I introduction to the content of modern social etiquette

Etiquette is a reflection of a country's copying social culture, moral fashion and living habits. This book introduces all kinds of etiquette that should be paid attention to when interacting with people in modern society. The book is divided into 14 chapters, including etiquette overview, grooming etiquette, manners etiquette, dress etiquette, meeting etiquette, reception and visiting etiquette, business negotiation etiquette, banquet etiquette, gift etiquette, wedding and funeral etiquette, official etiquette, job hunting etiquette and foreign etiquette, etc. It is mainly introduced from the aspects of shaping a good personal image and taboos in communication with people.

By studying this book, readers can understand and master the basic behavioral norms such as personal appearance, clothing, speech, manners and manners that should be possessed in various occasions, and show their ideological and moral level, so as to improve their social communication ability and gain respect from others.

In order to facilitate teachers' teaching and students' self-study, this book is equipped with electronic courseware, exercises and reference answers, lesson plans and related video clips.

This book can be used as a etiquette textbook for undergraduate students, as well as a post training textbook and reference book for managers in enterprises and institutions.

ⅱ. Learning experience of writing an article about the content of social etiquette course

Half a year's study of social etiquette elective course has benefited me a lot.

I was very optimistic about this course when I chose the course. I think it will be of great help to my interpersonal relationship now and in the future. It will help me learn to communicate more calmly and appropriately, win more opportunities and better adapt to this civilized society in the future. At present, we need to cultivate and learn the quality of civilization, especially as contemporary college students, we should master the basic rules of civilized social interaction, integrate into society in a civilized and decent way, and lay a solid non-intellectual backing for their future development.

Etiquette, I think, is to be civilized and decent in the process of social interaction, so that the other party can accept you sincerely, so as to truly achieve the purpose of communication and make the whole process go smoothly and harmoniously. Modern social etiquette generally refers to the code of conduct and norms that people should abide by in the process of social interaction. Specific performance is etiquette, courtesy, ceremony, instrument, etc.

I think I have grown a lot in the process of learning. First of all, it is understood that due to regional differences, civilized etiquette has its definition of limitations. For example, "comrade" in Hong Kong and Macao in China means homosexuality, which is different from the understanding of "comrade" in other parts of China, while Germans call Nazis "comrades"; The "lover" in the northeast of China means lover, and they can't accept the appellation of "miss" for ordinary women ... and so on. This requires us to grasp the scale of civilized etiquette, and understand that civilized etiquette also has its limitations, that is, meeting etiquette requires us to conform to the rules and do as the Romans do ... < P > As far as we China people are concerned, etiquette is gradually formed in the process of people's increasingly frequent communication activities, and of course it can't be separated from people's daily life, from the meeting and talks of state leaders to the dribs and drabs of people's lives. Take our students' life as an example. Even in ordinary communication, there are hidden rules of etiquette. Different occasions require us to treat them with different attitudes. In short, the etiquette introduced is a way of communication by ourselves or through a third party, so that the two sides can get to know each other, establish contact and enhance understanding. Introduction is divided into self-introduction, introduction of others and collective introduction. Our usual activities need to introduce our leading teachers and guests. Of course, most of the time, we students are the main body, which involves the etiquette of collective introduction. We must introduce the leading teachers to our classmates first. This is the requirement of collective introduction: when introducing one or several people to all, we must introduce the minority first, and then introduce the majority. Furthermore, when introducing others, we should abide by the following rules: introduce men to women, introduce young people to the elderly, introduce low-ranking people to high-ranking people, introduce guests to hosts, and introduce late arrivals to early arrivals. Also, whenever we enter a group for the first time, we need to introduce ourselves. We should pay attention to the occasion and introduce ourselves as much as possible with other people's self-introduction. Sometimes we just need to simply introduce our names. Sometimes our purpose is to make friends, so we need to introduce our preferences and other aspects in detail. We should be generous and decent. Note that if women don't take the initiative to ask for a handshake, men will need to be reserved.

Secondly, what deserves my attention is the etiquette of conversation. As I am from Shandong, I like to be frank and crisp in everything, which gives me a straightforward personality. Who knows, this character makes me miss a lot of deserved friendship. Through the study of social etiquette class, I understand my own shortcomings. I should do it: choose a topic of mutual interest to make the conversation continue; Be good at listening, agree with each other's remarks in a timely manner, and make each other feel that the person they choose to talk to is trustworthy; Moderate praise, but it should be sincere, and it should vary from person to person and pay attention to the occasion so that the other party can accept it; Control the tone, because a deep voice can attract people's attention and win people's trust and respect. In addition, four taboos of conversation: ① Interrupting the other party; ② Supplementing the other party; ③ Correcting the other party; ④ Questioning the other party. Having done this, I believe we will avoid many oral mistakes, win more right friendships and establish harmonious interpersonal relationships.

In addition, I also learned the etiquette of shaking hands, greeting, business cards, banquets and gifts, etc. Perhaps these are the things I should pay special attention to in the future social interaction. Because no one can leave the society and exist alone, living in groups should learn to communicate and learn the rules that should be paid attention to in the process of communication, so as to win a foothold in complicated social activities.

through the window of the university, I slowly began to get in touch with the society and began to have a lot of social activities, but I should not stop studying. Society is learned, civilization has manners. Perhaps when our unintentional civilized actions give us gains or inappropriate words make us embarrassed, we will truly realize that the rules of manners have penetrated into every little detail of our lives. . . .

Ⅲ Introduction to Social Etiquette

This book is compiled according to the etiquette teaching in colleges and universities and the actual needs of work and life in modern society, including an overview of social etiquette, personal etiquette (appearance, appearance, manners), communication etiquette, catering etiquette, ritual etiquette, travel etiquette, religious etiquette and some major rituals and customs in China. The system is relatively complete, the structure is novel, the content is substantial, and it pays attention to science and customs. This book can be used as a teaching material for students' etiquette education in colleges and technical secondary schools, and also as a reference book for people from all walks of life to understand social etiquette.

Ⅳ Course outline of social etiquette

I. Overview of social etiquette

II. Meeting etiquette

III. Common meeting etiquette

IV. Visiting and reception etiquette

V. Party and entertainment etiquette

VI. Banquet etiquette

VII. Communication etiquette

VIII. Gift etiquette

. Travel Etiquette

Ⅳ Social Etiquette Course

Everyone needs to improve the quality of etiquette —— Social Etiquette Course Paper This is the final paper of our social etiquette course. China has been known as a "state of etiquette" since ancient times. Today, when socialist spiritual civilization is vigorously advocated and a harmonious society is built, it is a social morality that every citizen must have to be civilized and polite. When we college students enter the society in the future, we will inevitably have the opportunity to deal with others, so it is particularly important to learn social etiquette and improve etiquette cultivation. Through the study of social etiquette courses in recent weeks, we have really learned more detailed and systematic etiquette knowledge. Etiquette can actually be divided into several parts, personal etiquette, including one's own appearance, manners, clothing and so on. Each of us should pay attention to our personal etiquette. A person's dress and behavior are not only related to the other person's impression of his personal image, but also the most vivid display of personal education and quality. But in today's society, we can often see some behaviors that do not conform to the etiquette norms. On the street, people who are exposed, sloppy and untidy are everywhere. They ignore the etiquette norms and blindly pursue avant-garde, but the impression they bring to others is extremely bad. Public etiquette refers to the code of conduct that people should abide by when they are in public occasions. Etiquette should be paid attention to when walking, driving, taking transportation, etc. on public occasions. Obeying traffic rules and paying attention to environmental protection are the most basic norms. But there are still many people who violate these basic norms. Jaywalking, running red lights, spitting and littering have been repeatedly prohibited. This is not only to discredit their own image, but also to destroy the public order, let foreign friends see it, and even destroy the image of China people. Therefore, each of us should consciously abide by etiquette norms and improve our self-cultivation. ..... communication etiquette, which is the most basic code of conduct in interpersonal communication. How to address, introduce, shake hands, talk, etc. all have many etiquette norms to follow. In this respect, there are many people who have misunderstandings. For example, when introducing the elderly and the young, we usually introduce the elderly first, thinking that this is to respect the elderly. Actually, it is not. Introducing the young first is to show respect for the elderly, because they are respected people and should have the priority to know. Another example is that when shaking hands, it is more appropriate for a man or a woman to reach out first. Usually, everyone will think that the man reaches out first, but it is not. We should wait for the woman to reach out first to respect them. There are many manners like this. If we don't study, we won't know, and we will make such mistakes in future communication. Therefore, it shows the importance and necessity that we need to improve our etiquette. Communication etiquette is the etiquette standard when people communicate and contact. Nowadays, people seldom use letters to communicate, so when it comes to using them, they forget all the manners they should have. For example, if you don't know how to be polite on the phone, choosing the right words and time will bring trouble to the other party and affect others' evaluation of you. But if you can do the basic communication etiquette, you will make the other party feel that you are a very polite person and have a better impression on you, which will help you in your work and study. Catering etiquette, as its name implies, is the code of conduct that should be observed when dining. Seating arrangement, toasting etiquette, and the norms of dining are all often used in social occasions. If you can do it according to the etiquette norms, others will think that you are a very polite person. On the contrary, you will think that you are impolite and even affect your study and career. Through the etiquette mentioned above, we can see the importance of etiquette and the necessity of improving our own etiquette cultivation. There is still a lot of knowledge about etiquette, and we need to improve our etiquette through continuous learning. In fact, we have been educated in manners since childhood, and we don't spit, litter, jaywalk, etc. Only a few people have really done it. In the final analysis, it is still that our mentality is not correct, and anyone can shout slogans. However, if we really want to put them into action, many people feel troublesome and unnecessary, or feel that everyone around us is like this, and they will follow the crowd. But in fact, the good civilized atmosphere of the whole society is accumulated by everyone. Wang Shouren, a great scholar in the Ming Dynasty, said, "Knowing is the idea of doing, and doing is the kung fu of knowing; Knowing is the beginning of doing, and doing is the achievement of knowing; Knowing and doing is an ontology and a kung fu. Knowing and not doing it is just unknown. " We shout the slogan of being civilized and polite, but we never practice it ourselves, which is different from never receiving civilized etiquette education! Therefore, if we want to practice, we must work hard from this "unity of knowing and doing", work hard from our own words, and bid farewell to behaviors that do not conform to etiquette norms. The civilization level of a society can reflect the civilization level of a society and a country. If a person does not abide by social civilization, it will not only affect his personal image, but also destroy the social order. We contemporary college students are the future of the motherland, and we should shoulder this burden. Starting from ourselves, we should actively and seriously study etiquette culture and put it into practice, not only to be civilized and polite, but also to drive people around us to be civilized and polite people with ourselves. As long as each of us pays attention to the improvement of our own etiquette, it won't be long before the etiquette quality of our whole society and country will be improved, and we will truly be a country of etiquette and welcome guests from all over the world.

ⅵ Basic introduction of social etiquette

Social etiquette refers to the preferred behavior norms and idiomatic forms used to show respect, goodwill and friendliness in interpersonal communication, social communication and international communication activities. This definition contains the following meanings: 1. From a personal point of view, social etiquette has the following functions:

1. It helps to improve people's self-cultivation;

2. It can help you to go to the society smoothly, better establish your own image, and leave a good impression of being polite and gentle when interacting with people.

Second, from the social point of view,

Learn more social etiquette, which can avoid your timidity and shyness in the communication field, point out the maze in the communication field, and add more confidence and courage to you, so that you can know how to be polite. Fourth, it is helpful to obtain information and exchange information, which is to meet the needs of modern information society; More importantly, socializing is necessary for communication between people. By socializing, you can get "the other half's rich information" from each other.

Third, from the enterprise's point of view

Etiquette is an important content of enterprise culture and enterprise spirit, and it is the main attachment point of enterprise image. Most international enterprises have high standards of etiquette, and regard etiquette as an important content of corporate culture. It can shape the image of the unit, improve customer satisfaction and reputation, and ultimately achieve the purpose of improving the economic and social benefits of the unit. Through social etiquette education, we can further improve our etiquette cultivation, cultivate our practical ability to respond to rewards, develop good etiquette habits, have basic civilized upbringing, and let the flowers of civilization bloom everywhere. I hope everyone speaks etiquette, then our society will be full of harmony and warmth. The importance of socialization can also be said to be the function and function of socialization. Generally speaking, people's main purposes in social activities are as follows:

to improve their feelings

The time invested in social activities will bring emotional gains, such as leisure and entertainment with relatives and friends.

Building relationships

Socialization is the link to build relationships such as business cooperation and emotional marriage in many cases.

in the process of establishing a relationship, remember to learn to follow up the relationship and avoid forgetting it.

enrich yourself

Rich life experience and human feelings.

ⅶ University Social Etiquette Course Content

The most important content of university social etiquette course is professional etiquette teaching, which can better achieve the ideal professional learning effect.