hello.
The junior and junior on the wine table, if you can't talk, don't talk, just talk less, even if you want to talk with your head, speak with your heart, don't exaggerate and talk nonsense. The best thing is to listen to the elders and learn more. It will be fine in the future. Toast, for example: "I wish all the uncles and aunts present. The whole family is happy and everything goes well. " Don't make a fuss about this situation. As long as you have the heart. People in the army are generally honest. People who like to be honest.
I hope I can help you.