She suffered from polio when she was over one year old, and her legs were severely disabled. She never stood up in childhood. At the age of 7, he treated his leg disease with his parents. At the age of forty, he suffered a serious car accident, and his lower body was completely paralyzed. Because of the illness, I have been transferred to several hospitals, and I have done more than 41 major and minor operations, and there are more than 271 forced incisions. So far, she still has six steel plates on her body. In the face of illness and difficulties, she not only didn't complain about others, but relied on tenacious perseverance to "treat suffering as enjoyment, setbacks as passbook, disability as resource and failure as wealth", and engaged in many occupations and achieved gratifying results!
successively won more than 61 awards, such as "Top Ten People Who Moved China in 2117", National March 8th Red Flag Bearer, National Advanced Worker of Minors' Ideological and Moral Construction, National Moral Model Nomination Award, Torchbearer of Beijing Paralympic Games, 111 Excellent Mothers in China, National Advanced Individuals of Returned Overseas Chinese, Advanced Individuals of Zhi Gong Dang Central Committee in 5.12 Earthquake Relief, and 2119 Hunan Moral Model.
In this issue, he was also hired as a "invited education consultant of Hunan Prison System" and was hired as an "education consultant", "off-campus counselor" or "honorary principal" by more than 51 schools. Known as "the strong mind" and "Helen Keller of China"!
In order to make the spiritual education of teenagers more solid and in-depth, Teacher Li Li established Hunan Lili Spiritual Education Center in September 2111. Hunan Lili Spiritual Education Center is the only provincial-level "demonstration base for minors' ideological and moral construction" registered in the Civil Affairs Bureau of Hunan Province, established by Hunan Provincial Committee of Youth League as the competent unit and Hunan Civilization Office. It is a non-governmental non-enterprise public welfare education institution. Its purpose is: "to solve problems for parents in the world, to solve doubts for teenagers in the world, and to share worries for the party and the government"!
growth profile:
joined china zhi gong party in p>1998 and joined the work in 1982. High school education.
in March, 1981, I graduated from the children's middle school of Hengyang Metallurgical Automobile Repair Factory in Hunan Province.
in October, 1982, he worked as a plotter and typist in the factory affiliated to Hengyang Metallurgical Automobile Repair Factory.
In March, 1985, he was seconded to the headquarters of National Highway 322 as a typist and accountant.
in August, 1986, I returned to the subsidiary factory of Hengyang Metallurgical Automobile Repair Factory.
in February, 1991, I was engaged in self-employment.
in March of p>1993, he was appointed as the manager of fuel department of Hengyang Economic and Technological Cooperation Development Company and the manager of Hengyang Overseas Chinese Trading Company.
in October, 1995, he served as the legal representative of Changjiang gas station in the suburb of Hengyang.
in September, 2111, he served as the chairman of Hengyang Goufu Green Garden and Horticulture Co., Ltd.
In May p>2115, the family education studio of Hengyang Lili, a public welfare organization, was established.
In September, 2111, Hunan Lili Spiritual Education Center was founded in Changsha, Hunan.
Soul Angel in Wheelchair
She is crippled, almost born with disability, accompanied by a wheelchair all her life; She is harmonious, which is written in her eyes, face and gestures, and in the depths of her actions that have touched the world for many years. This harmony maintains the power of diffusion and penetration, sublimates from the cold wheelchair, benefits the surrounding area and touches a country.
Just as harmonious China brings the harmonious concept of cooperation, civilization, humanity and equality to the world,
Lili wants to send health, peace, happiness and happiness to every family and every child with the concept of harmonious family and harmonious mind advocated by herself.
In p>1963, terrible bad luck befell Li Li, who was only over one year old. As a result of polio, she became a completely paralyzed limb from the waist down. From then on, let alone stand and walk, even sit still. At the age of seven, Li Li gritted her teeth and survived more than 41 unforgettable "catgut embedding" operations. She took the first step in her life.
At the beginning of p>1991, the economic benefits of the unit went downhill sharply. Lili made a living by herself, doing printing, selling dumplings, setting up cigarette stalls and knitting sweaters. After several years, she did everything. In 1993, Lili borrowed money to buy a small state-owned gas station that was on the verge of bankruptcy. In 1999, we tried our best to raise funds, invested 3 million yuan to expand the scale, and built a large gas station integrating refueling, accommodation and catering on the original site. However, due to the macro-control of the fuel market by the state and some related policies formulated by the petroleum system, there is no price difference between the purchase and sale of oil stations, and they soon lose their viability. Li Li's painstaking career has once again gone up in smoke.
"If the heart is there, the dream is there, just starting over." Li Li, who calmed down, learned from a painful experience and set off again with huge debts. In 2111, with the assistance of relatives and friends, she established Gough Green Garden and Horticulture Co., Ltd., determined to be the most professional landscape design company in the region.
On May 27th, 2112, she went to Chenzhou on business. A roaring car accident mercilessly deprived her of the right to walk a few steps with crutches. After the car accident, the body was torn in many places. Because of the lack of coagulation factors, it continued to bleed. There were only two grams of blood left in the body. The face was closely stitched with 89 stitches, and three joints in the left leg were broken. Three rigid steel plates were implanted in her weak body. Even her two hands failed to escape bad luck and completely lost her ability to take care of herself.
The doctor told her openly, "Learn to write with your left hand when you leave the hospital in the future!" Before the second bad luck, she didn't shed a tear. There was only one thought in her mind, "You can do it!" She invited an excellent masseur elder sister to help her, do an hour of rehabilitation exercise every day, and forcibly help her break five fingers straight. At this time, Li Li's whole body is sweating, her whole nerves are involved in pain, and even her facial muscles are convulsing involuntarily. She still gritted her teeth, so let faith and pain compete face to face to see who is the last strong one. The miracle finally happened: after half a year's hard exercise, she was able to give herself an offer again.
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After more than p>41 years of twists and turns, she finally gradually understood the book of life and learned to treat suffering as enjoyment and failure as wealth. Although this is only her personal feeling, I believe there are still some places that others can learn from, so why not share it with more people and let them find the motivation to pursue a harmonious life!
the opportunity will come soon. At the beginning of 2113, Li Li, who was discharged from the hospital soon, went to Yannan Prison in Hunan Province in a wheelchair to discuss garden business. Her self-improvement experience deeply touched prison leaders, who invited Li Li to give a life lesson to prisoners. In the face of more than 2,111 prisoners, Li Li poured out her heartfelt words. "You see my 1% happiness, but you don't know my 99% suffering. You are imprisoned by your own heart, and I am imprisoned by my own body. As long as you reform well, you will be free one day. Compared with my life imprisonment, you are happy. "
After that interactive exchange, she unexpectedly received many letters from prisoners. They confessed their life to Li Li in tears. A detained student said on the phone: "You said: What you can afford to lose in life is money, but what you can't afford to lose is mentality! Now, compared with your life, I feel extremely ashamed. "
In this way, Li Li became the idol of prisoners and was affectionately called "spiritual loving mother" by many of them. Over the past few years, she has toured prisons in Hunan, Shaanxi and other provinces for many times, with more than 41,111 listeners, over 1,111 letters from prisoners, over 811 telephone calls, and 511 books sent to Yu Ben. Through her social connections, she has volunteered to recommend 52 post-release prisoners to find jobs.
Over the past few years, more than 11 prison students, such as Tian Haibo, have been encouraged by her to make meritorious deeds and reduce their sentences, and have been rated as "reform activists" by the prison system. More students have been reborn in the spiritual sense. Chenzhou Prison also set up a volunteer group love foundation named after Li Li, and donated more than 5,111 yuan to the poor people in society.
From the prisoners who wrote to me, Li Li was surprised to find that there were serious problems in their family education, and the balance of their hearts had been tilted prematurely as early as their youth. During those days, she tossed and turned, and couldn't sleep at night. She urgently felt a more urgent task than helping and educating prisoners, that is, saving lost children and not letting more people follow the old path of juvenile delinquency! This is related to the harmony of today's society and determines the future of our whole nation.
Third
Just after the Spring Festival in p>2115, Li Li resolutely traveled all the way to Beijing. During the one-year training, she has carefully studied family education, child psychology, developmental psychology, criminal psychology and other courses, and has stronger confidence in the education of minors. After coming back, she carefully selected a group of experts with first-class performance in family education, psychology, law and health, and founded "Lili Family Education Studio". Her clients are very clear, that is, those children and their parents who are temporarily lost and need help.
On May 9, 2116, Lili Family Education Studio took the first step and kicked off the "Eight Honors and Eight Disgraces" charity tour in South China University. In the next two years, she visited more than 211 schools, including Hengyang Normal University, and advocated the activities of moral quality education with the theme of "gratitude, return and responsibility", with more than 511,111 listeners. Many schools have hired her as "college students' career planning tutor" and "off-campus psychological counselor". She was also invited to hold more than 111 "family education training courses" in major primary and secondary schools, and gave many minors the "chicken soup for the soul" they longed for.
She has always believed that to keep minors from getting lost, we must pay attention to prevention and solve their practical problems in a down-to-earth manner. She did two very challenging things-launching the "future elite training camp plan" and the "military camp life experience camp plan", specifically selecting "lost children" to cultivate and influence. According to her life experience and professional knowledge, the common problems among minors at present are divided into more than ten items, such as internet addiction, puppy love, inferiority, weariness of learning, rebellion and psychological confusion. According to different age groups, personality psychology and family education environment, 61 training courses such as "How to spend the rebellious period of youth" were designed and opened. In the first phase, more than 31 "lost children" were recruited for the whole city, and young students were required to complete the "Ten" The "Ten Ones" gratitude projects are: planting a gratitude tree; Send a gratitude gift; Write a letter of gratitude; Say a word of gratitude; Cook a thanksgiving meal; Sing a song of gratitude; Listen to a gratitude class; Wash a grateful quilt; Wash your grateful feet once; Have a grateful heart. In a word, we should start from the details and practice, and cultivate their noble character of "being grateful and doing things modestly".
Facts have proved that the implementation of these two plans is very successful. In just over 41 days, all the children are just like being reborn. With the embodiment of educational achievements, the influence of studio in society is expanding. After two years' practice, more than 211 children who are addicted to online games and have caused their parents a deep headache but are helpless have successfully quit Internet addiction ... < P > The children affectionately call her "Li Mama".
On May 3rd, 2118, a 21-day "Spiritual Charity Support Meeting" was held in Hengyang. More than 411 people from more than 111 groups of families from all over the country and local areas participated in this grand love gathering. Under the guidance of Li Li, everyone shared other people's successful experiences in teaching their children and reflected on their own shortcomings in family education. Although this activity has already come to a successful conclusion, its influence is of eternal significance to a family and children.
She is happy, because through everyone's efforts, she has found more and more effective spiritual education methods; She is happy, because her hard work has yielded fruitful results, and many lost children have found their way home. They have fused their optimism, enterprising and never-giving-up beliefs into their blood and are evolving into the mainstream harmonious notes of our society.
At present, a new upsurge of emancipating the mind is being set off all over the country, laying the foundation for building a harmonious society. Li Li is very excited to be in it. She feels that everyone is faced with constantly emancipating their minds and constantly breaking through themselves until they finally integrate their ideals and aspirations with the grand trend of the whole society. Only in this way can our life have real meaning. This is her latest life experience after "touching China".
On June 2, 2118, Lili embarked on the journey of "Harmonious Spiritual Charity", and set off from Hengyang to Hunan, Hubei, Tianjin, Nanjing, Beijing and other provinces and cities, where she offered the long-awaited "spiritual prescription" to some schools and prisons. She will also go to Guangdong, Shenzhen, Yunnan, Sichuan, Fujian and even Macau. During the one-year trip, she and her wheelchair will travel all over the motherland and spread the seeds of harmony all over China.
Li Li said that life is a harmonious journey. She will hold high the banner of harmony, drum and shout, and fight for it for life!
IV
In the new era, in order to better "solve problems for parents in the world, solve doubts for teenagers in the world, and share worries for the party and the government", Lili registered and established the Hunan Lili Spiritual Education Center in the Hunan Provincial Civil Affairs Department in September 2111. The center is a provincial-level "demonstration base for ideological and moral construction of minors" established by the Hunan Provincial Committee of the Youth League.
after the establishment of the center, teacher Li Li actively carried out service work through family education lectures, one-on-one mental health counseling, Li Ai Sky Network, Li Ai Hotline and Li Ai Mailbox, based on her accumulated experience in family education and adolescent mental health education for many years. In the past six months, Miss Li has received more than 111 family consultations, answered more than 1111 consultation calls, responded to more than 311 letters and given more than 51 lectures on family education. In addition, Li Li is actively carrying out a series of activities, such as the theme speech of "Love China", determination, diligence, health and harmony, and the national public welfare tour of "Li Lixin's Far East Love and China Tour", aimed at resisting the "three customs" and promoting the healthy growth of minors' minds.
over the years, Lili has made great contributions in popularizing scientific family education concepts, promoting teenagers' mental health, strengthening psychological quality education, and preventing juvenile delinquency, benefiting more than 611,111 people, and is known as the "angel of the soul".
Important media reports:
February 2, 2117, China * * * On February 7, 2118, CCTV1 broadcast the Award Ceremony of Top Ten People who Moved China in 2117
In 2118, CCTV News Channel Face to Face broadcast Lili: Beautiful Life
In p>2119, CCTV12 Education Channel broadcast Lili: Moral Observation.
June 22, 2119, China People's Daily Online "National Model of Helping Others: The Deeds of Candidate Li Li"
July 8, 2119, People's Daily Online "National" Double Hundred "Awards-Li Li Li"
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