Every girl who marries far away comes with happiness. For love, I gave up everything I had, my parents, my girlfriend, the familiar city where I worked and lived for more than 20 years, and came to a strange place.

Everything should start all over again, find a new job, please each other's parents again, re-establish your own network, re-associate with others, carefully choose who can be friends and who is watching your jokes, and the only thing you know and can rely on is your lover.

People will feel scared when they go to a new and unfamiliar environment, but you still go without hesitation. Your courage to face strangers mainly comes from the fact that that person can give you enough sense of security. As long as he is around, you can feel at ease and not be afraid of anything. But what if your lover can't give you the sense of security you want?

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Er Jia is a member of a girl who is married far away. Husband loves her very much and dotes on her very much. He does all the housework at home and often takes her shopping and watching movies. They live a sweet and loving life every day. But with the passage of time, contradictions gradually emerged. My husband has always said that he wants to make money to support his family, and his family is no longer busy.

No matter what Erjia does, her mother-in-law is always picky and sarcastic, which makes Erjia uncomfortable. After giving birth to a child, her mother-in-law doesn't help with the child, and Erjia doesn't care about confinement. Husband always says:? She's my mother, so get out of the way! ? Erjia had no choice but to quit her job and concentrate on taking care of the baby. She often holds the child in one hand and cooks or washes the dishes in the other, so she is exhausted.

Last year, my husband started to make videos on the Internet, and he got better and better. Originally this was a good thing for the family, but my husband began to dislike the futility of Erjia. He only knows that spending money at home does not make money, and he wants Erjia to make videos with himself. But the child is still young, only two years old. My husband began to think that it is too early to have children, saying that children will only drag themselves down, and it will be annoying to watch. Because of this, my husband and Erjia quarreled many times and even filed for divorce, saying that the children would not give Erjia.

Er Jia's heart became more and more uncomfortable. What about the husband who spoiled him? This makes her feel insecure, and at the same time, she is even more reluctant to make videos with her husband. I'm married and helpless. If my husband really divorced her, the account for taking the video would definitely not belong to me. When there is no job and no income, what can I do to win custody?

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Dai Xiao works in a private enterprise, with a monthly salary of about 5,000 yuan, and has no future. My husband told her to quit and open a restaurant, but he wouldn't quit. His salary in state-owned enterprises is more stable than Dai Xiao's and higher than Dai Xiao's. Little Dai Dai doesn't want to resign. The house is her husband's pre-marital property. She married far away and had nothing. Only this job belongs to her. Business is so difficult now. If we lose money, Dai Xiao will have nothing.

More importantly, her husband made Dai Xiao feel unsafe. Husband and wife often quarrel. When they go out, whenever they quarrel, the husband throws her on the road and drives home. Moreover, my husband always throws things, and even a few times, he pours hot rice just cooked on Dai Xiao and the children. Dai Xiao blocked it with his whole back, and the child was safe and sound. The abuse in the ear and the burning feeling on the back, as well as the crying of the child, stimulated Xiao Daidai. Even if Xiao Daidai takes her children back to her mother's house, her husband won't take a look.

Dai Xiao said, I'm not yet 30 years old, and I don't want to be at the mercy of others all my life. Now my husband says that Dai Xiao doesn't want to make progress, which makes him very disappointed. He also threatened that Dai Xiao would not agree to resign, so she would divorce and live her own life. Dai Xiao is very helpless. Is it wrong for her to do so?

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After a quarrel, Xiao Wei, who was married far away, cried and said to her husband, I gave up my parents, my best friend, my relatives and friends, and the home that raised me for more than 20 years, just to be with you in this strange place. Why don't you think about me? ?

Husband deadpans:? Isn't that what you should do? Even if you don't choose me but marry someone else, don't you have to do all this? Have nothing to complain about! ?

Although today's society has been advocating it? Equality between men and women? But really? Equality? have you finished? Although I don't really want to admit it, how many men don't want their women to be decent; Work hard at home and be diligent; I must earn money to support my family. Men always ask a lot of women. What about themselves?

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Why do these girls who got married because of love cry and think of divorce later? Because there is no sense of security. Where does the sense of security come from From men's love for women. As long as there is love, as long as you still think about her, then she has a strong backing, and you can safely try and do anything.

The woman said that because I have seen him love me, I am sure that he doesn't love me now.

All kinds of pressures brought by reality and money can really make people hard to breathe, but this is not an excuse for you to hurt women. When you can't give a woman enough love and security, who are you to ask a woman to do anything for you?