is an excuse for losers; Luck is a modest word of success. Although fate is determined by heaven, complaining is just a sign of cowardice; Hard work is the attitude of life!

7. After a hundred years of life, there is not much time to squander. It is said that happiness is like drinking water, and you know it when you are warm and cold. Some people are chasing happiness every day, but they never feel the existence of happiness. Some people, knowing how to collect a little warmth and touch, will walk with happiness.

8. Life should not be controlled by the past. It is the present that determines your progress. Don't be controlled by others in life, it is yourself who decides your destiny; Life should not be controlled by money, what determines your happiness is contentment; Life should not be controlled by hatred, it is forgiveness that determines your happiness; Life should not be controlled by appearances, what determines your maturity is seeing through.

9. When you cherish your past, are satisfied with your present, and are optimistic about your future, you stand at the top of your life; When you understand that success won't make you, failure won't crush you, and plainness won't drown you, you will stand at the top of your life.

11. Being angry is punishing yourself with what others have done wrong. When something goes wrong in your life, don't be dissatisfied. You don't have to be bitter. If you are depressed, you have to face it, whether it is a blessing or a curse, whether it is good or bad will pass. It is better to let go of your baggage and enjoy life than to bury your head in suffering with your baggage; Instead of fretfully complaining about the unfair fate of life, it is better to smile calmly at life.

11. People worry because of their memory; The reason why people give up lies in choice; The reason why people are tolerant lies in understanding; The reason why people are human lies in their feelings; The reason why people are enriched lies in the process; The reason why people succeed lies in diligence; The reason why people are happy lies in contentment.

12. The reason why we are tired is that we often wander between persistence and giving up, vacillating. The reason why we worry is that our memory is too good, and what we should remember and shouldn't remember will remain in our memory. The reason why we suffer is that we pursue too much. The reason why we are unhappy is that we care too much, not that we have too little, but that we care too much.

13. There are no assumptions in life, and the present is everything. If you can't move your back, put it down; If you can't afford to hurt, you will look down; Think impassability, don't want to; If you hate it, put it down; The road ahead is still to go. Life is a process of cultivation. Don't humiliate yourself and hurt the years with inner injustice.

14. It is a blessing to get what you need; Too much greed is tiredness. The demand of life is like eating, you can only eat two bowls of rice. If you eat two bowls more because of the smell of food, you will not enjoy the benefits of eating more normally, on the contrary, it will bring pain because your stomach can't bear it. It can be seen that getting is not necessarily enjoying. Don't compare with others, learn not to be greedy, not to be extravagant, to be peaceful and quiet, and to be content.

15. Don't be too good. You can refuse what you don't want to do, and you don't have to force what you can't do. If you don't like it, pretend not to hear. Life is not to please others, but to be kind to yourself. Don't worry about things you can't get, stay away from things with negative energy, life is not bad, so don't add sorrow to yourself.

16. Learn to save in life. If you cultivate, you save a bumper harvest; If you work hard, you save a hope; If you smile, you save a happiness. What you can withdraw depends on what you have saved. Without friendship, you can't get help; Without storing knowledge, you can't draw potential; Without storing sweat, you can't draw success. If you want to have inexhaustible happiness, you must save gratitude and pay every day.

17. It's not uncommon to meet love, sex, sweet words, honeyed words, temptations and heartbeats these days. The network is so developed, the emotion is so cheap, and there are many people who love with their mouths. It is rare to meet someone who is willing to understand himself, and even if he doesn't, he is willing to spend energy and patience to understand himself.

18. Don't be sad when everyone ignores you. Everyone has his own life, and no one can always accompany you. Don't be too kind to a person, because you will eventually find that after a long time, that person will get used to it and then take everything you do for granted. In fact, it could have been stupid enough to ignore the return at all costs, but the reality is always chilling. In fact, you clearly know that the meanest thing is feelings, and the coolest thing is people's hearts. -a few meters

19. You said that cats don't steal food, you try it with fish. You say women love you. Why don't you try being poor? You say men love you. Why don't you try talking about money? You said the boss valued you. Why don't you try to make a deal? You said you had good friends. Why don't you try to borrow some money? You said that your husband loves you. Why don't you get sick and try? In this society, don't test others. After testing, you will know what the whole drama is!

at the age of p>21.21, you can already afford the toys that you couldn't afford at the age of 11, but you don't have the sense of expectation at the beginning; At the age of 31, I got up the courage to chase the girl who didn't dare to chase at the age of 21, but the girl has already married a woman; When you are 41, you want to cherish the friends you should cherish when you are 31, but friends have been estranged for many years ... Life is like this. If you miss them, you will never come back. Some things, if you don't do it now, you can't do it anymore.