The most difficult thing to talk to people is what topic to talk about. The most common misunderstanding of topics is that only those exciting things are worth talking about. So I searched hard, looking for some anecdotes, thrilling stories, or insane experiences and the most outrageous situations. Although this topic is the most interesting to ordinary people, it is a satisfaction for both the listener and the speaker to tell such a beautiful event in conversation. But there are not many such things. There are some sensational news. Don't wait, others have heard it. Even if you have experienced a special thing personally, you can't talk about it everywhere. Because the story you told on a certain occasion is very popular and may not be appropriate in front of others. Therefore, if you think that only the most extraordinary things are worth talking about, then you will often feel that there is nothing to talk about.

Some people often want to talk to others about some very abstract theories or the problem of atomic bombing. However, even if you are fully prepared for such problems, it is difficult to find people who share your interests. So, on most occasions, you will feel speechless.

Any topic is good conversation material, as long as we pay attention to it in our daily life. You can talk about football, basketball and badminton. You can talk about food, drinks, weather and fashionable clothes. You can talk about love while talking about life. We can talk about compassion, responsibility, truth and glory. You can discuss books, plays, movies, radio programs, international news or local issues. You can exchange views on a story or a character. You can repeat the main points of the paper you read in the magazine.

Generally speaking, when people communicate, the first conversation after only knowing the name is the most difficult. Because you are not familiar with each other, don't know his personality, hobbies and personality, and are limited by time, you are not allowed to know more or think more. Don't take the liberty to raise special topics. At this time, it seems simple and appropriate to use local materials, that is, to find a topic according to the environment at that time. If the meeting place is at a friend's house or at a friend's wedding banquet, then the relationship between the other party and the host can be used as the first sentence. For example, you can say, "Your Excellency and a gentleman are probably old classmates?" Or: "Are you and your husband colleagues?" This way, no matter whether the question is right or not, it can always cause the other person's topic. If the question is right, you can make a sharp turn according to the original intention. If you guess wrong, you can go on according to the other person's explanation and talk about each other's life. For example, "There are so many guests today!" Although old-fashioned, it can cause other topics: "This auditorium is well decorated!" "Praise is often the most reliable and appropriate start. If it is a garden party, it is said that the azaleas by the lake are blooming brilliantly and the colors are really beautiful. Have you seen them? Or drinking tea in the garden in summer, so comfortable! Wait, it's also a good topic.

The first sentence is to make sure that everyone can understand and supplement their own opinions. From this, we can explore each other's interests and expand the field of conversation. If you point to a sculpture, it really looks like Chang Chang's work! Or hear birds singing, just say that there is Mendelssohn's music! Unless you know that the other person is an expert, you will not only be unable to please, but also be scolded behind your back.

Besides, if you can't find the next topic, you'd better use China's old method. That is to ask the other person's native place, where is your home? I don't find China's habit abrupt. Knowing your native place, it is easy to find a topic. In the northeast, you can talk to him about the production of ginseng, the scenery of the Great Wall and the construction of industry. Guangxi, you can talk to him about Guilin landscape. Sichuan, you can talk about the richness of Sichuan products. If they come from the same province, let alone talk about it. Suppose it is Guangdong, then you can talk about silk with Shunde people, coconut with Nanhai people, and scenery with people in Jiangbei area.