宥爵食fèi qǐn wàng shí
[释义] 废：停止. To be unable to sleep; to forget to eat. It describes a person who is active and hardworking in study or work, and who is dedicated to his or her work.
[语出] 南北朝-王融《曲水诗序》："犹且具明废寝；昃晷忘餐。". North and South Dynasty - Yan Zhiwei "Yan's Family Trainings": "Yuan Di in the river, Jing between the restoration of the love of learning; called for students; personally for the professor; sleep and food; night after the dynasty."
[正音] 寝；不能读作 "qìn"；食；不能读作 "sí"。
[辨形] 廢；不能写为 "费"；寝；不能写为 "寐"。
[Near Meaning] Sunset, food, night clothes, conscientiousness, burning cream, sundial, night and day, furiousness, forgetting to eat
[Antonyms] Absentmindedness
[Usage] Mostly in a positive sense. It is used to describe a person who is very concentrated and hardworking. Generally used as predicate, gerund and determiner.
2. Manners at the tableThere are a lot of manners at the table that should be paid attention to, and these manners are often neglected.
(a) Seating and leaving
1. You should wait for the elders to be seated before you take your seat.
2. If there is a woman on the table, you should wait until she is seated before taking your seat. If a woman's seat is next door, you should call out to her.
3. After the meal, the host and hostess should wait for the other guests to leave the table.
4, sitting posture should be upright, and the distance from the table to keep appropriate.
5, dining in the restaurant, should be led by the waiter to the table.
6. When you leave the table, you should help the elders or women in the next seat to drag the seat.
(B) the use of napkins
1, napkins mainly to prevent dirty clothes, and do wipe the mouth and hands of oil stains.
2. You must wait until everyone is seated before using the napkin.
3, the napkin should be spread out, placed on both knees on the upper thigh, do not tie the belt, or hanging in the suit collar.
4, do not use the napkin to wipe the tableware.
(3) General etiquette at the table
1. After taking your seat, you should have a proper posture, with your feet under your seat, and you should not straighten your elbows arbitrarily, and you should not lean on the edge of the table or put your hands on the backs of your neighbors' chairs.
2, dining should be gentle and elegant, calm and quiet, not impatient.
3, at the table can not only care about themselves, but also care about others, especially to greet the female guests on both sides.
4, there is food in the mouth, you should avoid talking.
5, self-use cutlery can not reach into the communal plate to clip the dishes.
6, must be small mouth to eat, do not large mouth stuffing, food end of swallowing, can not be stuffed into the mouth.
7. To take food and scoop up soup, use communal chopsticks and spoons.
8. You can't spit out what you've eaten. If the food is hot, you can drink water or juice to cool it down.
9. When sending food into the mouth, both elbows should be leaning inward, not spreading straight to the sides and touching the neighboring seats.
10, their hands holding a knife and fork, or others in the chewing food, should avoid talking to people or toast.
11, good eating is food on the mouth, not the mouth on the food. Food with meter, can not be sent to the mouth in a hurry, otherwise the soup drops on the tablecloth, extremely indecent.
12, do not use your fingers to pull out the teeth, the application of toothpicks, and hand or handkerchief to cover.
13, avoid coughing, sneezing, vomiting at the table. In case you can not help it, you should say "sorry".
14, drinking should be casual, toast to the gift to the end, do not persuade, guessing, yelling.
15, such as tableware falling to the ground, you can ask the waiter to pick up.
16, in case of accidents, such as accidentally splashing wine, water, soup to the clothes of others, to apologize, do not panic to make amends, but make each other embarrassed.
17, if you want to get in front of other guests at the same table condiments, you should ask the neighboring guests to help pass, do not reach across, long drive to take things.
18, such as the host personally cooked food, do not forget to give the master appreciation.
19, if you eat unclean or strange flavor, do not swallow, should be the entrance to the food, gently with the thumb and forefinger to remove, into the plate. If you find that you have not yet eaten, still in the dish with insects and debris, do not be alarmed, it is appropriate to waiter approach, gently tell the waiter to replace.
20, after eating, the tableware must be neatly arranged, not messy placement. Napkins should also be folded and placed on the table.
21, the main meal is in progress, should not smoke, if you need to smoke, must first ask the neighbor's consent.
22, eating in the restaurant, can not rush to pay the bill, push and pull to pay, to the indecent. If you are a guest, you can not rush to pay the bill. Without the consent of friends, it is not appropriate to pay on behalf of friends.
23, the speed of eating, it is appropriate to synchronize with the male and female hosts, not too fast, not too slow.
24, the table can not talk about sad things, otherwise it will destroy the happy atmosphere.
3. Idioms about civilized etiquette, and civilized etiquette-related four-word idioms文质彬彬,彬有礼, 禮贤下士, 知書达理, 相敬如宾
A. 文质彬 [ wén zhì bīn bīn ]
Interpretation: 文：文采; 质：实质; 彬彬: describes the appropriate fit. Originally, it describes a person who is both elegant and simple, and later it describes a person who is elegant and polite.
Derived from: Warring States, Confucius, "Analects of Confucius - Yongya": "WenQiBinBin, and then a gentleman."
Translation: the culture is well integrated, and then people will be elegant and courteous.
Second, Binbin Yǒu Lǐ [ bīn bīn yǒu lǐ ]
Explanation: Binbin: the original meaning is the appearance of both texture and quality, and then describe the elegance. It describes the elegant and courteous appearance.
From: Western Han Dynasty, Sima Qian, "The Records of the Grand Historian (史记-太史公自序)"："Shusun Tong set the rules of etiquette, and his literature was a little bit more polite.
Translation: Shusuntong set up the etiquette, and then he went forward with elegance and politeness.
Explanation: To treat those who have talent and virtue with courtesy, and to befriend those who have talent in general without regard to their status.
Derived from: Tetu, Alutu, etc., "The Book of Song - Jiangxia Literature Wang Yigong Biography": "Treating the virtuous with courtesy and respect, the saints have taught us."
Translation: Treating talented and virtuous people with courtesy is a famous saying left by the sages.
Four: Zhī shū dá lǐ (知书达理)
Explanation: To have knowledge and to be courteous. It refers to people who are cultured and educated.
Derived from: Yuan - Wu Ming's Feng Yulan (冯玉兰): "I know the book and the manners, how can I be talked about?"
Translation: "I should be careful in my reading and understanding of etiquette, how can I wear it out and not show my ugly face to be talked about."
V. Respect each other as a guest [ xiāng jìng rú bīn ]
Explanation: It describes that the husband and the wife respect each other as if treating the guest as the same.
Translation: Uuji's envoy passed by Ji, saw Ji lack of weed, his wife accompanied by one side, respect, treat each other like guests
4. Table manners idiomsWenwen Erya [wēn wén ěr yǎ]
生词本
基本释义
Wen Wen: gentle and courteous attitude; Erya: literate and elegant. It describes a person with a mild attitude and a gentle demeanor. Existing time also refers to the lack of struggle, do not do things bold and spirited, no intrusion.
Testimonials
Origin
Qing Pu Songling's "Liaozhai Zhiyi": "The governor was shocked and said: 'This son of a famous scholar; gentle and elegant; how can he be a thief!'"
Example sentences
At the opening ceremony of the Asian Games, ~ the Miss Manners left a wonderful impression on the Chinese and foreign guests.
Near Antonyms
Near Synonyms
Well-mannered, Bing Bing courteous, gentle and thick
Antonyms
Stormy, Stormy and Attachment
5. Idioms of Civilization and Etiquette,Idioms of Civilization and EtiquetteIdioms of Civilization and Etiquette
Bing Bing courteous, Modest, Modest and Cautious, Respectful to Virtue and Honorable, Respectful to Virtue. Honoring the wise and respecting the wise is not a matter of pride, but a matter of elegance. A kind man is kind to his father and filial to his son; he is modest and courteous; he is kind to his heart and kind to his people; he is open to others; he is courteous to others; he is not reserved