"Love"-this word should always be told to children that children are eager for love during adolescence. Don't just give children good teaching, good behavior and good words to love them, which gives them great pressure invisibly! So, suppose: when will you go home for dinner today? What happened today? Use some questions to express your concern and love. Try to let your children talk and communicate with you in a loving environment!
"Understand"-this "understand" is really meaningful. Sometimes we are with our children every day, but do you really know him? Mom often says "I know, I understand you, I understand, I understand", and he will feel that you are accepting him. You should get to know the child before we teach him.
"Listening"-Listening is very important not only in the workplace, but also in the family. We may often nag our children, but when they are teenagers, we should also learn to listen to what they want to say to us with two ears. Close your lips and listen to the children!
"Confidentiality"-After listening, confidentiality is very important. You should learn to meet his confidentiality terms!
"Wisdom"-wise parents will try their best to put their children on the right path, such as: looking up some psychological books about rebellious children on the Internet; Find some psychological counselors about rebellious children or something.
"Growth"-not only children need to grow, but also parents need to grow. When children make mistakes, both parents and children need to grow up together. Even if he does something wrong, it is the process of parents and children growing up together.
Mastering these rules, we should be able to get along with children easily, handle the rebellion of adolescent children and get closer to them.
If not, it will become a psychological problem. You can find some psychological counseling, or find some related schools to help parents solve it. Militarized and closed management, receiving some psychological counseling and gratitude classes at school to improve the mind, military training to improve the physique, and cultivating some children's good habits will soon be able to return to normal study and life.