A few days ago, I was a little angry and wanted to shout loudly: I am a mother, but I am also a person! Who cares? When a child cries, I must always walk beside her, walk around her, left, right, forward and backward ... I can't wait a few minutes and then do what I am doing. She is not afraid, not hungry, and there is someone (you) with her. Why should I immediately put down what I'm doing to coax the children? At that moment, I hate to hear you say: these things are not as important as children! Children are the most important! That sentence crashed into my mind and opened those memories that suppressed me.

It has been more than half a year since the baby was born, and my best friend is getting married. We promised each other that we would see each other's wedding wherever we went, and I would be her maid of honor. I was very excited when my best friend sent me a message. At this moment, we are separated by 1000 kilometers. I've never taken my baby out alone. Her wedding is on a holiday. I think we can go to her wedding together. If it is really inconvenient, I will leave for two days and come back immediately after the wedding. There are grandma and dad with baby at home. I prepare breast milk in advance, and I have milk powder at home. I will stay out for one night and fly back immediately after the wedding. I am happy to tell my best friend that I will come, and I will definitely come! As a result, when I agreed with you, the grandmother said: I can't bring it, and the father also said: No, the child wants to find a mother. Friends are not as important as children! At that moment, I was speechless. In his eyes, nothing is more important than children except parents, but without parents, my best friend doesn't matter. My mother was seriously ill, and my best friend came to supervise me and kept me busy. Without parents, friends are not important? I have been taking care of the children for more than half a year, and I can't leave for two days! Answer me: you are a mother, how can you be so irresponsible! How so selfish! I cried silently in the middle of the night. I am far away from my hometown, my relatives and friends, and I stay with indifferent people. This is your so-called family! I deeply doubt it! Finally, I couldn't attend my best friend's wedding. I'm too timid to take the baby on the high-speed rail alone. When I became a mother, I really missed my mother. When I am alone, I miss my mother's arms.

Tolerance and understanding in marriage are hard to come by! This time it was daytime, and the baby clamored for bread. I made bread for the baby. You accompany the baby and let her sleep. As a result, she will come to me for a hug and let me put her to sleep. At this time, the dough is ready. I just need to knead the dough in my hand and put it in the oven for fermentation. Just wait three minutes. I told the baby to wait for mom. Mom will be fine soon. Babies cry as soon as they open their mouths. I was scolded by you. Is bread that important? If you don't succeed, what's the matter? If the child wants to find you, let her cry. None of these things are as important as children! My heart is tired. After three minutes, you can't try to put the child to sleep. It's not like I fell asleep at once. Who will help me divide the dough, knead it and ferment it? After a long time, how can I make bread after noodles? ......

Sometimes, I don't want to be a mother. I don't take good care of my children. I don't coax them. My mother just doesn't care. Only when the child is asleep can he wash his face and apply a mask with peace of mind, otherwise he is afraid that someone will say you at this time.

Isn't mom human, too? Can't mom hurt, be tired, cry or lose her temper?

I can't be a perfect mother, I'm not a superman, I'm just an ordinary person, a novice mother who needs to be understood and tolerated, please don't rush me!