Nowadays, many people invite guests to eat out and are unwilling to cook by themselves. Why is this question very practical? Because people now have good economic conditions, it is convenient to eat out. They don't have to worry about what to buy or wash dishes. After eating, they wipe their mouths and pay for it. It's simple and convenient for everyone to chat and chat.

The second reason is that most people nowadays are suites, and the kitchen for cooking at home is small, so it is troublesome to clean up the sanitary aspects of eating and washing in the suites, so everyone now prefers to eat out rather than cook by themselves.

let me talk about my personal experience.

When I was young, I was short of materials, and my relatives and friends came. I could only fry a shrimp slice, stir-fry a peanut, stew a cabbage bean curd, and mix a cucumber or shredded radish. Later, after the reform and opening up, there were more chickens, ducks and fish on the table, and everyone learned to cook. I had many friends and often entertained my relatives and friends at home. My cooking was well received by everyone, and the children also praised my cooking, such as jiaozi, braised pork and so on. Many years later, big hotels have mushroomed, delicacies and seafood have made people's diet more delicious, and home cooking has failed to satisfy people's elegance. The ingredients in the small kitchen and the cooking skills of housewives are out of reach, and the home environment and utensils are also poor, elegant and luxurious. People gradually fell in love with going out to restaurants for dinner, parties and even New Year's Eve dinners, which became a new fashion for a while. And old people like us also like this, so as to avoid being very tired at home. I miss my children now, so I invited them to have a big dinner. My grandchildren are so happy!

1. Young people seldom cook, and they are not confident in cooking

In today's society, many young people actually seldom cook. On the one hand, they rarely learn cooking skills as they did more than a decade ago, because there are many directions for choosing jobs. As a result, cooking naturally is rare.

In addition, even if I cook for my own family at ordinary times, I can't do my own craft when I am faced with a dinner party with friends and relatives. Do it, for fear that my friends and relatives will dislike the food, so I will simply take my friends and relatives to a restaurant and order whatever I want. Even if the food doesn't taste good again, it's trouble for the hotel, not for yourself.

In addition, I don't know if you have noticed it, but cooking is really a very tiring thing. It takes a lot of energy to wash and prepare vegetables and cook all morning, and the time for eating will end in about half an hour. In fact, such a comparison is not worthwhile.

Second, there are few choices for cooking and many choices for eating out

Even if I can cook again, there are actually few choices. For example, some friends like to eat cold dishes, some like seafood, some like Cantonese food, and some like to eat Lai, so there are too many demands, and it is difficult for them to meet.

Eating out is different. There are basically dishes written on the menu in restaurants. Some high-grade restaurants can even satisfy most people's tastes, and the chefs in the kitchen are also good at cooking. Everyone spends money to have a good time, boasting and chatting about home, which makes it more atmospheric.

In addition, people usually have the habit of drinking when having dinner with relatives or friends. Just leave the restaurant after eating, and leave the dishes to the waiter. Cooking at home is different. The smell of wine and smoke in the room will be completely eliminated in a day or two. As a result, cooking is obviously not good.

Third, the consumption level has improved, and people have become lazy.

There is no denying that Xiao Pang grew up in the countryside when he was a child, and his relatives and friends had a happy event, and they all invited some masters to help them cook and hold a big banquet. But now, it seems that this situation is getting less and less. From an objective point of view, it is because people's consumption level has improved and they are no longer satisfied with the traditional square table model. In this case, it is actually a very good choice to take money to the hotel for booking.

In addition, compared with before, people are actually getting lazy, too lazy to cook, too lazy to clean up, and so on. In this way, it is better to spend money to buy something real and comfortable. Although it hurts a little, at least you only need to be responsible for chatting and creating an atmosphere when you are invited to dinner, which is more worry-free, isn't it?

Fourth, it depends on the distance if you can't eat out.

If you are very close relatives, you can cook some home-cooked meals at home, chat together and have fun with Doby children. In this way, you can be regarded as a family and a real relative, right?

However, in Xiao Pang's opinion, it is better for colleagues to organize less dinners before, because there is a saying in the workplace that colleagues should not be treated as friends, which is actually reasonable. If the relationship is too close, it will be inconvenient to do things in the future.

In fact, Xiao Pang seldom goes out for more than a year. First, he doesn't want to waste time on socializing with colleagues. Second, he is too busy after work every day, reading, studying and improving his ability. Because it's much better to spend time on this than to chat with a few friends in the wine, isn't it?