What we may often see and hear is that we can see some intentions or ideas of others from some details of people, but the behavior of these observation patterns is not the performance of high emotional intelligence, which is the embodiment of IQ. At least in my opinion, in my understanding, the behaviors with the highest EQ I have ever seen are communication and conversation.
A person with super high emotional intelligence can truly show his high emotional intelligence only through communication. Of course, I'm not saying that this is one of the only behaviors of people with high emotional intelligence to show their emotional intelligence. Only this kind of behavior is often the habitual behavior of people with high emotional intelligence, and it is easier for us to see that this person turned out to be a person with high emotional intelligence. On the contrary, it can be said that the behaviors with high emotional intelligence I have seen are communication and communication.
Of course, I am also knowledgeable about this example. Speaking of it, in my present life for so long, it is the daughter of my mother's present husband who has seen this kind of behavior with the highest emotional intelligence. This sister is not my child now, but the daughter of the man's ex-wife. However, it is such a little girl who is younger than me. After contact with her, I found that the emotional intelligence of such a little girl was directly revealed in our communication.
My mother and many old people, including me and my brother, like her very much. Of course, this must be attributed to her high emotional intelligence, and what really shocked me was her chat behavior. In fact, chatting is a very common behavior, but chatting with her is a very emotional behavior, because she almost dug up the deepest secret in my heart that no one even knows. I was dumbfounded by this super emotional intelligence behavior.